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By *ayBeeTV/TS 2 weeks ago
Winchester |
"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile."
I mean do you take your kids to the nudist beach? |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile.
I mean do you take your kids to the nudist beach?"
Yes, if we abroad and I do live on 40 acres when no one can see and we have other families come over to be naked, but there’s nothing sexual |
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I don’t understand nudism, I don’t have the mindset for it, I love being naked, but it’s always sexual for me, perhaps these people have the same mindset.
I’m not judging you by the way, I think if you enjoy nudism and it gives you that feeling of freedom then more power to you, I’m just putting it to you that some judge others based off what their feelings and opinions are, I’m not saying they are right for judging, just some can’t comprehend that we are meant to be nude, I can’t, and I logically know it’s natural for some. |
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Being naked is completely natural. There is nothing inherently sexual about a naked body. I am a life model and being naked in front of a group of artists is the least sexual thing you can do. Some people don’t understand that. They think that a naked body is automatically means something sexual. That says more about them than anything else. |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile."
I'm not a nudist but sort of get how being free from clothes can be like freedom, at one with nature.
I suppose maybe that person meant there might be other nudists tgere who might sexualise it or indeed be looking at your children because they can because it's all on display for them too.
Not sure I would want my kids being naked round lots of strangers abd before anyone pounces on me this is my opinion and I am allowed it as are you  |
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By *ayBeeTV/TS 2 weeks ago
Winchester |
"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile.
I mean do you take your kids to the nudist beach?
Yes, if we abroad and I do live on 40 acres when no one can see and we have other families come over to be naked, but there’s nothing sexual"
Im not saying your a p**o bc of this but I wouldn't take my kids to a nudist beach....lot of pervert around everywhere... |
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I think we all agree that naturism shouldn't be sexualised.
But... this site is about swinging and sex, so I have to wonder why naturism is being discussed here at all. Best kept apart, don't you think? |
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Would not agree your one of those! But being bought up in a naturist family yes i think its wrong! Would never have bought mine up in that environment for various reasons! Especially once I reached teenage years! My brothers actually looked at it as abuse!I dont agree with them on that! But was not good imo! |
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I am big on naturism and happy to get my clothes off as much as I can. I ended up at a nudist beach with my wife, daughter and her bf. We did not go on as I was not keen on seeing my daughter naked. I did love the thought of her bf seeing my wife's tits though.
Also, I went to a BN swim in Wigton on my own once. A full family turned up, grammar though to grand kids. It was not sexual in the slightest. Although I have to say, mum and granny had great tits. |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile.
I'm not a nudist but sort of get how being free from clothes can be like freedom, at one with nature.
I suppose maybe that person meant there might be other nudists tgere who might sexualise it or indeed be looking at your children because they can because it's all on display for them too.
Not sure I would want my kids being naked round lots of strangers abd before anyone pounces on me this is my opinion and I am allowed it as are you "
exactly this! Those "types" allways find their way into naturist clubs looking back there were a few! |
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By *ocktowerMan 2 weeks ago
North Wales and Bulgaria. |
Back in the day once a month in the local swimming pool they had a nudist bathing session it was well attended but for some reason it was stopped probably by a vanilla council member who didn't get it and thought it was like a story out of the news of the world 😂 |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile."
Don’t worry the British are just weird when it comes to nudity unlike the Europeans who are very much more relaxed and less stuffy with life in general
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By *donielMan 2 weeks ago
Liverpool |
Have no issues with it now that I am older. I would of died of embarrassment at the hormonal teenager phase of life. But maybe if I had been growing up with it from birth may not have been that big an issue. I certainly think I would have been less body conscious and happier at a younger age |
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"The person who has told you this is probably the same type of person who thinks that swinging is wrong they just can't understand it's a life style thing."
Oh come on, have you not found that there are loads of people on here who have divergent views. Hardly surprising that Fabsters are judgemental, after all it's a motley crew (possibly with representatives from the whole gamut of society)  |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile."
And did this person tell you this via a message on a swingers site? 🤔
Absolute twoddle! |
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By *recticWoman 2 weeks ago
taunton |
Im not convinced this is genuine but let’s pretend it is . I get that naturism is something you value, but kids don’t really have a say in being raised that way. Do you think there’s a risk they might feel uncomfortable with it later on, especially as they get older and start forming their own boundaries? It seems important that they have the option to choose what they’re comfortable with without having indoctrination and potential social suicide foisted upon them because you’re comfortable with it. |
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While it's not for me, I wouldn't judge anyone who does enjoy the naturist lifestyle. The main reason being it's not my business lol. Like one poster above mentioned, there's a difference between being nude, and it being sexualised |
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Nonsense! What you are your family do is no else’s business let alone criticise(especially on a swingers/sex site!)
