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Good folks 👋🏻😃
In a social setting (not sexual) - do you like to be the centre of attention?
Say, for instance, it’s your birthday and someone has organised a party/gathering for you.
Do you enjoy being the centre of such attention or else do you prefer to attend such events wherein someone else is the central focus?
Alternatively, you may of course be a miserable sod like me and opt for the third choice e.g preferring not to attend any such events in the first place, either your own or those of bloody others.
Over to you my good peeps 😜👍🏻
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"Good folks 👋🏻😃
In a social setting (not sexual) - do you like to be the centre of attention?
Say, for instance, it’s your birthday and someone has organised a party/gathering for you.
Do you enjoy being the centre of such attention or else do you prefer to attend such events wherein someone else is the central focus?
Alternatively, you may of course be a miserable sod like me and opt for the third choice e.g preferring not to attend any such events in the first place, either your own or those of bloody others.
Over to you my good peeps 😜👍🏻
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Think both for me OP. Happy to be centre of attention but also happy for someone to have the spotlight. As long as there is fun to be had! |
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I couldn’t think of nowt worse
I don’t celebrate or acknowledge my birthday mainly as I don’t give a shit about it but also because I hate being the focus of anything, friend and family tried to get me to have an event to celebrate my 40th told them all to get fucked ha |
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No, don't like being the focus or centre of attention.
Hate surprise parties etc, Paul knows this and wouldn't dream of arranging such a bash.
Ok, out with friends for my birthday I suppose I am the centre of attention but don't overplay it.
We tend to mix with friends who are of the same minds.
Do find an attention seeker not getting all the attention he or she thinks they deserve hilarious, with little shows of titty lips.
I'm a successful, confident woman who is happy in her own skin and life so don't need excess attention.
Suppose I somewhat contradict myself at a gangbang.....🤣🤣🤣 |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 7 days ago
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"I couldn’t think of nowt worse
I don’t celebrate or acknowledge my birthday mainly as I don’t give a shit about it but also because I hate being the focus of anything, friend and family tried to get me to have an event to celebrate my 40th told them all to get fucked ha "
Same! I cringe at the birthday threads on here, this isn't primary school! |
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"I couldn’t think of nowt worse
I don’t celebrate or acknowledge my birthday mainly as I don’t give a shit about it but also because I hate being the focus of anything, friend and family tried to get me to have an event to celebrate my 40th told them all to get fucked ha
Same! I cringe at the birthday threads on here, this isn't primary school!"
Many happy returns 😃😃😃🎂🎂🎂🎂😜 |
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"I couldn’t think of nowt worse
I don’t celebrate or acknowledge my birthday mainly as I don’t give a shit about it but also because I hate being the focus of anything, friend and family tried to get me to have an event to celebrate my 40th told them all to get fucked ha
Same! I cringe at the birthday threads on here, this isn't primary school!"
Haha yes each to own but I can never understand announcing that it my birthday, even hated it back at first school was pleased mine was in the summer holidays ha |
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All depends on the circumstances for me, generally I don’t like to be the centre of attention but if I’m wearing fancy dress or a costume of any kind then I can be a bit of a nightmare 🤣 |
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All depends on the circumstances really and Mrs4 is far more sociable than me but i enjoy making people laugh and she'll happily chat away to total strangers and i prefer to lurk in the background and listen and watch people as not a huge people person xx |
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Victor Meldrew here. I have twice had surprise parties organised for me for significant B'days (30 and 40) - that has never happened again.
However, if I go to an event out of choice, I love socialising. |
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I dont mind being seen, but not the centre of attention, no.
Im confident in my skin and can hold a decent conversation but do not wish to be the main attraction lol. Having said that I did used to be a Demonstrator at the ideal home show and other big shows, so not shy to speak and present products to large audiences x
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"I don’t mind public speaking with work etc but I’d be absolutely fuming if someone threw a party for me. Couldn’t think of anything worse than that kind of attention. "
I get what you're saying about the party, id just be happy that they'd gone to the trouble to arrange it. I love surprises x
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"I don’t mind public speaking with work etc but I’d be absolutely fuming if someone threw a party for me. Couldn’t think of anything worse than that kind of attention.
I get what you're saying about the party, id just be happy that they'd gone to the trouble to arrange it. I love surprises x
Mrs x"
I sound ungrateful don’t I but I’d hope those that know me would have more sense 🤣 |
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"I don’t mind public speaking with work etc but I’d be absolutely fuming if someone threw a party for me. Couldn’t think of anything worse than that kind of attention.
I get what you're saying about the party, id just be happy that they'd gone to the trouble to arrange it. I love surprises x
Mrs x
I sound ungrateful don’t I but I’d hope those that know me would have more sense 🤣"
I get it, some people hate surprises and stuff like surprise parties, to each their own xx
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If it's something for me, yes of course I'm happy to be the centre of attention, and it really grinds my gears when someone else attempts to make themselves the start of the show.
However, if it's someone else's event, I'm very happy just to sit in the sidelines and observe, and reluctantly join in if I'm forced to. I'd far rather not even attend them if I'm honest, but sometimes you just can't decline, can you?
I guess I'm - somewhat strangely - at the two extremes of the spectrum. |
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The 2nd
I love supporting people’s get together, so long as they are happy for me to approach them discreetly, wish them best wishes nice and quietly, for whatever reason the gathering has been convened
And then be allowed to sit quietly in a corner pretty much unnoticed  |
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No thank you. I prefer to be invisible. I don't like lots of people looking at me. I'd prefer something intimate with someone I love or a small group of people I care about. Nothing over the top. Chilled out. Or nothing at all. Just a normal day. |
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"Morning all.
It's interesting that so many here are shy souls in 'reality.
Add me to the list...option 2
Is it shy or just a dislike of people? 🤷🏻♀️"
Personally, I love people, just not keen to be the centre of attention....or maybe I don't like everyone knowing my business? |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 6 days ago
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"Morning all.
It's interesting that so many here are shy souls in 'reality.
Add me to the list...option 2
Is it shy or just a dislike of people? 🤷🏻♀️
Personally, I love people, just not keen to be the centre of attention....or maybe I don't like everyone knowing my business?"
Yeah, I dislike people. |
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"Morning all.
It's interesting that so many here are shy souls in 'reality.
Add me to the list...option 2"
I don't think it always comes down to shyness.
I'm ok chatting to people and taking part in group activities but I don't want it to be about me.
I find it much more enjoyable when everyone is contributing and chipping in now and again rather than having someone trying to be the loudest voice or doing their best to suck all the oxygen out of the room.
People who want or need to be the centre of attention are not my kind of people so I don't have them in my small circle of friends. |
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By *wcjw70Man 6 days ago
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I’m not a shy person but I could think of nothing worse than everyone looking at me if I’m trying to be the centre of attention. I don’t gravitate towards people like this either, they tend to just want to talk about themselves. No I’m quite happy being at the back of the room looking on. |
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By *wcjw70Man 6 days ago
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I’m not a shy person but I could not think of anything worse than everyone looking at me if I’m trying to be the centre of attention. I don’t gravitate towards people like this either, they tend to just want to talk about themselves. No I’m quite happy being at the back of the room looking on. |
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