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Do some men genuinly like humiliation due to their cock size?
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By *errywild OP Woman 13 weeks ago
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I cannot imagine anything more humiliating, degrading, disrespectful than telling your man on camera for everyyone else to hear, or even in private, that his cock is small and inadequate.
So my genuine question is, do some men genuinly like, enjoy, want this from a woman? |
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By *olfiMan 13 weeks ago
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There are some people that enjoy it.
Personally it's not for me, I spent enough of my life hating my size and as a by product hating myself because of it.
I can't imagine getting turned on by somebody taking the piss out of it |
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Some people just genuinely like humiliation. Regardless of their actual physical attributes.
I remember coming across a sub at an event who had SPH on his wants list, but also a cock like a well endowed horse 💜 |
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Some men genuinely enjoy it. If that's their vibe then good luck to them.
Personally, I wouldn't be impressed if a woman made a contemptuous remark about my penis. That's never happened - the women I meet know better. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Some men genuinely enjoy it. If that's their vibe then good luck to them.
Personally, I wouldn't be impressed if a woman made a contemptuous remark about my penis. That's never happened - the women I meet know better."
This is also why I only meet women with tiny hands.👐 |
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By *avexxMan 13 weeks ago
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"Some men genuinely enjoy it. If that's their vibe then good luck to them.
Personally, I wouldn't be impressed if a woman made a contemptuous remark about my penis. That's never happened - the women I meet know better.
This is also why I only meet women with tiny hands.👐"
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"I cannot imagine anything more humiliating, degrading, disrespectful than telling your man on camera for everyyone else to hear, or even in private, that his cock is small and inadequate.
So my genuine question is, do some men genuinly like, enjoy, want this from a woman?"
I have a recurring nightmare that I'm naked in a public place with lots of people pointing and laughing at me.
It's a genuine thing thati can't think of too many things that would traumatise me more.
I am genuinely embarrassed by mine and if that happened as you described I can't see me ever getting naked in front of anyone ever again.
Even though we have been together for 40 years I still get embarrassed taking my clothes off in front of Jools.
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It's actually quite a common fetish. I've been asked numerous times to participate in SPH over the years.
Very rarely oblige as it's not really my thing, and when I do, it's not the sort of humiliation they are seeking. I've found the best way to humiliate someone who is trying to draw focus onto Thier cock is to remove it from the equation, by refusing to acknowledge it.
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By *vaRoseWoman 13 weeks ago
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Not my kink but yeah lots of guys enjoy it and it really doesn’t seem remotely relevant what size they’re packing. I’ve had messages from guys really hung as well as those more modestly endowed. |
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Surely it takes two. I could not humiliate anyone. Not even if he enjoyed it and asked for it.
So.... im assuming that the humiliator has to enjoy that also ... it would bother me psychologically to demean another deliberately and to go further, I know it changes the humiliator. |
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Is it really all that unusual?
In a world that people love to put their mouths in areas where shit and piss come from (and some even enjoy the extremes of that - no judgement, you do you) is humiliation on any level really all that unusual?
Some people get highly sexually aroused from pain, fear, being in controlled danger (some even being in genuine danger), helplessness, servitude etc the list goes on.
Do I understand how or why it makes them enjoy it? Not really, but nothing surprises me anymore. |
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By *errywild OP Woman 13 weeks ago
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I just find it interesting, psychologically. Also it would be interesting to know if there are women who enjoy being told in this kind of disrespectful way they have small breasts, big ass, flappy lips etc |
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I like to wear women's lingerie, stocking, whatever I can get my hands on really, and one of my fantasies is to be watched in person or on cam wanking while the woman verbally abuses me, taking the piss out of my dick size and whatever else she may think of,I know its not that small, I know im not weird or a freak but I'd like to try the humiliation, just like I'd like to try other fetish's |
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"I just find it interesting, psychologically. Also it would be interesting to know if there are women who enjoy being told in this kind of disrespectful way they have small breasts, big ass, flappy lips etc"
Yes there are women that enjoy it. Likely less, and most definitely not as vocal about it but they exist.
Women as a whole compared to men are less open and forward about revealing the extremes of their fetishes and kinks - not all men and women. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Compliments are my turn on even though I’m self aware enough to know that the person is just being kind..
