"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what? "
I bet 50 to 60 percent are just here for the frill of trying to see someone they know with no intentions of ever swinging.
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By *eyeYCouple 15 weeks ago
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Applaud those who show their faces here!
We volunteer ours early in any interaction, but withhold from public view purely in the belief our choices shouldn't impact the people we love 😘 |
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I use to show face pics , never had any backlash of that type , for me it’s the fact it brings so much attention and traffic to your account ( great if that’s what you’re looking for ) , but did end up with a stalker from it , so I now try to have a pic of myself instead of the usual stamp headshot, occasionally I slip and add it publicly but then soon remove it when the messages come flooding in |
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"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what? I bet 50 to 60 percent are just here for the frill of trying to see someone they know with no intentions of ever swinging."
Really ??? I don't think anyone goes on fab to see if anyone they know is on here. |
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"So for those who choose to show your face on here. Have you had any backlash from vanilla friends or people you know, work colleagues?
This always scares me. "
Nothing so far and wouldn’t necessarily care either being honest.
Having woman/couples able to see a face pic of a guy they want to potentially meet would be important for many factors. Can fully understand and respect why most couples and especially woman would want to hide their faces with the fact of stalkers etc. |
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I couldn't give a shit personally. If people don't like what I choose to do in my private life, with other consenting adults, then it's Thier problem.
Also, it's very hard to be outed, when you are already out. |
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"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what? this "
I think this is quite a naive approach.
Just because someone who knows you is also on here doesn't mean it can't still cause you trouble.
That's putting a little too much faith in other people. |
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No backlash from anyone as it’s no one’s business.
I think face pics as essential as it’s the first point of attraction for me. Also by me showing loads of face pics it helps let guys know if I’m they’re type and if I’m right for them. |
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Things that bother me the most is in the work place and damaging my job. Second is small minded people, who don’t necessarily need to admit to being on here but could say a friend seen them on here. And the thought that those that do know you’re on here thinking they can rock up to your home or work.
I prefer to stay anonymous until I find a meet then share, as they say don’t shit on your own door step so looking for meets no to close to home.
I guess if in a different job I might not care so much |
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I (Thistle) used to show mine on my single page when I had one here - but now I’m with Bambi, her work dictates that we have to be a little more discreet, pretty simple for us really.
Face pics are generally shared quickly with people we’d be looking to meet with socially or otherwise. |
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Never had anything happen because I showed my face on here. Everyone in the lifestyle is in the same boat so if someone recognises you then guess what?, They are in the lifestyle too, im sure they want to be discreet too so they'll keep quiet too. Besides that I couldn't care less if people know, I'm an adult and dont care what people think of me. My favourite saying is "those mind dont matter, those who matter dont mind"
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"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what? "
Well they could be a hidden profile here for a perv and hide behind 'a friend told me you xyz amd sent pics...'
People like to cause trouble for sport and spite |
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"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what?
Well they could be a hidden profile here for a perv and hide behind 'a friend told me you xyz amd sent pics...'
People like to cause trouble for sport and spite"
Easily dealt with:
‘Your “friend”. Alright mate. The police can talk to you and you can tell them how they contact this “friend”.’ |
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"I couldn't give a shit personally. If people don't like what I choose to do in my private life, with other consenting adults, then it's Thier problem.
Also, it's very hard to be outed, when you are already out."
Exactly this xx
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"If they can see your face on here, they’re also on here. So backlash about what?
Well they could be a hidden profile here for a perv and hide behind 'a friend told me you xyz amd sent pics...'
People like to cause trouble for sport and spite
Easily dealt with:
‘Your “friend”. Alright mate. The police can talk to you and you can tell them how they contact this “friend”.’"
Yeah, but whether they get punished or not, you still have to live with the damage they've already done to your life. |
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