we are more than happy to host as we are to travel. What we want to get some opinions on is staying over. We have the option of people staying over and off out next morning for breakfast.
or there is a hotel five minutes up the road which we would also be able to meet at for breakfast
due to this we don't see distance as much of a problem as we would be more than happy to book a hotel near anyone we looked at meeting.
we would value people's ideas around this side of meets |
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Sounds ideal but you may hit a problem with people who don't have the money for hotels or who let you down with payment of their share....
Other than that you appear very willing to make things happen and I hope you meet the type of people you want to x good luck x |
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I think the idea of stopping over at someone's house first time you met can feel like a little bit pressured.
The hotel sounds like a much better idea, then each can have time to decompress. Breakfast in the morning in the hotel sounds like a wonderful idea |
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I’d prefer to keep meets contained to a set time and place. So for that reason a hotel works best.
I wouldn’t be making plans to stay the night with anyone that I didn’t know very well, and definitely not at my house (or theirs). I probably wouldn’t plan breakfast the next day either.
But that being said, I’m not really into the “social” side of things. I like to keep firm boundaries unless there’s strong chemistry. |
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I don't accommodate as I have an adult daughter at home and I prefer a meet where I stay over if it's a play meet other than a social.
I think it could be different for couples as when I was part of a couple we preferred to get a hotel to have a bit of our own space and time. |
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just to clarify we really enjoy the social side of things.so we would get to know the people involved before they are invited into our home. Regards to being in the same bed only a single lady may be allowed a couple would be in our spare room.
we wouldn't just invite any old weirdos round to begin with 😉 |
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Personally we like to book a hotel. With the right chemistry we will have an all night thing. With the right people we do love sex and cuddles and sleeping together all intertwined in the same bed, its beautiful. But we do like neutral territory and the option to have our own space if we're not feeling the all night thing or just want that alone space together afterwards. We just prefer a neutral space than being in someone elses home. Which in away is handy because it means we're willing to travel and get a hotel, which gives us more options.
It's different if they're close freinds on the scene. If it's people we know well and are comfortable with we do stay over at theirs. |
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