we are looking to have an update to our profile. what would help to catch people's attention
personally we find a lot of very similar pictures or profile text that goes on and on and on don't keep us interested for long enough to initiate contact |
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"we are looking to have an update to our profile. what would help to catch people's attention
personally we find a lot of very similar pictures or profile text that goes on and on and on don't keep us interested for long enough to initiate contact "
That’s interesting because I’m the opposite. I like lots to read because the profile text gives the person the opportunity to get their personality across. Those with very little text I always think have very little to say about themselves or can’t be bothered, so if they can’t be bothered then nor can I and if they’re too unaware to manage a very visual medium to attract attention, then they’re the type I’m not interested in. |
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Pictures that include the guy and show you both together (which you're already on top off). Also you have to nail the main profile, that catches the eye initially. Of which a well taken photo with both of you on really catches our attention because it suggests there'll be more in the profile for Mrs to peruse.
We like profiles that indicate the owners are easy going and don't take stuff too seriously. Nothing heavy, just a flavour for what you're looking and a bit of your character. That's sort of think that gets our attention. |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 3 days ago
pink panther territory |
Normally hos nob 
Seriously though,it's the whole package for me
Photos,of both if it's a couple
Profiles that let's others know what you looking me
And I love reading profiles that give you an idea of there personality |
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By *aelusMan 3 days ago
Hertfordshire |
A small amount of effort goes a very long way:
More than three sentences / correct spelling and grammar / a couple of photos that have been thought about a little / a verification or at least the green tick |
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A bit of personality in the bio. Are you nerdy/geeky? Are you both funny? Are you shy and reserved? Are you the life of the party? How would you describe each other? What experiences are you looking for? Maybe add a joke of some kind. 👍🏾☺️ |
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