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Why is it we get the men questioning their cock size, length, girth, what counts as big and small, who prefers what....
We don't see the ladies asking if their vagina is tidy enough, right enough (like it's quantifiable) shaved enough, are my tits big enough, perky enough, hairy enough 😜
Just curious are the men folk just generally more obsessed with genitals overall?
Is it the porn influence that has many thinking they need a large dong when the reality is many women prefer average?
Or are we as women less bothered about what the opposite sex think of our genitals & boobies? Because we know they are amazing anyway?
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"I always insist of measuring the vaginal dimensions with a trusty tape measure… 👍🏻😜
If I drop a penny inside mine it takes 1.5 seconds to hear the drop, that's mt measuring tactic.
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"I dunno, I often wonder if mine is good enough, tight enough, tempting enough, etc etc. I don't think I'm the only one, its jist we don't feel the need to show it off and have it rated! "
Whilst it is not on display for inspection I am sure it is just fine.  |
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I always worry about how mine looks, is it tight enough, is it appealing but then I remember that all of those things I can’t change and so long as I keep it neat and in A1 condition I should be fine. Women don’t tend to compare pussies like men do cocks, or at least if they do no woman has ever said anything about it. |
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By *eliWoman 4 weeks ago
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I don't think women are less bothered as such.
I did a thread fairly recentish wondering the same thing. If other women have the same insecurities.
Maybe there's a difference because for men their penis is an external thing. They can see others. Compare and find themselves lacking. And men (not all men) put the penis as being the main thing for sex, a woman isn't satisfied without a "pretty penis" so on a sex site where a lot of cocks float around and give their opinions, I can see why they might openly question it a bit more.
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"Why is it we get the men questioning their cock size, length, girth, what counts as big and small, who prefers what....
We don't see the ladies asking if their vagina is tidy enough, right enough (like it's quantifiable) shaved enough, are my tits big enough, perky enough, hairy enough 😜
Just curious are the men folk just generally more obsessed with genitals overall?
Is it the porn influence that has many thinking they need a large dong when the reality is many women prefer average?
Or are we as women less bothered about what the opposite sex think of our genitals & boobies? Because we know they are amazing anyway?
Mrs "
Several reasons.
I've seen plenty of profiles that explicitly state the dimensions of acceptable cocks. I've never seen a profile that demands certain vaginal dimensions. I would imagine that men are more concerned about their genitals for the same reasons all people everywhere care about certain body shapes/looks - they pick up on cues from the society around them about what is and isn't considered attractive. I doubt anyone worried about a thigh gap in 1953, or desired a "thick" bum in 1990 because no one talked about it. Women, #notallwomen, have always talked about preferred penis size.
While men have similarly often made derogatory comments about women being too loose or wizard sleeve like, it is only something you'll find out after, there are no external clues - certainly not when clothed. By the time you find out, it's too late. A woman therefore doesn't need to worry about it in terms of attracting a man.
I suspect your last explanation also has a great deal to do with it. We have evolved many proxies for recognising fertility, virility and long term partner reliability (alongside social norms of what is attractive). The depth and width of a vagina has never been one. Penis size has for pretty much all of human society.
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"I always worry about how mine looks, is it tight enough, is it appealing but then I remember that all of those things I can’t change and so long as I keep it neat and in A1 condition I should be fine. Women don’t tend to compare pussies like men do cocks, or at least if they do no woman has ever said anything about it. "
"Tightness" absolutely is a thing that can be changed unlike penis size. Appearance obviously isn't (without surgery.
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By *eastCouple 4 weeks ago
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How many profiles you came across saying that only fucks pussy if it in the right shape size or colour? Or asking for face and pussy picture before a meet?
Woman love to say how man are obsessed with their dicks, then act like this is all that matters, love to say how they are "fab" and all their insecurities it's the patriarch to blame. |
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"I don't think women are less bothered as such.
I did a thread fairly recentish wondering the same thing. If other women have the same insecurities.
Maybe there's a difference because for men their penis is an external thing. They can see others. Compare and find themselves lacking. And men (not all men) put the penis as being the main thing for sex, a woman isn't satisfied without a "pretty penis" so on a sex site where a lot of cocks float around and give their opinions, I can see why they might openly question it a bit more.
