… someone from Fab without fancying them?
Or are you only here to get your leg over? I’ve met people one-on-one just for a chat and a drink, even though I already know I don’t fancy them. Or they don’t fancy me. Or both. But I realise that’s not for everyone.
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"… someone from Fab without fancying them?
Or are you only here to get your leg over? I’ve met people one-on-one just for a chat and a drink, even though I already know I don’t fancy them. Or they don’t fancy me. Or both. But I realise that’s not for everyone.
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Yep done that |
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"I just want a good fingering tbh if that wasnt on the table i wouldnt meet.
Look, last time we tried that on the table, we got huckled out of the bar. 
Thats only because you have big hands  "
I dunno why but now I'm imagining those big rubber football goal hands!! |
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"As a social, just a get together with somebody I connect with. But anything sexual no. "
I really didn’t mean to imply having sex with someone you don’t fancy. That’s a terrible idea and nobody should do it. |
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"I just want a good fingering tbh if that wasnt on the table i wouldnt meet.
Look, last time we tried that on the table, we got huckled out of the bar.
Thats only because you have big hands
I dunno why but now I'm imagining those big rubber football goal hands!!"
🤣🤣🤣 im thinking of the foam ones the ones with the big middle finger |
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By *olo180Man 5 days ago
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Like someone else said, I have plenty of friends that I just don’t get the time to see so I wouldn’t be looking at making new social acquaintances. A meet for a social with the aim for more (but if it didn’t work out that’s fine) |
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"Yup, enjoy the openness of fab friendships, love meeting people at socials and the ladies nights out where most of them are straight and we chat and laugh all evening long  "
Oh, for sure. The big socials are great for making friends.
(Although I always seem to end up fancying/snogging someone at some point …) |
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"Yup, enjoy the openness of fab friendships, love meeting people at socials and the ladies nights out where most of them are straight and we chat and laugh all evening long
Oh, for sure. The big socials are great for making friends.
(Although I always seem to end up fancying/snogging someone at some point …)"
I’m clearly doing socials wrong…. |
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If I chat with them on here and we get along great socially but didn't find them attractive, I would. But I would have to be clear with them that it's only a social and there's no possibility of it being any more.
I know some people are only here for shags but I am always open to new friends I have things in common with. I have made lots of friends from going to swingers clubs that I don't want to have sex with but we get on well. |
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By *eliWoman 5 days ago
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Yep. Very happily. I have friends on here, Fab friends and otherwise that I'm happy to spend time with.
I'm also happy to meet new people as long as it doesn't feel like they're only trying to get their leg over. You know when friendships only last as long as it takes for you to say you're not interested in them sexually? Don't have energy for that. |
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I've met lots of people socially knowing that we weren't sexually compatible beforehand but they seemed like decent human beings so it was nice to meet for a coffee.
If I was just here to get my leg over I wouldn't be here any more
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"… But I would have to be clear with them that it's only a social and there's no possibility of it being any more."
Definitely! I’ve fallen foul of that rookie mistake before. Best to make things super-clear before going for that drink. It gets awkward if you leave it ’til later. |
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Yes, I have plenty of Fab platonic friends male and female who I often meet for a coffee and nights out. They all know my stance & we happily have a laugh at life. |
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By *sWyldWoman 5 days ago
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Yes . I've met people socially knowing thats all it will ever be, though I've found it is never more than a one off.
I've been to organised socials and a party knowing I don't fancy anyone and they don't fancy me either and it's almost made it less pressure that way.
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Yes, and have done several times.
Problem is when you are crystal clear in saying it will only be a social and guys still think they can convince you of taking it further….
But social meetups as frijds are awesome. 🎀🩷 |
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Yes absolutely, and I do so frequently. Whilst I'm here for the intimate encounters some of my interactions are one-to-one socials, dinners, attending art exhibitions and galleries etc. I meet those that I fancy and also I meet those where there is no mutual attraction other than mutual friendship. |
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I’ve met loads socially. That’s part of the fun. In fact I’m in London now, will see if there’s anyone I know to have coffee with. It’s just a great opportunity meeting new people and getting a different perspective on life |
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