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You get men message you, saying “you’re so much hotter than my wife/gf, you’re so much better than her” etc. I shout at them and then I block them. Treat your partner with respect.
I’m not interested in nasty, small minded men. Moreover, if he talks about her like that what is he going to say about me? Nasty, mean, sadistic outlook that’s being driven by their immature Ego |
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I've seen this posted about on here so they do exist.
There's a big difference between dating marrieds and specifically getting off on the married part because you've lured the other person in. Some take it as a compliment and think it means they're 'better' or 'hotter' than the betrayed spouse. |
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"I've seen this posted about on here so they do exist.
There's a big difference between dating marrieds and specifically getting off on the married part because you've lured the other person in. Some take it as a compliment and think it means they're 'better' or 'hotter' than the betrayed spouse."
Thanks that helps my inquisitive nature |
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"You get men message you, saying “you’re so much hotter than my wife/gf, you’re so much better than her” etc. I shout at them and then I block them. Treat your partner with respect.
I’m not interested in nasty, small minded men. Moreover, if he talks about her like that what is he going to say about me? Nasty, mean, sadistic outlook that’s being driven by their immature Ego "
That’s a No then… |
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"I used to go with married men, not because it turned me on it was just easier
Did yiu ever spate a thought to the families of these men?
Not that they are any better."
Why should she be the morality police for other people? |
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I beleive the title of the thread was are you into it or not, pretty much just requires a yes or no answer really not a I’m gonna jump in judge u and tell you what I think of you answer
Happy Wednesday all  |
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"I beleive the title of the thread was are you into it or not, pretty much just requires a yes or no answer really not a I’m gonna jump in judge u and tell you what I think of you answer
Happy Wednesday all "
These threads always end up a morality pissing competition and people telling people there morally wrong. Let people do what they want i say  |
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I guess some people take their vows more seriously than others. We personally avoid any form of cheating because we don’t want the drama that can come with it. Not judging anyone though, your life, your marriage, your business not ours  |
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I think as long as whoever is involved can happily cope with the potential fallout then. Let them. The issue ( i have several but im no one elses moral compass) is when the cheater be it m or f doesn’t inform the person they’re meeting of their status so they don’t get to make an informed decision. Potentially being embroiled in drama they neither wanted or accepted the risk of. That’s my 2p used  |
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"I think as long as whoever is involved can happily cope with the potential fallout then. Let them. The issue ( i have several but im no one elses moral compass) is when the cheater be it m or f doesn’t inform the person they’re meeting of their status so they don’t get to make an informed decision. Potentially being embroiled in drama they neither wanted or accepted the risk of. That’s my 2p used "
This is exactly the reason we avoid cheaters it’s not because we are judging them but because swinging for us is a laid back fun hobbie and we don’t want any form of drama or to be the reason a marriage breaks down or the family falls apart. I think if someone is cheating they should at least be honest so like you say you can make an informed decision. |
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"You get men message you, saying “you’re so much hotter than my wife/gf, you’re so much better than her” etc. I shout at them and then I block them. Treat your partner with respect.
I’m not interested in nasty, small minded men. Moreover, if he talks about her like that what is he going to say about me? Nasty, mean, sadistic outlook that’s being driven by their immature Ego
That’s a No then…"
I think you may be misinterpreting the sentiment. I had only rated the response as 'uncertain'.  |
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Cards on the table i am married.
Yes. I have tried everything. Doesn't work.
Whatever I say is taken as if being critical, or its just ignored.
I just want a laugh. Even if its just on here. Flirting or whatever.
Just make me smile. Thats all |
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Is it hot?
Yeah, a bit, but also it's people's lives man, children, family etc just for a fuck?
Sex is fantastic but life is more than just sex and when you're talking about marriage, and love, it's cruel.
Cheaters can destroy people, fracture their entire life, so yeah it's a bit of a turn on, but the risk/damage way outweighs the pleasure imo
Maybe over thinking it, but for me you cannot do that to somebody |
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If you want to play the field because you aren't getting it at home, have the bollocks to say.
If she/he doesn't want to allow it, and you want to, then you leave.
Anything else is, imo, the behaviour of a coward. |
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"Is it hot?
Yeah, a bit, but also it's people's lives man, children, family etc just for a fuck?
