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By *vaRoseWoman 3 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"What to do if you recognise someone. I have seen a female who I think I know 100% . Not sure to message or just enjoy her pics. I know she is married. What would you do?"
Block and forget you’ve seen. They’re entitled to their life without you interfering.
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I'm going to provide a different answer. I feel less comfortable with the asymmetry of me knowing they are here and them not knowing that I know. Where I have recognised someone, I have tended to send a polite message along these lines, not personally, not expecting anything, just let them have the same information as I do. |
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"I'm going to provide a different answer. I feel less comfortable with the asymmetry of me knowing they are here and them not knowing that I know. Where I have recognised someone, I have tended to send a polite message along these lines, not personally, not expecting anything, just let them have the same information as I do. "
Someone once did this to me saying how they really wanted to meet with me and was surprised I was on here. However, I was not the person they thought I was. They got very annoyed with me for telling them they were wrong as they fully believed they were right. They then blocked me after telling me they would discuss it in person the next day at work.
I really hope he did not upset this poor lady whoever she may be.
I would always say it's best to block and move on without saying anything. |
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"What to do if you recognise someone. I have seen a female who I think I know 100% . Not sure to message or just enjoy her pics. I know she is married. What would you do?"
Would it make any difference if you thought you only knew her 75%? We all have secrets…. |
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"I'm going to provide a different answer. I feel less comfortable with the asymmetry of me knowing they are here and them not knowing that I know. Where I have recognised someone, I have tended to send a polite message along these lines, not personally, not expecting anything, just let them have the same information as I do.
Someone once did this to me saying how they really wanted to meet with me and was surprised I was on here. However, I was not the person they thought I was. They got very annoyed with me for telling them they were wrong as they fully believed they were right. They then blocked me after telling me they would discuss it in person the next day at work.
I really hope he did not upset this poor lady whoever she may be.
I would always say it's best to block and move on without saying anything. "
I've had this. Particularly when I had my first initial up.
"Hi Alison, you dirty dirty girl, I'm going to tell Keith all about you and what you look like if you don't reply" sort of thing.
Whoever Alison is, I hope she's ok, and I hope Keith was a reasonable manager and didn't punish this woman because his subordinate thought I was her.
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By *izzy.Woman 3 weeks ago
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I had a horrid experience when someone said they recognised me and kept dropping hints about my identity. It was quite scary.
Eventually they explained they were a mechanic where I had taken my camper van in for a service a few weeks earlier.
I suggest you block them and forget it. Whether they are on here or not, you really shouldn't interfere, it can be disastrous and really unpleasant being outed.
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Had the same someone who thought I was someone else. Was very rude when I said I wasn’t. To many men on here get aggressive and horrible if they don’t get the answer they want, makes you realise a lot of weirdos on here who are prob dangerous. But your post prob wouldn’t message, just enjoy your views if they are showing in here must want to be seen. Probably not want contact unless they make the approach |
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Been swinging for a long time now at clubs and parties etc... have bumped into quite a few people that we know in “real life” (Workmates, family, friends, etc) .. just never acknowledge the fact or mention anything at all unless they do first.. |
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So a bit ago. Some lady on here. Actually I don't even know if it was a lady, could have been a bloke for all we know. Messaged me to say they recognised me from the local gym. They got my local gym right and then they said they've seen me in the local Lidl. It did make me paranoid and was a bit creepy. |
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I've been recognised multiple times (tats and bright hair will do that) and It doesn't bother me - but I am ethically non monogamous. If someone is married or in a job/position that requires anonymity they aren't going to want locals calling them on thier presense here.
Plus some people can come across very creepy whilst trying to prove that they recognise me 🙄 |
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Chances are it won't be welcomed and will make her feel very uncomfortable. You've had a look. Now be a gentleman, block her and forget you've ever seen it. She deserves to enjoy this lifestyle as care free as you or anyone else. Acts like this are the best way we can respect each other and keep this lifestyle feeling a safe environment to play.
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If you have the faintest doubt in your mind do nothing.
If you are definitely 100% sure do nothing.
Many women find this sort of thing deeply creepy 