It’s a pity nakedness has been so sexualised over time and criminalised!
You do what you do and take no notice of other woke and critical people |
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By *recticWoman 2 weeks ago
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"Nonsense! What you are your family do is no else’s business let alone criticise(especially on a swingers/sex site!)
It’s a pity nakedness has been so sexualised over time and criminalised!
You do what you do and take no notice of other woke and critical people "
actually it is other people’s business, one advertising your a nudist on your profile as the only thing about you really could be perceived as sexualised by others. That surely makes it tricky to mix into family life. There’s no consideration as to how that affects his family later on in life. I get the naturist lifestyle is important to some people, but raising children this way could expose them to bullying or social stigma later. Kids can’t choose how they’re introduced to such personal practices, and what feels normal at home might make them targets among peers and I see counselling and trauma in their future.
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Whilst there isn't anything wrong with being a nudist and having that as your lifestyle with your family, I do think you risk your children being sexualised, particularly when you're talking about it on an adult sex site. |
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"The thing is... being nude is natural, it doesnt have to be sexualised. There is a huge difference."
Though where children are concerned, they may be exposed to people who get some sort of sexual kick out of......well let's not go there. |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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Are we talking public nudity or private?
I agree that nudity doesn't necessarily lead to sexual urges, but it can. Back in the ‘70s nobody would have given a second look or a second thought to a 7yo being naked on a public beach. But now?
Personally I think the ages of the kids makes a difference. I don’t think many people find small children a sexual turn on but for teenagers the number would be far higher. I see the word “natural” used a lot. The urges could also be described as “natural”.
I guess if we’re talking in public the questions would be…
Why do you want strangers looking at your children when they are naked?
Why do you want your children exposed to naked adults? Pardon the pun
What advantages does the nudity give? What’s in it for you perhaps is a more simplistic question.
But I also think we have to remember that we don’t all think the same way about things. Morals are not universal. Some people think it’s ok to have sex at a much younger age than the law permits. Some people think sex outside of marriage is wrong. Some think topless men and women is no different.
Living by your own morals within the law is fine, just remember not everyone will agree. Both positions are fine. |
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"Are we talking public nudity or private?
I agree that nudity doesn't necessarily lead to sexual urges, but it can. Back in the ‘70s nobody would have given a second look or a second thought to a 7yo being naked on a public beach. But now?
Personally I think the ages of the kids makes a difference. I don’t think many people find small children a sexual turn on but for teenagers the number would be far higher. I see the word “natural” used a lot. The urges could also be described as “natural”.
I guess if we’re talking in public the questions would be…
Why do you want strangers looking at your children when they are naked?
Why do you want your children exposed to naked adults? Pardon the pun
What advantages does the nudity give? What’s in it for you perhaps is a more simplistic question.
But I also think we have to remember that we don’t all think the same way about things. Morals are not universal. Some people think it’s ok to have sex at a much younger age than the law permits. Some people think sex outside of marriage is wrong. Some think topless men and women is no different.
Living by your own morals within the law is fine, just remember not everyone will agree. Both positions are fine. "
Even back in 60s when I grew up a naturist there were plenty of pervs as a child I remember lots! I never told anyone! Remember one in the sand dunes doing things to himself! |
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"Nonsense! What you are your family do is no else’s business let alone criticise(especially on a swingers/sex site!)
It’s a pity nakedness has been so sexualised over time and criminalised!
You do what you do and take no notice of other woke and critical people actually it is other people’s business, one advertising your a nudist on your profile as the only thing about you really could be perceived as sexualised by others. That surely makes it tricky to mix into family life. There’s no consideration as to how that affects his family later on in life. I get the naturist lifestyle is important to some people, but raising children this way could expose them to bullying or social stigma later. Kids can’t choose how they’re introduced to such personal practices, and what feels normal at home might make them targets among peers and I see counselling and trauma in their future.
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Absolutely 100% I was terrified of people at school knowing! I was a naturist! Other people went to church on a sunday we went to a naturist club! That said I really did enjoy our holidays at a club on isle of wight just not the naturist bit! I did get bullied about it ! |
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By *recticWoman 2 weeks ago
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If someone is posting about naturism on a swinging site, in this context you can safely assume it’s not real naturism, it’s an adult fantasy masquerading as lifestyle advice and people are validating it as live and let live, it’s no one’s business.