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This is spot on ⬆️
Human beings are primarily visual creatures so we tend to focus on the things we can see. It's pretty easy to make a visual comparison of two cocks but much harder to do the same thing with two pussies.
It strikes me that women have just as many insecurities as men about their bodies but they also tend to be focussed on the bits that are easily visible such as breast size, bum size waist size etc. rather than pussy size.
Hopefully we can all find a whole bunch of other people in this lifestyle who find what we've got hot, then we can stop worrying about whether our cocks / pussies / breasts are the right size and focus on enjoying finding out how well the different bits fit together. Potentially in lots of interesting, fun combinations 😜 |
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Oh I dunno, I wasn’t paranoid about having a hairy bush until I joined Fab! 🫣
I think men have a lot of reasons, social media, other men (you see the competitive threads on the forums and the digs), porn, the list goes on.
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"I dunno, I often wonder if mine is good enough, tight enough, tempting enough, etc etc. I don't think I'm the only one, its jist we don't feel the need to show it off and have it rated! "
I think you’ll find most guys are happy regardless. I’m not bothered how tight you are, it’s more about the overall experience for me.
Think it’s more an over thinking thing. Guys like to have a big cock but from my experience most ladies are not in to length, width is more important. |
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I blame it on the porno's the women are watching like twitchy midnight muff maniacs. Wanting unrealistic big dicks, wanting made up bde, and unrealistic big dick fuckery.
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Us gents shouldn't put up with it and call it out. Respect goes both ways, and that kind of neg on schlong only divides us.
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"I don't know i had mine referred to as a neatly packed ham butty this week so wasn't sure if thats a bad or good thing 🙈"
Sounds like it's intended as a compliment. I mean neatly packed has got to be a good thing right? And who doesn't like to nibble on a ham butty? (apart from vegetarians / vegans and anyone who's religious beliefs preclude them from partaking in pork products 😂) |
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By *ydaz70Man 4 weeks ago
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"Why is it we get the men questioning their cock size, length, girth, what counts as big and small, who prefers what....
We don't see the ladies asking if their vagina is tidy enough, right enough (like it's quantifiable) shaved enough, are my tits big enough, perky enough, hairy enough 😜
Just curious are the men folk just generally more obsessed with genitals overall?
Is it the porn influence that has many thinking they need a large dong when the reality is many women prefer average?
Or are we as women less bothered about what the opposite sex think of our genitals & boobies? Because we know they are amazing anyway?
Mrs "
is it wall to walled carpeted in a wetherspoons stylie if not I ain't interested  |
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"I always insist of measuring the vaginal dimensions with a trusty tape measure… 👍🏻😜
Really wish I hadn’t misread that as rusty tape measure 😱"
😂😂😱 That sounds like Silence Of The Lambs territory… 😵💫😱😱 |
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When I shouted up it I got a really good echo...... faded into the distance but went on for ages......
So result = Vag big enough for a Fucking Fuck off enormous truck.
That's your vag not mine. Mine is squeaky tight ... |
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"When I shouted up it I got a really good echo...... faded into the distance but went on for ages......
So result = Vag big enough for a Fucking Fuck off enormous truck.
That's your vag not mine. Mine is squeaky tight ... "
The echo test 
VAG….vag….va….va……v = big enough |
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"As a straight women I'm not a fan of vaginas and don't choose to look at others so I do question why anyone wants to go near mine? Not out loud obviously, I wouldn't want to put anyone off 😈
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As a hetero gent and a fan of the vag, are you a grower or a shower |
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"I don't think women are less bothered as such.
I did a thread fairly recentish wondering the same thing. If other women have the same insecurities.
Maybe there's a difference because for men their penis is an external thing. They can see others. Compare and find themselves lacking. And men (not all men) put the penis as being the main thing for sex, a woman isn't satisfied without a "pretty penis" so on a sex site where a lot of cocks float around and give their opinions, I can see why they might openly question it a bit more.
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Yes I get the external but ladies still don't post about boob size, it's generally the men that ask about that too, maybe we are generally more introvert regarding our insecurities?
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