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As I've aged i have sex less often which is a normal part of life. On apps such as Fab interest in older guys isn't what it would be for a 35 year old sadly. Get messaging and push yourself rather than bemoan the lack of sex, if you make the effort you'll get the rewards.....eventually. |
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Mate, I've seen more than a handful of profiles where the person or even couple are looking for someone older. 50 and above. You just have to search for them. Like others have already said, put yourself out there.
Also be careful. There are scammers and fakes on here unfortunately. Safety first. Have fun. 👍🏾☺️ |
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Come on now Colin, nobody is going to suck your cock if you have a defeatist attitude!
Chest out, shoulders back and chin up! You could always put your name down for gang bangs/group fun or attend your nearest Club? |
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"Come on now Colin, nobody is going to suck your cock if you have a defeatist attitude!
Chest out, shoulders back and chin up! You could always put your name down for gang bangs/group fun or attend your nearest Club? "
I’m sensing sex life here also means love life. Companionship. It makes me sad! |
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"Come on now Colin, nobody is going to suck your cock if you have a defeatist attitude!
Chest out, shoulders back and chin up! You could always put your name down for gang bangs/group fun or attend your nearest Club?
I’m sensing sex life here also means love life. Companionship. It makes me sad!"
Well then I’d add join a local hobby group, join an over 60’s dating site - anything that gets you out of the house and likely to meet people. It’s not easy but it’s a start. |
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"Come on now Colin, nobody is going to suck your cock if you have a defeatist attitude!
Chest out, shoulders back and chin up! You could always put your name down for gang bangs/group fun or attend your nearest Club?
I’m sensing sex life here also means love life. Companionship. It makes me sad!
Well then I’d add join a local hobby group, join an over 60’s dating site - anything that gets you out of the house and likely to meet people. It’s not easy but it’s a start."
There's also some right goers at the WI.  |
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"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has
come to an end ,pardon the pun !!"
The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s
While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷♀️
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"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has
come to an end ,pardon the pun !!
The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s
While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷♀️
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Aren't they just more likely to forget about condoms ? I'm only 55 but am always losing my glasses! |
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"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has
come to an end ,pardon the pun !!
The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s
While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷♀️
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Are you sure they don’t just think Herpes is delivering their parcels? |
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"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has
come to an end ,pardon the pun !!
The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s
While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷♀️
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It's because they didn't have the sex education that younger generations have and they think STIs only happen to 'dirty' people |
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"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has
come to an end ,pardon the pun !!
The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s
While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷♀️
Aren't they just more likely to forget about condoms ? I'm only 55 but am always losing my glasses!"
Try using binoculars  |
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"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has
come to an end ,pardon the pun !!
The highest growth rates of STIs are in the over 70s
While this is not a good thing obviously its a pretty good indication that the sex lives of that age group are alive and kicking 🤷♀️
Are you sure they don’t just think Herpes is delivering their parcels? "
Bravo ! 👏 🤣 |
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I'm 80 and I recently unsubscribed from the extremely resourceful dating site which I was using long before I became a fab member.
I have got more than enough contacts remaining in my little book of colour to see me through for the foreseeable...
You are giving up far too easily, OP. Still a youngster. |
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"at 61 i think l have to accept that my sex life has
come to an end ,pardon the pun !!"
Absolutely rubbish. My father was still having a bloody good time until he passed away in his late 80s. He had been attending kestrels until about 2 years before he passed.. his partner ( well one of them) was only a few years older than me...
When I had to clear his place out I found letters and photos ladies had sent him ( therapy was almost required)
He just got out there and mingled... in his 60s I know he had several partners and was clubbing on a semi regular basis.
( I found this out later on)
He would have said life is what you make of it, go out and find what tickles your fancy..
Cali. |
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"Come on now Colin, nobody is going to suck your cock if you have a defeatist attitude!
Chest out, shoulders back and chin up! You could always put your name down for gang bangs/group fun or attend your nearest Club?
That's the kind of spirit that gave us victory in two world wars.. I salute you!"
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I am 76, and it certainly isn't over.
Yes, the opportunities are fewer, and even when they do occur, rather more stimulation and foreplay are required to get a good rise to attention, so satisfying sex is now more like once a week or so than the 3 times a day I could manage 50 years ago! |
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