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Are sub men attractive to anyone other than guys?
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I am lucky enough to have found a couple of people to use me in the past but I noticed most people seem to be interested in top or dominant guys. When I'm feeling sub I gather it's not very attractive? Is it only attractive to dominant guys? |
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Sub can be attractive to lots of people but i guess there are different levels to it in preference
For example i like sub in a gentle obedient sense, someone who just wants to go with my flow and ask for nothing from me
But i dont feel inclined to peg a guy or use him etc particularly
But other people would love that vibe |
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"I'm keen to explore my dominant side, but not into pain or degradation. Just to be in control "
Thanks for your answer. Couldn't agree more. I can do light, playful pain. I'm not into real pain, scat, blood ect. I would never want to inflict it on anyone when I'm feeling more dominant either. Letting someone else be in control is always hot. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 3 weeks ago
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It’s probably safe to say you’ll be attractive to dominant women. However like with every other form of attraction finding someone who’s not only attractive but who’s wants and needs compliment your own can be tricky. Too many guys approach Dommes as if they’re kink dispensers |
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"It’s probably safe to say you’ll be attractive to dominant women. However like with every other form of attraction finding someone who’s not only attractive but who’s wants and needs compliment your own can be tricky. Too many guys approach Dommes as if they’re kink dispensers"
I saw this thread and thought of you 😊 |
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"Sub can be attractive to lots of people but i guess there are different levels to it in preference
For example i like sub in a gentle obedient sense, someone who just wants to go with my flow and ask for nothing from me
But i dont feel inclined to peg a guy or use him etc particularly
But other people would love that vibe "
I love being obedient and bossed around. I used to really want to be pegged. It's not out of the question but not what I'm seeking now. I learned how to cum hands free and that gives me the biggest orgasms ever.
I still find myself feeling incredibly submissive at times. I want to be caged at times. Give oral for as long as they desire with nothing expected in return.
Like you say, go with the flow and never rule anything potentially fun out |
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"It’s probably safe to say you’ll be attractive to dominant women. However like with every other form of attraction finding someone who’s not only attractive but who’s wants and needs compliment your own can be tricky. Too many guys approach Dommes as if they’re kink dispensers"
I couldn't agree more. I've seen you make that point before and it makes perfect sense. Lots of guys just want that, forget you are a human and that's why they end up paying for it.
To fulfill their own fantasy.
I want both to enjoy the experience and get what they want from it. Tbh, other people's enjoyment is more important to me though I guess that is a kink in itself |
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I’ve become over the last few years become more of a sub and enjoy being able to help rather than being dominated being asked rather than told but I always want to please who ever I’m with I suppose being controlled by either m/f maybe my confidence has took a know or what but I must admit I prefer to be this way |
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"There are dominant woman who like sub men.
But most avoid advertising because to many sub men are do me subs. Fantasy chasers. "
I can understand that. I'm definitely switch which seems fairer to me. Defending on the mood at the time, chemistry or how the other person looks and acts at the time makes a difference to the role I want to take |
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