Sex is fantastic but life is more than just sex and when you're talking about marriage, and love, it's cruel.
Cheaters can destroy people, fracture their entire life, so yeah it's a bit of a turn on, but the risk/damage way outweighs the pleasure imo
Maybe over thinking it, but for me you cannot do that to somebody "
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Yes, you're overthinking it with your incongruous response. The OP was asking "how many ladies out there get a kick out of having illicit sex with a married man...?".
Positive and negative answers apply but you don't need to deconstruct the moral compasses around the ethics of it all. |
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"Is it hot?
Yeah, a bit, but also it's people's lives man, children, family etc just for a fuck?
Sex is fantastic but life is more than just sex and when you're talking about marriage, and love, it's cruel.
Cheaters can destroy people, fracture their entire life, so yeah it's a bit of a turn on, but the risk/damage way outweighs the pleasure imo
Maybe over thinking it, but for me you cannot do that to somebody
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Yes, you're overthinking it with your incongruous response. The OP was asking "how many ladies out there get a kick out of having illicit sex with a married man...?".
Positive and negative answers apply but you don't need to deconstruct the moral compasses around the ethics of it all."
Why not? |
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"I used to go with married men, not because it turned me on it was just easier
Did yiu ever spate a thought to the families of these men?
Not that they are any better.
Why should she be the morality police for other people?"
TT26, What was it you said about someone with one leg and going shoe shopping? 😂 😂 😂 😂 |
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"I used to go with married men, not because it turned me on it was just easier
Did yiu ever spate a thought to the families of these men?
Not that they are any better.
Why should she be the morality police for other people?
TT26, What was it you said about someone with one leg and going shoe shopping? 😂 😂 😂 😂 "
Its still as true. 🤣 i was waiting for you i love the hand up ❤️ |
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"Not a lot on here to be fair, ive been trying for a long time🤣🤣
Why have a just read your username in a Scottish accent 😂
Literally did the same thing 🤣"
This is today's ear worm 😂
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"I used to go with married men, not because it turned me on it was just easier
Did yiu ever spate a thought to the families of these men?
Not that they are any better.
Why should she be the morality police for other people?
TT26, What was it you said about someone with one leg and going shoe shopping? 😂 😂 😂 😂
Its still as true. 🤣 i was waiting for you i love the hand up ❤️"
*hi5* 😂 |
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I know a man who cheated on his wife, he had a tattoo saying only god can judge me. Turns out his tattoo was wrong, the drama unfolded and long story short, hes currently single and alone, turns out he can be judged by others 🤣 |
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"Not a lot on here to be fair, ive been trying for a long time🤣🤣
Why have a just read your username in a Scottish accent 😂
Literally did the same thing 🤣
This is today's ear worm 😂
PurpleburglaralarmPurpleburglaralarm
PurpleburglaralarmPurpleburglaralarm
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Get him to say Curleywhirly |
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"Is it hot?
Yeah, a bit, but also it's people's lives man, children, family etc just for a fuck?
Sex is fantastic but life is more than just sex and when you're talking about marriage, and love, it's cruel.
Cheaters can destroy people, fracture their entire life, so yeah it's a bit of a turn on, but the risk/damage way outweighs the pleasure imo
Maybe over thinking it, but for me you cannot do that to somebody
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Yes, you're overthinking it with your incongruous response. The OP was asking "how many ladies out there get a kick out of having illicit sex with a married man...?".
Positive and negative answers apply but you don't need to deconstruct the moral compasses around the ethics of it all.
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Why not?"
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Let me (attempt to) make it simple for you:
If the thread had resembled something like "Hey guys, what do you think of marriage cheats, infidelity or those who engage in illicit encounters behind their partner's back?" then perhaps your comment would have merit. It didn't, because it didn't align with the spirit of the thread. But you do you. 🖤 |
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"Is it hot?
Yeah, a bit, but also it's people's lives man, children, family etc just for a fuck?
Sex is fantastic but life is more than just sex and when you're talking about marriage, and love, it's cruel.
Cheaters can destroy people, fracture their entire life, so yeah it's a bit of a turn on, but the risk/damage way outweighs the pleasure imo
Maybe over thinking it, but for me you cannot do that to somebody
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Yes, you're overthinking it with your incongruous response. The OP was asking "how many ladies out there get a kick out of having illicit sex with a married man...?".
