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BDSM - Paddle, Cane or Whip for fun

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By *luffandTumbke OP Man 2 weeks ago

HP21

For a little bedroom fun and a backside tingle do you prefer a light paddling, gentle caning or soft whipping?

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan 2 weeks ago

Shefford

All of the above please, thank you

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By *estructionDollyWoman 2 weeks ago

Manchester

Every time I post on a thread about impact play someone reports it and it gets deleted

I like impact, my absolute faves are floggers of varying materials and density, I love the different sensations they can produce, but I can also enjoy a paddle, or a dragontail. Less fond of canes/rulers and the real stingy stuff.

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By *aughtyblonde98Woman 2 weeks ago

Merseyside

Prefer to use the paddle or cane on the hubby , but its certainly not light lol xx

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By *earditallWoman 2 weeks ago

Lancaster

I like floggers for sensual play but I quite like a cane

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By *de1980Man 2 weeks ago

Redcar

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By *iverstMan 2 weeks ago

Rossendale

Floggers for sensual teasing fun. I made one from chain, which when kept in an ice bucket, was good fun.

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By *earditallWoman 2 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Floggers for sensual teasing fun. I made one from chain, which when kept in an ice bucket, was good fun."

Ive experienced the cold chain ones

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Big heavy thuddy impact 💜

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By *vaRoseWoman 2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I prefer a thuddy flogger or a nice heavy paddle over the cane or similar implements.

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By *orphia2003Woman 2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I'm happy to use whatever the receiver wants. Personally I like to use a selection of floggers to get different sensations, from heavy thuddy suede, a medium width firm leather and a stingy rubber flogger interspaced with paddles and a very sharp cane or crop.

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By *ominantWhisperMan 2 weeks ago

Lancashire

I prefer to use paddles for ease of control. They’re very material dependent though

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By *iverstMan 2 weeks ago

Rossendale

"Floggers for sensual teasing fun. I made one from chain, which when kept in an ice bucket, was good fun.

Ive experienced the cold chain ones

Teasing on the cross can be so much fun 😈

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By *rincipessaWoman 2 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

I prefer heavy thuddy rather than stingy like a cane. But would always choose a hand over anything else. Way more intimate

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By *uonline69Man 2 weeks ago

Saddleworth, UK

Paddle - the other two can, in the wrong hands, go easy beyond fun a little too quickly.

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By *unnyandthebookkeeperCouple 2 weeks ago

bristol

Floggers, a crop and some paddles. Cane is only for bad girls. 😉

Have quite the selection. And love the gasps cold chain on skin can cause.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple 2 weeks ago

Midlands

Paddle feels great. Not used our for ages. Adult kids always around and they'd hear it ricocheting off my massive arse

Katie

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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago

I like floggers and paddles used on me

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By *EriversidecplCouple 2 weeks ago

Sunderland

All of them please, and thank you

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By *eyond PurityCouple 2 weeks ago

East Lincs

A paddle or whip…but much prefer to use a hand, every time. Much more hotter have skin to skin contact.

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By *aster N NaughtyCouple 2 weeks ago

deal

Paddles and floggers but definitely not to soft please

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By *arkstaffsMan 2 weeks ago

Rugeley

Hand followed by a heavy paddle...

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By *ust_us999Couple 2 weeks ago

Somewhere

I like using a mix of the 3... And various intensities 😈

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By *estiswestMan 2 weeks ago

glasgow

Love all 3

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By *tyoursecretserviceMan 2 weeks ago

his Birthday suit x

Giver not a taker, use all three but prefer the open hand spanking more. Just a little bit more intimate

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By *ack and MiriCouple 2 weeks ago

Portsmouth

1, flogger

2, hand

3, paddle

4, crop

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By *igbadlad100Man 2 weeks ago

witney

Cane strap paddle whip sjambok very hard !

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By *heStoryofOTV/TS 1 week ago

Paddle, cane xxx

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By *icentiousCouple 1 week ago

Up on them there hills

Floggers, you can change the intensity of how they are used.

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By *eglegMan 1 week ago

Telford

"1, flogger

2, hand

3, paddle

4, crop

Is the other you use them in?

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By *eglegMan 1 week ago

Telford

"For a little bedroom fun and a backside tingle do you prefer a light paddling, gentle caning or soft whipping?"

I love a mixture of all three though floggers do have the most versatility and variety.

When get the chance will start with floggers and end with cane

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By *ontyboi76Man 1 week ago

Pontypridd

We use on of those little silicone stranded whips, can both tease and cause great pain. Also have a double ended paddle and feather combination. But the paddle is barely used, it's a bit boring to us compared. A good hand feels more intense.

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By *iking_on_a_bikeMan 1 week ago

marlborough

Whip, nails and biting please.

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple 1 week ago

elvington

Crop

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan 1 week ago

Cheshire

Flogged on my back , caned on my buttocks only by the experienced though

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By *ittle miss sunshineWoman 1 week ago

south sheilds

I miss impact play 🙈

Never done it for age...

My favourites were paddles, and the whip and my ex Dom's hand..

I never liked the cane for me it was not pleasureable.

But omg we had a wooden spatula and mmm

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 1 week ago

Crumpet Castle

I don't like being slapped, paddled , whipped or whatever else and I don't like to punish others - BUT ...... If I had to choose... maybe one of those big sponge hands like Kenny Everett used to have

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By *ourpornfixMan 1 week ago

East Cheshire

My favourite is the flogger, provided the user knows how to use it properly!

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By *cKinkyboyMan 1 week ago

Whitley

Hand, paddle or a riding crop for me.

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By *ensualMan 1 week ago

Sutton

I don't do bedroom bdsm/bondage.

Any implements used are those agreed to or requested by the bottom after a full discussion of the elements of the scene.

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