And far too self conscious about things that I would enjoy having negative/ humiliating messages from someone 🙃 |
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Humiliation or degradation is as hard a no as I could ever give.
As much as I understand how the brain can be wired to take pleasure from the experience, that is not how I am wired.
Anyone who dishes that out is not someone I would want to know. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Humiliation or degradation is as hard a no as I could ever give.
As much as I understand how the brain can be wired to take pleasure from the experience, that is not how I am wired.
Anyone who dishes that out is not someone I would want to know."
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By *reya73Woman 8 weeks ago
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Humiliation is fascinating .. I think it can be a way of shedding all responsibility for the person being humiliated, a relief from having to achieve anything and being allowed to be absolutely useless and not needed or wanted.
People I've played power dynamics with and cock humiliation have often been people with big responsibilities or high pressure jobs in life. Enjoy fully surrendering
It's a creative, pleasurable ritual way to take back control over past traumas for some.
Being so vulnerable can bring deep intimacy and trust too.
Psychology of kink is quite interesting.
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Absolutely they do. It's a power exchange kink and definitely not for everyone but it's something that Mr P buzzes on. If I have a partner with a bigger cock, I'll hold both in my hands and make a big deal about comparing them 😈. It's on our video to-do list.
As with any kink, it's all about consent and communication. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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I know I’m small, I stopped producing hormones after radiation treatment due to cancer. So went a long time without testosterone and other hormones, it left me vulnerable to illness and also the lack of testosterone began to shrink my cock, I didn’t have a sex drive either it took me 4 years to diagnose me.
I was married at the time and we agreed my wife could have sex with other men to satisfy her sexual needs but stay with me. I was 6.5 inches before cancer and now much smaller
After seeing an endocrinologist consultant, I was able to take tablets and injection to replace the hormones I couldn’t produce naturally as the radiation treatment had stopped my pituitary gland working.
We began having sex again but i couldn’t feel her when i was inside her, also cum with her wanking and blow jobs, until she read 50 shades of grey and we started anal. My ex wife would comment on my size which I began to enjoy as she compared me to some of the men she had slept with.
I’ve been dealt a bad hand but I’m making the most of it now, I don’t get any complaints about the performance I give , don’t mind a woman joking about my size either. Good lilucknto everyone |
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"I cannot imagine anything more humiliating, degrading, disrespectful than telling your man on camera for everyyone else to hear, or even in private, that his cock is small and inadequate.
So my genuine question is, do some men genuinly like, enjoy, want this from a woman?"
obviously a mental state possibly from incidents in childhood |
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"I cannot imagine anything more humiliating, degrading, disrespectful than telling your man on camera for everyyone else to hear, or even in private, that his cock is small and inadequate.
So my genuine question is, do some men genuinly like, enjoy, want this from a woman?"
I’ve enjoyed some forms of humiliation but my cock isn’t small enough for this type of humiliation |
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My wife has a preference for bigger cocked men and often states this. I Find the fact that she clearly finds my efforts and cock size unsatifactory a big turn, especially during a meet. So I love it . |
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For the record I am not a naturally mean or dominant person - TheHusband does like a bit of humiliation, nothing too full on... I'll cage him up when I go to see TheBF, when I come home I'll make him clean me up, Ill tell him about the size of TheBF
.... And TheHusband loves it 😈 |
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"It's actually quite a common fetish. I've been asked numerous times to participate in SPH over the years.
Very rarely oblige as it's not really my thing, and when I do, it's not the sort of humiliation they are seeking. I've found the best way to humiliate someone who is trying to draw focus onto Thier cock is to remove it from the equation, by refusing to acknowledge it.
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As someone who is caged, that would be my ideal! |
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"My wife sometimes mentioned the size of my cock, just thought it was a bit of fun until, one day, I overheard her laughing about it when talking to her sister. I felt physically sick."
SPH is something my partner & I play with, especially when she arranges a meet for me. She'll tell my how small my cock is & why I need the real thing.
It's a game we play that took some confirmation from me because she was worried about hurting me.
Afterwards she will reassure me.
I can't imagine how you felt overhearing such words, SPH is purely between consenting adults in a role play situation. |
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