Positive and negative answers apply but you don't need to deconstruct the moral compasses around the ethics of it all.
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Why not?
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Let me (attempt to) make it simple for you:
If the thread had resembled something like "Hey guys, what do you think of marriage cheats, infidelity or those who engage in illicit encounters behind their partner's back?" then perhaps your comment would have merit. It didn't, because it didn't align with the spirit of the thread. But you do you. 🖤"
Interesting you choose me, multiple people have done the same, but I guess they had vaginas |
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"Interesting you choose me, multiple people have done the same, but I guess they had vaginas "
I mean, the question was specifically aimed at vagina owners. Even if their responses were less than positive they do have a bit more skin in the game 💜 |
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"...Interesting you choose me, multiple people have done the same, but I guess they had vaginas."
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No, because you stood out: you were clearly impassioned enough two post two successive comments that offered nothing but diatribe. And now you've resorted to cheap shots to deflect from your bargain-basement logic. |
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"Interesting you choose me, multiple people have done the same, but I guess they had vaginas
I mean, the question was specifically aimed at vagina owners. Even if their responses were less than positive they do have a bit more skin in the game 💜"
Valid point lol |
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The women i have met have enjoyed meeting me for me being me. Not because of my marital status.
Or so i believe anyway.
I do however give people the choice by stating quite clearly my status. If they get off on it, then i am happy for them to show me their appreciation.
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"...Interesting you choose me, multiple people have done the same, but I guess they had vaginas.
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No, because you stood out: you were clearly impassioned enough two post two successive comments that offered nothing but diatribe. And now you've resorted to cheap shots to deflect from your bargain-basement logic."
"Bargain-basement logic" = thinking cheating, especially when you have a family etc is generally pretty vile 🤣😂
Christ, anyway.
The "diatribe" was merely an opinion, I didn't expect it to cause so much of a stir tbh. Wasn't my intention at all.
And my last comment was an observation not a shot at you. Maybe I used more words therefore stood out 🤔 |
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"Interesting you choose me, multiple people have done the same, but I guess they had vaginas
I mean, the question was specifically aimed at vagina owners. Even if their responses were less than positive they do have a bit more skin in the game 💜"
Are you calling some of the sisters fat?  |
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"The fact that they’re married is irrelevant to me in all honesty. 🤷♀️ doesn’t turn me on in the slightest. "
Same. If I like someone I like someone. If they’re attached they’re attached. The fact that they are attached doesn’t turn me on at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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I think it all depends on the circumstances to be honest. I’m in a marriage that’s been non physical for two years. Separate bedrooms the lot. But for financial reasons, the children and security reasons we have decided to stay together. We are the best of friends and never argue. I’m on here to chat and flirt and make friends. If something sexual happens then great, but it’s not the sole purpose of being on here. And if anything did happen it will be NSA and behind closed doors. We may not be together physically but we are together.
I just miss female interaction in every way. X |
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By *am450Man 6 weeks ago
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"I guess some people take their vows more seriously than others. We personally avoid any form of cheating because we don’t want the drama that can come with it. Not judging anyone though, your life, your marriage, your business not ours "
Christ, I wish I wasn't here, never thought I would be either. Probably assumed I'm pleased with myself.   |
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By *orneymeMan 4 weeks ago
newcastle and borde |
I used to want only married women it’s a turn on knowing that they are unhappy unsatisfied and wanting fun
Now years later I am in the relationship where sex is 2-3 times a year and she’s lost all interest
I do however love her and keep thinking shall I leave !
Maybe I will but not 100% sure!
Things like this are not as easy as people say
( just leave if unhappy) yeah not as simple as that
Wives end up with house cars kids
Hubby ends up paying everything living with nothing and years down the line still bowing down to the demands of ex wives
Been there done that and still have to be careful |
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I totally own my view and choice, I even have it in my bio
TheHusband knows I like attached men, the attached man aka TheBF told me straight away he is attached
I like the fact that the attached men are actively looking for someone else and if it's me then that's even better
I won't hold the moral highground for anyone, I am not the morality police |
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"I used to want only married women it’s a turn on knowing that they are unhappy unsatisfied and wanting fun
Now years later I am in the relationship where sex is 2-3 times a year and she’s lost all interest
I do however love her and keep thinking shall I leave !
