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A deep and meaningful question for the ladies...
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"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back. "
Same here. I don't know my own strength. Sometimes it feels like the world is made of cardboard. I have to be careful not to break something. |
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"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back. "
Start off light and work your way up, the recipient will let you know when maximum spanking has been reached 😉✨️ |
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"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back.
Same here. I don't know my own strength. Sometimes it feels like the world is made of cardboard. I have to be careful not to break something."
I think you'll be ok, Superman! 🦸🏽 |
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"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back.
Same here. I don't know my own strength. Sometimes it feels like the world is made of cardboard. I have to be careful not to break something.
I think you'll be ok, Superman! 🦸🏽"
Sorry that sounded ruder than it meant to - only joshing, Shams. |
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"Receiving, off a guy that knows what he's doing, yeah. Don't tap it like you're scared you're gonna break it.
Giving? God no, I like my men to take charge. "
That's surprising, I had you down as more of a giver... |
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It’s actually a genetic choice. Some people get an endorphin hit from pain which can give them a giddy high. Other people just feel the pain. It’s the same high long distance runners get when they hit the wall.
I’m in the latter group and get no pleasure from being spanked. |
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Very much yay to receiving.
My more dominant side doesn't really get a lot from giving it out, I have different kinks in that regard. But I'd be open to exploring it more from a slight "service top" dynamic if it felt right with a partner. |
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Judging by the response so far, it seems the fab ladies mostly love to receive it with a handful of exceptions (weirdos) 😂
So onto the next deep question for the ladies;
Restraints. Yay or nay? Discuss.
By Restraints I include handcuffs, rope restraints, shibari or your personal choice of restraint.
Yay or nay? Please indicate if this is something you have done or want to do. |
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"Yes, absolutely love it with both giving and receiving! 😈 ✨️
I don't normally receive, but I'd make it an exception in your case Mrs 😉
Hand, paddle or riding crop 😉✨️
Ladies choice, 😳🤦🏽♂️"
All three it is then 😉
Also yes to restraints 😈✨️ |
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"Yes, absolutely love it with both giving and receiving! 😈 ✨️
I don't normally receive, but I'd make it an exception in your case Mrs 😉
Hand, paddle or riding crop 😉✨️
Ladies choice, 😳🤦🏽♂️
All three it is then 😉
Also yes to restraints 😈✨️"
Yikes 😳, I knew I liked you 🤣 |
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In regards to restraints, that’s a nay to both giving and receiving, with the exception of being pinned down by my wrists or being held against a wall, maybes an occasional hand around my neck if I trust the man I'm with. |
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Ok, so I'm one of the supposed weirdos.
Restraints? Yes, I quite like being restrained on occasion - by the right person who knows my triggers and where and when to push my buttons, as it were. Not going to submit to just anyone! |
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"Erotic spanking yes to receiving
Not so keen on giving.
Have been full on slapped into next week with one guy. No warm up. Not pleasant.
Restraints are a definite yes with a trusted partner "
FlirtyFilth, irresistible sexy bum to spank 😋 |
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"Judging by the response so far, it seems the fab ladies mostly love to receive it with a handful of exceptions (weirdos) 😂
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Let's not generalise based on a niche sample...it wouldn't do to let men think it's the done thing |
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"Judging by the response so far, it seems the fab ladies mostly love to receive it with a handful of exceptions (weirdos) 😂
So onto the next deep question for the ladies;
Restraints. Yay or nay? Discuss.
By Restraints I include handcuffs, rope restraints, shibari or your personal choice of restraint.
Yay or nay? Please indicate if this is something you have done or want to do."
Yay but only with someone I trust I don't mind doing it to someone either if they ask but I prefer it being done to me.
Ive tried pretty much all types of restraint and some shibari in the past.
Quite like a spreader bar. |
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"Spanking... Yay or Nay?"
Depends on the part of the nation you are in.
Corporal punishment prohibited in Scotland (2020) and Wales (2022), but 'reasonable chastisement' can be used in England and Northern Ireland!  |
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We have tried restraints and in all honesty, I only enjoy them for a short while.
I want to be able to touch, caress and feel my partner. Being restrained frustrates me and kind of detaches me from the experience instead of focusing more on sensations etc.
Same with blindfolds. Depriving me from being able to see my gorgeous partner takes away much of the experience for me. |
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"I always worry I'd hurt a woman, if I spanked her as hard as I could so I hold back.
Same here. I don't know my own strength. Sometimes it feels like the world is made of cardboard. I have to be careful not to break something.
I think you'll be ok, Superman! 🦸🏽
Sorry that sounded ruder than it meant to - only joshing, Shams."
It didn't sound rude at all. I'm glad someone understood the reference 👍🏾☺️ |
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"Judging by the response so far, it seems the fab ladies mostly love to receive it with a handful of exceptions (weirdos) 😂
Let's not generalise based on a niche sample...it wouldn't do to let men think it's the done thing "
Of course, I obviously meant it in jest. It would be foolish for anyone to assume a person liked something based on this. |
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but yeah, a nice spank on a cute arse is most satisfying 
