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How many unread messages have you got?
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By *ay9971 OP Man 8 weeks ago
Rochdale |
"A big fat zero.
It might just mean we are good with our fab admin 🤣
Or in my case, I don’t get many messages lol
We rarely get messages.
We aren't meeting so we are fine with that"
That’s another interesting variable I have not thought about 😔
Is it a good thing you don’t get spammed with messages or nah 😬 |
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By *ORBCouple 8 weeks ago
Dundalk |
"A big fat zero.
It might just mean we are good with our fab admin 🤣
Or in my case, I don’t get many messages lol
We rarely get messages.
We aren't meeting so we are fine with that
That’s another interesting variable I have not thought about 😔
Is it a good thing you don’t get spammed with messages or nah 😬"
Our profile is worded in such a way to put most people off even if we were meeting and when we aren't it's a complete waste of people's time sending messages.
The odd one that we do get is from those who aren't capable of reading the very first line.
Since we created this profile about 3 years ago or so we have had roughly 50 messages in total and half of those have been since we added that first line. |
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By *ay9971 OP Man 8 weeks ago
Rochdale |
"A big fat zero.
It might just mean we are good with our fab admin 🤣
Or in my case, I don’t get many messages lol
We rarely get messages.
We aren't meeting so we are fine with that
That’s another interesting variable I have not thought about 😔
Is it a good thing you don’t get spammed with messages or nah 😬
Our profile is worded in such a way to put most people off even if we were meeting and when we aren't it's a complete waste of people's time sending messages.
The odd one that we do get is from those who aren't capable of reading the very first line.
Since we created this profile about 3 years ago or so we have had roughly 50 messages in total and half of those have been since we added that first line. "
Just had a gander and it’s super clear. I guess you can kinda say it’s working then  |
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By *ay9971 OP Man 8 weeks ago
Rochdale |
"I have a hypothesis. Single men will have very low and single females will have quite high…..let’s see how this plays out.
I think that’s got a fair chance of being correct  "
I am already quite surprised tbh but there are variables I hadn’t considered…. |
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By *hortieWoman 8 weeks ago
Northampton |
"I have a hypothesis. Single men will have very low and single females will have quite high…..let’s see how this plays out.
I am least surprised at some of the low numbers tbh  "
I'm only speaking for myself here.. but I like a tidy inbox. I log in.. maybe have 1-10 messages.. I can see instantly all I need to know, and yeet them into the bin.
It really is that easy *for me*. |
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By *ay9971 OP Man 8 weeks ago
Rochdale |
"I have a hypothesis. Single men will have very low and single females will have quite high…..let’s see how this plays out.
I am least surprised at some of the low numbers tbh
I'm only speaking for myself here.. but I like a tidy inbox. I log in.. maybe have 1-10 messages.. I can see instantly all I need to know, and yeet them into the bin.
It really is that easy *for me*. "
Same I like a tidy inbox but mine is way easier to manage than some peoples for sure x |
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By *ay9971 OP Man 8 weeks ago
Rochdale |
"Absolutely none, i rarely get messages 😊
I’m guessing the filters are keeping singles guys at bay then lol
Thats what they are for 🤣🤣"
Indeed they are. I know them too well cos I’ve been on the other side 🤣🤣 |
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By *ay9971 OP Man 8 weeks ago
Rochdale |
"Absolutely none, i rarely get messages 😊
Might have something to do with locking us single males out! fair play though, I would as well…..
Still lovely photos x"
I’d probably block single men if I was her too lol 🤣 |
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By *ay9971 OP Man 8 weeks ago
Rochdale |
"Currently at 20, but that was after a ruthless cull from 178, I'm lazy at fabmin (and crap or too shy at replying) 😂"
How long did the ruthless cull take 😳
And don’t be shy lol. Drop them a wink or something lol |
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"6 at the moment.
That’s kinda low 😳"
This is after deleting about 15-20 today from people who hadn't bothered reading my profile. In my personal experience here, quantity doesn't equate to quality. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"21... but usually try keep it under 5
5 is a nice number I guess. Arbitrary but nice and manageable. "
Yeah as soon as its around 20 my anxiety just cant handle it |
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By *ay9971 OP Man 8 weeks ago
Rochdale |
"6 at the moment.
That’s kinda low 😳
This is after deleting about 15-20 today from people who hadn't bothered reading my profile. In my personal experience here, quantity doesn't equate to quality."
You are right. I didn’t factor in low quality messages |
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By *ay9971 OP Man 8 weeks ago
Rochdale |
"21... but usually try keep it under 5
5 is a nice number I guess. Arbitrary but nice and manageable.
Yeah as soon as its around 20 my anxiety just cant handle it "
My anxiety has been left untouched on here 🤣 |
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32 unread currently, before a delete all this morning 118  I feel bad but I just can't reply to all so have to delete all. Like, if I block a group from messaging me, can I still send a message out and get a reply back? |
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"32 unread currently, before a delete all this morning 118 I feel bad but I just can't reply to all so have to delete all. Like, if I block a group from messaging me, can I still send a message out and get a reply back?"
I think so. I'm blocked from messaging you but I think you can message me |
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