Maybe I will but not 100% sure!
Things like this are not as easy as people say
( just leave if unhappy) yeah not as simple as that
Wives end up with house cars kids
Hubby ends up paying everything living with nothing and years down the line still bowing down to the demands of ex wives
Been there done that and still have to be careful "
And still no sex |
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"I used to want only married women it’s a turn on knowing that they are unhappy unsatisfied and wanting fun
Now years later I am in the relationship where sex is 2-3 times a year and she’s lost all interest
I do however love her and keep thinking shall I leave !
Maybe I will but not 100% sure!
Things like this are not as easy as people say
( just leave if unhappy) yeah not as simple as that
Wives end up with house cars kids
Hubby ends up paying everything living with nothing and years down the line still bowing down to the demands of ex wives
Been there done that and still have to be careful "
Communication is key in any relationship. Tough conversation are needed and after talking you'll both know where you stand |
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"I used to want only married women it’s a turn on knowing that they are unhappy unsatisfied and wanting fun
Now years later I am in the relationship where sex is 2-3 times a year and she’s lost all interest
I do however love her and keep thinking shall I leave !
Maybe I will but not 100% sure!
Things like this are not as easy as people say
( just leave if unhappy) yeah not as simple as that
Wives end up with house cars kids
Hubby ends up paying everything living with nothing and years down the line still bowing down to the demands of ex wives
Been there done that and still have to be careful
And still no sex "
A friend of mine was not having sex with her husband, mainly because she was sick of being treated badly and he would say he treats her badly because they don't have sex. As someone said talk to each other |
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"I like it....but dont like the possibility of blowing up someone's life, even if it is just sex "
Yeah I totally get that. I don't chose married men for a nasty reason, it's because they want to be with me at that moment over who they're meant to be with |
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"I like it....but dont like the possibility of blowing up someone's life, even if it is just sex
Yeah I totally get that. I don't chose married men for a nasty reason, it's because they want to be with me at that moment over who they're meant to be with "
Yeah exactly, i dont go searching for it either.
The only time I would search for it is if the guy is in ENM - but even then need be careful |
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By *eliWoman 4 weeks ago
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It doesn't do anything for me. The whole cheating angle. To the point where I've not met a *married* man for some time and have no desire to do so ever again. I really like being polyamorous and that means ethical relationships for all involved, including those whose penis I have inside of me. |
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By *orneymeMan 3 weeks ago
newcastle and borde |
"I used to want only married women it’s a turn on knowing that they are unhappy unsatisfied and wanting fun
Now years later I am in the relationship where sex is 2-3 times a year and she’s lost all interest
I do however love her and keep thinking shall I leave !
Maybe I will but not 100% sure!
Things like this are not as easy as people say
( just leave if unhappy) yeah not as simple as that
Wives end up with house cars kids
Hubby ends up paying everything living with nothing and years down the line still bowing down to the demands of ex wives
Been there done that and still have to be careful
And still no sex
A friend of mine was not having sex with her husband, mainly because she was sick of being treated badly and he would say he treats her badly because they don't have sex. As someone said talk to each other "
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By *orneymeMan 3 weeks ago
newcastle and borde |
"I used to want only married women it’s a turn on knowing that they are unhappy unsatisfied and wanting fun
Now years later I am in the relationship where sex is 2-3 times a year and she’s lost all interest
I do however love her and keep thinking shall I leave !
Maybe I will but not 100% sure!
Things like this are not as easy as people say
( just leave if unhappy) yeah not as simple as that
Wives end up with house cars kids
Hubby ends up paying everything living with nothing and years down the line still bowing down to the demands of ex wives
Been there done that and still have to be careful
And still no sex
A friend of mine was not having sex with her husband, mainly because she was sick of being treated badly and he would say he treats her badly because they don't have sex. As someone said talk to each other "
Yeah I treat her very well she wants for nothing never argue at all
Always talk things though
She says she just not sexual anymore
Our relationship is amazing other that no sex
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By *orneymeMan 3 weeks ago
newcastle and borde |
"I used to want only married women it’s a turn on knowing that they are unhappy unsatisfied and wanting fun
Now years later I am in the relationship where sex is 2-3 times a year and she’s lost all interest
I do however love her and keep thinking shall I leave !
