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Discreet... What's your thoughts
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So as a professional homosexual, I get a lot of messages saying things like 'i'm discreet' ... which I totally get, but - i also get a lot of tantrums when I ask for a pic. (Which in itself is hilarious)
I absolutely get the needing discretion side of stuff, but 100% i don't meet without a face - especially if you're coming to my gaff. I'm here for a good shag, not to out you.
What are people's thoughts on this? |
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"I don't even reply to a message without a face pic
What's the point of chatting with someone you're not attracted to "
Yeah this all-over. Those that i do respond to then see their ass and cry when I ask them. |
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"I don't even reply to a message without a face pic
What's the point of chatting with someone you're not attracted to
Yeah this all-over. Those that i do respond to then see their ass and cry when I ask them. "
I've had the odd conversation where there's a spark before the face pic but then the pic is sent and I'm just not interested, so absolutely no point carrying on. Not on here to make 'friends' 😈 |
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"I don't even reply to a message without a face pic
What's the point of chatting with someone you're not attracted to
Yeah this all-over. Those that i do respond to then see their ass and cry when I ask them.
I've had the odd conversation where there's a spark before the face pic but then the pic is sent and I'm just not interested, so absolutely no point carrying on. Not on here to make 'friends' 😈 "
Yeah, totally get that. I want dick not a pen pal. If they aren't for me, I politely let them know and move on. But some folk don't deal with rejection well it seems. |
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"What’s a professional homosexual?
He’s no longer practicing
Ahh he’s now queerlified!
Working on a pay as you gay basis."
I wish I was getting money for taking dick! 😂😂 I'd happily be a proper working gay. |
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"What’s a professional homosexual?
He’s no longer practicing
Ahh he’s now queerlified!
Working on a pay as you gay basis."
Do you have to get an NVQ or go to night school to get this qualification? |
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"What’s a professional homosexual?
He’s no longer practicing
Ahh he’s now queerlified!
Working on a pay as you gay basis.
Do you have to get an NVQ or go to night school to get this qualification? "
Aye, there's a big hole test.
HMU, I'll talk you through it - I'll need a face pic beforehand though. 😂😜 |
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"What’s a professional homosexual?
He’s no longer practicing
Ahh he’s now queerlified!
Working on a pay as you gay basis.
Do you have to get an NVQ or go to night school to get this qualification? "
Have to be re-accreditted every 5yrs 
On a more serious note, I view this site as a massive swingers club - some I'll find attractive others not but in a physical club you can see faces so I think a face pic request isn't unacceptable before continuing the conversation too long, after all time is short and it's pointless continuing if attraction isn't there.  |
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"I believe there are three ranks of homosexual: closet, professional, and television presenter.
One has to climb the greasy pole, so to speak."
HAAA! I think I'm too 'straight' for the Graham Norton tag - but I'll give it a shot. 😂😂 |
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"What’s a professional homosexual?
He’s no longer practicing
Ahh he’s now queerlified! "
What are the letters that go after your name when you receive your accreditation (guess it could be MLGBQT+) |
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I'd never meet someone without swapping a face pic and it amuses me that many ask to meet me, without having a clue what I look like.
We all need discretion, I have a very public facing job, but I have face pics and send them if there's a mutual interest.
why in earth would I take a chance on someome I've never seen so might not be attracted to. Or we might know each other, just no.
A man years ago told me I didn't need to see him to meet him socially, I asked him if he was gonna wear a bag over his head if we met. |
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"What are people's thoughts on this?"
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Just be a proud homosexual, less of the professional.
If people are messaging you and looking for discretion then that's fine. That works both ways and could apply to you, if you so wish. Some women look for discretion and it's rarely questioned.
If you're asking for a photograph then you need to lead by example and send one first. They may not reciprocate. That's fine; it's Fab. (heterosexual men have to put up with this anomaly all the time).
If you're experiencing tantrums then these people are incompatible. They're not your people.
I wish you well. 🩶 |
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Definitely need a face pic, need to know its not someone I cant stand at work or whatever. Looks less important but a consideration.
If they are coming to my place I need to know what the face is will be fucking is going to look like. |
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