We met via Fab, and so communicating openly and honestly about sex and sexual fantasies has been there from day 1. We both have very open minds and we enjoy exploring them together.
We did step away from Fab for the first year of our relationship but frequently spoke of it, and how we could return as a couple. That idea brought out a new level of conversation and discussion around boundaries etc.
We have been here as a couple for 9 years. We have a very secure relationship and have navigated the highs & lows of swinging together extremely well.
Mrs S&N
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"Something that’s always intrigued me, particularly with couples - what led to you first dipping in your toe into the lifestyle?"
I was out with my ex years ago (at that time, my partner), and an Italian woman came onto me hard and was all over me. I went off the dance floor and apologised to my other half, and I said I was trying to get rid of her.
But to my surprise my partner didn’t mind and told me to carry on. So I did, and I brought that woman back home.
And from there I started being more open minded. Though we never became officially “swingers”, that was a one off. But it set the ball in motion in my mind. |
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Always wanted to try it for years but never had the courage to ask any partner until about 5 years ago and after many,many glasses of dutch courage I just came out with it and asked..shockingly she was interested !
Never regretted it since  |
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I got chatting to a couple in a country park they invited me back to their camper for "a cup of rea" and soon realised there was more to this she kept flashing various body parts at me. After the fun they gave me some pointers for the future. |
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We met on Fab, so no mystery how we got started as a couple. But same we love to hear how couples got started, especially when they've been together as a vanilla couple for so long. It one thing we normally ask when we get chatting to couples. Love hearing the stories and there's been some great and funny ones over the years. Also a couple of like accidental ones, more like swinging found them rather than them found swing.
Love all these stories. And a lot of them are proper love stories. Love the bravery, honesty and trust in a relationship to bring this idea up in the first place. It's also funny how often the most reluctant partner turns out to be the one loving it the most.
Great stuff, keep the stories going. |
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"HOW DID YOU GET STARTED - Something that’s always intrigued me, particularly with couples - what led to you first dipping in your toe into the lifestyle?"
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Me and TheHusband have been together 25yrs, we're solid, very happy and secure
We started talking about being with the same person for the rest of our lives
Hubby said he likes it when other men pay me attention and that he'd love me to have a relationship with another man and for me to tell him all about
To take photos and videos of me with the other man and send them to hubby
So we joined here and I got myself a BF 😈 we've been seeing each other for over a year now and everyone involved is happy
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