Maybe I will but not 100% sure!
Things like this are not as easy as people say
( just leave if unhappy) yeah not as simple as that
Wives end up with house cars kids
Hubby ends up paying everything living with nothing and years down the line still bowing down to the demands of ex wives
Been there done that and still have to be careful
And still no sex "
Nope but hey
One day maybe |
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By *am450Man 3 weeks ago
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"I used to go with married men, not because it turned me on it was just easier
Did yiu ever spate a thought to the families of these men?
Not that they are any better."
I wouldn't ever suggest that you're comment wasn't relevant to a vast majority of cases however,you won't believe me but not all thought that they ever would find themselves in a situation that lead them to do so. |
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"I used to go with married men, not because it turned me on it was just easier
Did yiu ever spate a thought to the families of these men?
Not that they are any better."
Probably not but I doubt the men cheating did either |
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By *mbroMan 2 weeks ago
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"Question: how many ladies out there get a kick out of having illicit sex with a married man and it actually turns you on.."
It’s deffo not just the ladies, I love me a married man. Secret intimacy of something someone’s been craving is very hot intense feeling |
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We are married and happy to meet married so long as there is consent from spouse. Not into deception - not a judgement of anyone’s choices but we personally don’t want to be involved in anything which could result in someone experiencing harm. X |
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"Question: how many ladies out there get a kick out of having illicit sex with a married man and it actually turns you on..
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I do 🤷🏼
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" I used to go with married men, not because it turned me on it was just easier
Did you ever spare a thought to the families of these men?
Not that they are any better.
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No I don't think about their families, I'm not the morality police |
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Wouldn’t say it’s a turn on but we feel a lot more comfortable meeting married men as most need discretion where as a few single guys push their luck trying to sort solo meets and message privately |
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"Wouldn’t say it’s a turn on but we feel a lot more comfortable meeting married men as most need discretion where as a few single guys push their luck trying to sort solo meets and message privately "
I do find it a turn on but like you the married person needs to be discreet because of their own situation, plus they won't get needy or territorial |
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Having had relationships with several married women over the years, I'd say that it's complicated. They were all in difficult (tending towards abusive) marriages and were risking a lot, but they wanted and needed the love and, let's be honest, sex on their terms. I tried to make sure I wasn't just taking advantage of them, and I'm reasonably confident I wasn't. The thrill of knowing they were married was a bonus, but it wasn't the main reason we were getting together. |
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"Having had relationships with several married women over the years, I'd say that it's complicated. They were all in difficult (tending towards abusive) marriages and were risking a lot, but they wanted and needed the love and, let's be honest, sex on their terms. I tried to make sure I wasn't just taking advantage of them, and I'm reasonably confident I wasn't. The thrill of knowing they were married was a bonus, but it wasn't the main reason we were getting together."
My first marriage wasn't a good one and I was like the woman you mention in your reply
The marriage I'm in now is a strong solid 25yr long one and I have his consent to play one on one and ideally with attached men because that's what I prefer |
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"Wouldn’t say it’s a turn on but we feel a lot more comfortable meeting married men as most need discretion where as a few single guys push their luck trying to sort solo meets and message privately
I do find it a turn on but like you the married person needs to be discreet because of their own situation, plus they won't get needy or territorial "
Mrs might not get turned on by it but I definitely get turned on by it. I know it’s morally wrong but watching my wife cum over a married man’s cock while his wife is non the wiser I think is so hot |
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"Wouldn’t say it’s a turn on but we feel a lot more comfortable meeting married men as most need discretion where as a few single guys push their luck trying to sort solo meets and message privately
I do find it a turn on but like you the married person needs to be discreet because of their own situation, plus they won't get needy or territorial
Mrs might not get turned on by it but I definitely get turned on by it. I know it’s morally wrong but watching my wife cum over a married man’s cock while his wife is non the wiser I think is so hot"
very true, we find it the same with married guys. |
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By *host63Man 1 week ago
Bedfont Feltham |
Actually I find more women are into this than men.
Proving thw biggest cheats are women.
Because its so easy for them to do.
Yeah its gonna piss you all you women off.