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Put me in the stuffy camp then because I don’t think it’s appropriate at all. As adults, live how you want to live within the law but at what point (if any) do children have a choice in what they have been exposed to or had to expose themselves? I find it impossible to imagine that your lifestyle hasn’t been problematic and a source of embarrassment or shame at some point for your kids whilst growing up. This is something that could affect them for the rest of their lives. I understand the nudity may not be sexualised within your family home but if that’s the case then why bring it onto Fab… You also can’t control the thoughts or intentions of others and find it quite bizarre that anyone would expose their children to that unnecessary risk by supporting or encouraging them to be naked around adult strangers. |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile."
im with everybody on here there’s nothing wrong with it and I’m amazed that your teenage children want to do it as well I wasn’t even allot to drop them of at school because of embarrassing them let alone getting nude well do hope the weather gets better for you dont come Cumbria unless you bring wellies !!!
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile.im with everybody on here there’s nothing wrong with it and I’m amazed that your teenage children want to do it as well I wasn’t even allot to drop them of at school because of embarrassing them let alone getting nude well do hope the weather gets better for you dont come Cumbria unless you bring wellies !!!"
You tried to drop your children off to school nude?!?! Embarrassing them woolf surely be the least of your worries if you did...! |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile.im with everybody on here there’s nothing wrong with it and I’m amazed that your teenage children want to do it as well I wasn’t even allot to drop them of at school because of embarrassing them let alone getting nude well do hope the weather gets better for you dont come Cumbria unless you bring wellies !!!
You tried to drop your children off to school nude?!?! Embarrassing them woolf surely be the least of your worries if you did...!"
He forgot to say that none of the staff wore clothes at the school. It was all very familiar (touchy feely)  |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile."
I don't understand nudism in the UK- Too damn cold. However if it something the family enjoy & can do together, go for it. Too many petty minded idiots on here, who can't mind their own business. Power to the individual. |
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Nudity is the natural state. It does not need to be made a sexual thing at all.
We are conditioned to think that clothes are normal.
They are not.
Really, we only need to cover ourselves to keep warm. |
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"Put me in the stuffy camp then because I don’t think it’s appropriate at all. As adults, live how you want to live within the law but at what point (if any) do children have a choice in what they have been exposed to or had to expose themselves? I find it impossible to imagine that your lifestyle hasn’t been problematic and a source of embarrassment or shame at some point for your kids whilst growing up. This is something that could affect them for the rest of their lives. I understand the nudity may not be sexualised within your family home but if that’s the case then why bring it onto Fab… You also can’t control the thoughts or intentions of others and find it quite bizarre that anyone would expose their children to that unnecessary risk by supporting or encouraging them to be naked around adult strangers. "
Why is it not appropriate at all?
This is not a challenge to your view but a request for you to elaborate on what exactly about it is not appropriate?
You made a good point about challenges and the mentality of those outside the home and any judgements made toward the family, be it adults or kids, but is that about the appropriate argument or just how those out in the world view these things?
The way I see it, there is nothing inappropriate about it. The real issues are more external in the views of those outside the home or those not being genuine and decent nudists (some nudists will also be creeps just as some none nudists are).
That is my main concern with it, the outside world looking in. Creeps will be creeps and they can't help themselves but anything but. |
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"The thing is... being nude is natural, it doesnt have to be sexualised. There is a huge difference.
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Post said teenagers? That is 13 technically so is that an adult choosing to go naked on a beach, no? Not grown up maybe even forced into that life..
No problems with it nudity itself but allow it to happen from an age when they can consent, have a choice.
You say not sexualised but there will be many out there that will sexualise it
Christ every photo of me of a kid was naked, in a bath tub, suitsuit etc all innocent but I think people should open their eyes as sad as it is to think people do taking advantage but times have changed sorry! |
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"Nudity is the natural state. It does not need to be made a sexual thing at all.
We are conditioned to think that clothes are normal.
They are not.
Really, we only need to cover ourselves to keep warm."
And protection. Everyone overlooks the protection factor - so many clothing items do more than just keep is warm. |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 2 weeks ago
Somewhere dark and gloomy |
"Nudity is the natural state. It does not need to be made a sexual thing at all.
We are conditioned to think that clothes are normal.
They are not.
Really, we only need to cover ourselves to keep warm."
I like clothes |
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"Put me in the stuffy camp then because I don’t think it’s appropriate at all. As adults, live how you want to live within the law but at what point (if any) do children have a choice in what they have been exposed to or had to expose themselves? I find it impossible to imagine that your lifestyle hasn’t been problematic and a source of embarrassment or shame at some point for your kids whilst growing up. This is something that could affect them for the rest of their lives. I understand the nudity may not be sexualised within your family home but if that’s the case then why bring it onto Fab… You also can’t control the thoughts or intentions of others and find it quite bizarre that anyone would expose their children to that unnecessary risk by supporting or encouraging them to be naked around adult strangers.
