"Both very helpful responses thank you ladies."
That's the thing to take away from this, some will and some won't.
Try to find a little more confident if you can, but also be yourself too.
The balance somewhere between will appeal to most. But don't go getting disheartened if it feels like those that like shy guys are the minority. |
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In general, yes.
Online, no. It's like pulling teeth - tell me what you want, don't play games. (I understand social anxiety well, and you just need to push through sometimes. Shyness doesn't translate online) |
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"Occasionally bashful? Yes…. But he needs to have confidence in himself too. Theres a fine line "
Yeah, I agree with this. I've been that shy person and looking back, it must feel like pulling teeth for a woman to try and bring me out of my shell. I like to think I've found that sort of quiet confidence in myself that's present when I meet people now. |
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"Hi do any women enjoy a shy man that perhaps just needs bringing out of his shell ?"
I think the trick to being somewhat confident is to know what your good at and play to your strengths, like me, I'm great at making myself look like and idiot 😉 |
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"I'm more drawn to naturally confident slightly cocky guys. But not dickheads. "
Isn’t this the key. Trouble is, one person’s confident is another person’s arrogance.
I’m naturally not an up on the table dancing sort of person, well not at first, so I have to make a conscious effort to turn the volume up. Easy to overdo and look like a knob though. |
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"Hi do any women enjoy a shy man that perhaps just needs bringing out of his shell ?
To be honest, not really. I prefer confident men."
shame I've been working in Motherwell last week and stopping in Glasgow x |
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By *vaRoseWoman 2 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"Occasionally bashful? Yes…. But he needs to have confidence in himself too. Theres a fine line
Yeah, I agree with this. I've been that shy person and looking back, it must feel like pulling teeth for a woman to try and bring me out of my shell. I like to think I've found that sort of quiet confidence in myself that's present when I meet people now."
That’s absolutely it for me. A quiet confidence. Everyone is shy sometimes and nobody is confident in everything. |
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By *872 OP Man 2 weeks ago
Westcliff-on-Sea |
I guess shy is the wrong wording I can just be nervous in the bedroom department trying not to overthink the moment on the rare occasion it happens. I can communicate with women fine just struggle to get to intimate time |
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I don’t know about you fab lot but according to Diana King…
I don't want no fly guy
I just want a shy guy
That's what I want yey
You know what I want yey
Oh Lord have mercy mercy mercy
Di man dem in a di party party party
Di ole a dem sexy sexy sexy
Watch dem just a
Follow me follow me follow me |
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