Dosent make it any the less true |
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I’m a very happily married man. Sexually we are very compatible. As a couple we both play with others well. I’ve know need to cheat behind my wife’s back. We both cheat in front of each other when we meet. |
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Playing without their knowledge and consent is a real bugbear of mine. How can you trust someone in any way - sexual health that they'll look like they do, their level of discretion - if they are betraying the person in the world they're meant to be most loyal to |
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"Married men are more discreet. Not as promiscuous as a single and don't pester.
This. And they don't want to change their ho_elife
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This is so true. We all have our reasons for being in here. Who gives anyone the rite to judge. If people don’t like the idea of engaging with someone that’s attached/married then just scroll on by. |
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"Playing without their knowledge and consent is a real bugbear of mine. How can you trust someone in any way - sexual health that they'll look like they do, their level of discretion - if they are betraying the person in the world they're meant to be most loyal to "
Use protection, build trust, enjoy the situation for what it is. Two people who like eachother, who like having sex with each other and have no intention of setting up a new home together... Unless it's a 'shag pad' |
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"Playing without their knowledge and consent is a real bugbear of mine. How can you trust someone in any way - sexual health that they'll look like they do, their level of discretion - if they are betraying the person in the world they're meant to be most loyal to
Use protection, build trust, enjoy the situation for what it is. Two people who like eachother, who like having sex with each other and have no intention of setting up a new home together... Unless it's a 'shag pad' "
yes absolutely good advice protection is always a wise idea when with people that have multiple partners. |
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"Playing without their knowledge and consent is a real bugbear of mine. How can you trust someone in any way - sexual health that they'll look like they do, their level of discretion - if they are betraying the person in the world they're meant to be most loyal to
Use protection, build trust, enjoy the situation for what it is. Two people who like eachother, who like having sex with each other and have no intention of setting up a new home together... Unless it's a 'shag pad' "
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This is an enlightening thread to read through - I completely understand there will be different perspectives on this subject but it's encouraging to see there are people who are open to exploring this.
For my part I was conscious when I joined here to be honest about my situation, I feel it's much better to avoid any misunderstanding on that front given the strong opinions both ways, and hopefully means being able to connect with people of a similar mindset. |
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"Not a lot on here to be fair, ive been trying for a long time🤣🤣
Why have a just read your username in a Scottish accent 😂
Literally did the same thing 🤣
This is today's ear worm 😂
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Facking doomed!!!😂🤣😂 wish I’d stopped reading this thread now haha fs |
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By *am450Man 6 days ago
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"Married men are more discreet. Not as promiscuous as a single and don't pester.
This. And they don't want to change their ho_elife
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Would if It weren't for the consequences I'd be left with |
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I have had a mix, I think when they are married or in a relationship, there are less problems with feelings getting in the way of fun. But if they are doing it in secret it is difficult to match my libedo as they can't always come out to play 😈 |
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By *am450Man 6 days ago
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"Question: how many ladies out there get a kick out of having illicit sex with a married man and it actually turns you on..
I do 🤷🏼
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I used to go with married men, not because it turned me on it was just easier
Did you ever spare a thought to the families of these men?
Not that they are any better.
No I don't think about their families, I'm not the morality police "
And any entitlement to assume or judge will be appropriate without knowing their reality. Latest cherry nugget of reality is I decided to accept my GPS advice and let her record my wife's treatment of me so as Domestic Abuse. Was reluctant to finally do so but little consequence as q result and veryfew options. I'm still a contemptable bastard obviously.  |
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"I used to go with married men, not because it turned me on it was just easier
Did yiu ever spate a thought to the families of these men?
Not that they are any better."
He is the married one, it’s his responsibility, not hers |
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By *am450Man 4 days ago
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When I found out my wife was seeing someone at her work 18 years ago she told me "these things happen" still in a asexless marriage with the entitentitled responsibility avoiding uncommunicative joy |
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Most of the men I meet are married. If it’s some uncomplicated fun one is after they’re always a preferred choice because of the discretion required.
Married men approach things differently, and it is definitely a turn on. |
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The amount of “straight” married men that have messaged me over the years, if I had a penny, married guys are usually a safe bet, no emotional ties so it is just sex, my mrs met a few herself over the years. |
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