Why is it not appropriate at all?
This is not a challenge to your view but a request for you to elaborate on what exactly about it is not appropriate?
You made a good point about challenges and the mentality of those outside the home and any judgements made toward the family, be it adults or kids, but is that about the appropriate argument or just how those out in the world view these things?
The way I see it, there is nothing inappropriate about it. The real issues are more external in the views of those outside the home or those not being genuine and decent nudists (some nudists will also be creeps just as some none nudists are).
That is my main concern with it, the outside world looking in. Creeps will be creeps and they can't help themselves but anything but. "
I don’t find nudity inappropriate between consenting adults but I don’t think it’s appropriate that children are brought up in a predominantly nude environment before they can decide whether it’s something they want to be a part of. |
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it’s unfair to call you a pedo but can see why it weird to some, my kids never seen me naked and when they were little were never allowed to run about naked even taking my son for his baby photos the lass wanted to take some with nap -py off which apparently is common but I said no chance. When I first met the kids mother she would let her two young ladies run aboot with nowt on and it was fucking liftin I would leave whenever did so she soon stopped |
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"Nonsense! What you are your family do is no else’s business let alone criticise(especially on a swingers/sex site!)
It’s a pity nakedness has been so sexualised over time and criminalised!
You do what you do and take no notice of other woke and critical people actually it is other people’s business, one advertising your a nudist on your profile as the only thing about you really could be perceived as sexualised by others. That surely makes it tricky to mix into family life. There’s no consideration as to how that affects his family later on in life. I get the naturist lifestyle is important to some people, but raising children this way could expose them to bullying or social stigma later. Kids can’t choose how they’re introduced to such personal practices, and what feels normal at home might make them targets among peers and I see counselling and trauma in their future.
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Maybe best to wait until kids are adults and then do what you like in regards to this |
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"Nudity is the natural state. It does not need to be made a sexual thing at all.
We are conditioned to think that clothes are normal.
They are not.
Really, we only need to cover ourselves to keep warm.
I like clothes"
Amen to that. Forget the philosophical question of whether we should be inflicting our bodies on other people while going about our daily business, but for vanity purposes alone I'll be keeping my kegs. I look much better with clothes on! |
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"Im not convinced this is genuine but let’s pretend it is . I get that naturism is something you value, but kids don’t really have a say in being raised that way. Do you think there’s a risk they might feel uncomfortable with it later on, especially as they get older and start forming their own boundaries? It seems important that they have the option to choose what they’re comfortable with without having indoctrination and potential social suicide foisted upon them because you’re comfortable with it. "
I agree with this. This is why I think it is better for the OP to wait until they're adults and then do what he likes. That is if the OP is genuine. I know this is my opinion and all, but, being naked around your kids just doesn't sit right with me. |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile."
Naked Adult male hanging around with naked teenage kids? I cam see why that raises eyebrows. Can't you? |
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"it’s unfair to call you a pedo but can see why it weird to some, my kids never seen me naked and when they were little were never allowed to run about naked even taking my son for his baby photos the lass wanted to take some with nap -py off which apparently is common but I said no chance. When I first met the kids mother she would let her two young ladies run aboot with nowt on and it was fucking liftin I would leave whenever did so she soon stopped "
Hello Nutsacker. I'm not from the North East. I get 'aboot' but I don't get , 'and it was liftin' What does that mean please. |
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"Nudity is the natural state. It does not need to be made a sexual thing at all.
We are conditioned to think that clothes are normal.
They are not.
Really, we only need to cover ourselves to keep warm.
And protection. Everyone overlooks the protection factor - so many clothing items do more than just keep is warm. "
Stockings for example. The anti chain saw ones. |
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I've been reading this thread on n off each time I sit down for a cuppa. I felt cynical to start with and that feeling hasn't left me.
Nothing rings true or even reasonable.
How many children , plus teenage children do you have O.P. What are their ages and genders ? |
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"it’s unfair to call you a pedo but can see why it weird to some, my kids never seen me naked and when they were little were never allowed to run about naked even taking my son for his baby photos the lass wanted to take some with nap -py off which apparently is common but I said no chance. When I first met the kids mother she would let her two young ladies run aboot with nowt on and it was fucking liftin I would leave whenever did so she soon stopped
Hello Nutsacker. I'm not from the North East. I get 'aboot' but I don't get , 'and it was liftin' What does that mean please. "
Haha hi granny crumpet, liftin is a word we use to describe something that’s generally awful, could be a bad smell, something that’s ugly, a person that’s unbearable to be around (bah he’s fucking liftin) ect |
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"Im not convinced this is genuine but let’s pretend it is . I get that naturism is something you value, but kids don’t really have a say in being raised that way. Do you think there’s a risk they might feel uncomfortable with it later on, especially as they get older and start forming their own boundaries? It seems important that they have the option to choose what they’re comfortable with without having indoctrination and potential social suicide foisted upon them because you’re comfortable with it.
