Hello lovelies
I was just curiously pondering …
When it comes to fab do you think you’re good at keeping it simple ? Able to keep it casual (in some cases im aware others want more ) or do you overthink things?
Is wanting to interact / message / flow seen as too keen?
I love the build up part of it all too … |
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I am excellent at keeping it simple. This can be misinterpreted as lack of interest sometimes but the vast majority of people we have met have no interest in anything more than superficial relationships.
I don't overthink either if they stop talking or don't ask for another meet I might wonder why for a very short period but I know that it's because they don't want to see or speak to us again for some reason or another and that's fine. You can't be liked by everyone |
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"I am excellent at keeping it simple. This can be misinterpreted as lack of interest sometimes but the vast majority of people we have met have no interest in anything more than superficial relationships.
I don't overthink either if they stop talking or don't ask for another meet I might wonder why for a very short period but I know that it's because they don't want to see or speak to us again for some reason or another and that's fine. You can't be liked by everyone "
That’s very true …. Can’t be everyone’s cup of tea |
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By *eliWoman 15 weeks ago
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Yeah as in terms of what works for me/what doesn't. I don't really overthink things, I've never wanted more from someone who doesn't want more from me, never spent time complaining on the forums about things. Longing for another who sees me as needy etc. Never been ghosted or cancelled on last minute. So my form of simple works for me. 😊 Doesn't mean I don't get it wrong but yeah... Fab is a small part of my life that brings me a lot of joy.
I like talking. Wanting to message/interact with someone isn't in itself keen. It might be that you're not compatible with another though.
Enjoying the build up isn't a bad thing, OP. |
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