"Am I the only one who, when sees the term "Owned" on a woman's profile, gets the ick?
Keen to know people's thoughts.... "
You're not the only one ...it absolutely turns my stomach upside down when I see it...but that's their choice 👍 |
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I think what two (or more) consenting adults chose to get up to is their own business. If you don’t like it, scroll on. Or block so you don’t have to see it again.
I think some people struggle to understand the D/S dynamic when it’s at its extremes and assume that the “owned” person is being coerced to some degree. Many people derive sexual satisfaction from being controlled.
Im sure I heard Sadiq Khan say “diversity is our strength” and I’m pretty sure this is what he was talking about 😉 |
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For me it’s people who cheat on their partners that give me „the ick” but then it’s not my business to be the judge of their situation.
I usually ignore those profiles and move on with my life.
I suggest you possibly do the same OP. |
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By *eliWoman 1 week ago
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I don't understand why they're single profiles but it's not actually bothering me. Men and women can be "owned"; if that makes them happy fair enough.
If I'm not keen on a profile I click away. |
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I agree we should all let people do them and not dis peoples likes.
But i do find it interesting how there are many threads daily doing exactly this and the comments vary differently dependent on which gender has posted it.
The valid sensible contributions dont count im meaning the more "schoolteacher telling off comments"
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"It’s part of D/s dynamic, and it isn’t gender specific
It’s like married, wife
Probably more respect that the other terms too "
This was an eye opener in my very, very incipient journey.
And I fucking love it.  🩷🎀 |
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"I don't understand why they're single profiles but it's not actually bothering me. Men and women can be "owned"; if that makes them happy fair enough.
If I'm not keen on a profile I click away. "
In our particular case it’d just be me gabbing away anyway as it seems I have more time 🤣🤣🤣… I’ve also invested a lot of said disposable time in building my single profile, and we also value our autonomy (yes, I get loads! ) so we have a couple’s profile and our own personal ones. Works well.  🎀 |
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By *eliWoman 1 week ago
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"In our particular case it’d just be me gabbing away anyway as it seems I have more time 🤣🤣🤣… I’ve also invested a lot of said disposable time in building my single profile, and we also value our autonomy (yes, I get loads!) so we have a couple’s profile and our own personal ones. Works well. 🎀"
Oh I got the theory but didn't quite *get* it. Still don't. And that's fine because I don't *need* to.
It doesn't affect my experience of Fab. You're not hurting anyone, it's all ethical. Nothing wrong with it.
Appreciate the effort in replying though. 😊🩷 |
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"I agree we should all let people do them and not dis peoples likes.
But i do find it interesting how there are many threads daily doing exactly this and the comments vary differently dependent on which gender has posted it.
The valid sensible contributions dont count im meaning the more "schoolteacher telling off comments"
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Yeah...it's almost like...a double standard 👀 |
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"Am I the only one who, when sees the term "Owned" on a woman's profile, gets the ick?
Keen to know people's thoughts.... "
Tell you what gives us the ick.
People who are cheating then describe themselves as 'respectable'. |
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"Am I the only one who, when sees the term "Owned" on a woman's profile, gets the ick?
Keen to know people's thoughts.... "
I can understand why you'd feel uncomfortable. But honestly... just ignore and keep scrolling. |
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"I agree we should all let people do them and not dis peoples likes.
But i do find it interesting how there are many threads daily doing exactly this and the comments vary differently dependent on which gender has posted it.
The valid sensible contributions dont count im meaning the more "schoolteacher telling off comments"
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Agree. If you see something on a profile and it's not for you, you should just scroll on, or just block them so you don't have to see it again or write out 100 lines on a blackboard 'I will not be judgemental prick', then put some books down your pants and be prepared to be spanked |
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"I agree we should all let people do them and not dis peoples likes.
But i do find it interesting how there are many threads daily doing exactly this and the comments vary differently dependent on which gender has posted it.
The valid sensible contributions dont count im meaning the more "schoolteacher telling off comments"
Agree. If you see something on a profile and it's not for you, you should just scroll on, or just block them so you don't have to see it again or write out 100 lines on a blackboard 'I will not be judgemental prick', then put some books down your pants and be prepared to be spanked"
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"Am I the only one who, when sees the term "Owned" on a woman's profile, gets the ick?
Keen to know people's thoughts.... "
I don't get the ick. But I can choose not to interact with anyone who's profile tells me they're not my people. That's kind of what profiles are for. I appreciate when a profile tells me something more than the user either knows all the clichés or can use chatGPT. |
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