I agree with this. This is why I think it is better for the OP to wait until they're adults and then do what he likes. That is if the OP is genuine. I know this is my opinion and all, but, being naked around your kids just doesn't sit right with me."
The thing is, even what is normal in society is still indoctrination. We indoctrinated people to fall I lines with a "social norm" especially when that social norm goes against the natural norm.
Now I'm not saying everything that is natural is good, and society is bad but this is certainly one of those things that falls in the realms of the perspective is heavily influenced by what society feels is normal, and an inability to separate contexts.
One thing I will add, in the defense of clothing is "natural", even most heavily isolated tribes still wear clothing over lowerbody/genitals at the least. It is not like clothing is a western/northern/modern thing it has been a part of multiple societies and civilisations as a norm for thousands of years. |
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"it’s unfair to call you a pedo but can see why it weird to some, my kids never seen me naked and when they were little were never allowed to run about naked even taking my son for his baby photos the lass wanted to take some with nap -py off which apparently is common but I said no chance. When I first met the kids mother she would let her two young ladies run aboot with nowt on and it was fucking liftin I would leave whenever did so she soon stopped
Hello Nutsacker. I'm not from the North East. I get 'aboot' but I don't get , 'and it was liftin' What does that mean please.
Haha hi granny crumpet, liftin is a word we use to describe something that’s generally awful, could be a bad smell, something that’s ugly, a person that’s unbearable to be around (bah he’s fucking liftin) ect "
Got it ! Thanks Pet ....  see what I did there? |
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"it’s unfair to call you a pedo but can see why it weird to some, my kids never seen me naked and when they were little were never allowed to run about naked even taking my son for his baby photos the lass wanted to take some with nap -py off which apparently is common but I said no chance. When I first met the kids mother she would let her two young ladies run aboot with nowt on and it was fucking liftin I would leave whenever did so she soon stopped
Hello Nutsacker. I'm not from the North East. I get 'aboot' but I don't get , 'and it was liftin' What does that mean please.
Haha hi granny crumpet, liftin is a word we use to describe something that’s generally awful, could be a bad smell, something that’s ugly, a person that’s unbearable to be around (bah he’s fucking liftin) ect
Got it ! Thanks Pet .... see what I did there?"
Haha yes I saw
You’re welcome |
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"The thing is... being nude is natural, it doesnt have to be sexualised. There is a huge difference.
Extremely well said to to things a totally different.
Couldn’t agree more "
My problem with this whole thing is this:
There's been many many threads about guys going to nudist beaches to have a play knowing full well that it's a public place so the line between nudity and sexualisation is blurred to say the least. Also discussing this on this site with people passing comments with erect dicks on avatar pics or full sex just feels wrong talking about being nude around family given some of the weird disturbing shit on here.
I just can't get my head around this and it sits very uncomfortably with me that's not to say it's wrong it's just not something I would ever consider doing. |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile.
Who told you this ?"
Social Services when they went in the altogether to the Council offices  |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile.
Who told you this ?"
The O.P hasn't responded to anyone. I asked a question yesterday so I guess he's busy enjoying Easter once he let his steam off |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile."
Too many prudes on here, just ignore them. |
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"I can't help wondering if i'd rather have men or women nudists sitting on my velour furniture.
If i'm going to join in then I think I need some of those plastic covers... "
Plastic will stick in the heat? |
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"I’ve just been told that there’s something wrong with me because my whole family are nudist even the teenage kids I’ve got. That I am practically a paedophile.
Too many prudes on here, just ignore them."
Its not prudish when children/teens are involved! Its safe guarding! Which my parents failed at by taking us to that kind of environment! |
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I love naturist holidays and sun bathing in garden etc. Also attended some uk naturist swims etc .
Europeans mainly Swedish Germans are much more open you often see several generations if same family nude together ( just not very British)
I dont fully think talking about naturist life styre fit on a swingers forum. |
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"I love naturist holidays and sun bathing in garden etc. Also attended some uk naturist swims etc .
Europeans mainly Swedish Germans are much more open you often see several generations if same family nude together ( just not very British)
I dont fully think talking about naturist life styre fit on a swingers forum."
Totally agree |
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