Is it that older women don't believe young men want them, or is it that these older women aren't interested in younger men? Women over a certain age (I don't know what people mean by "older" - 30, 40, 50, 60?) aren't out here begging for scraps, and so grateful when someone graced by God with youth comes up to them.
(Fab is hard for guys of all ages, although based on what I've seen, less hard between 30 and 50. It could also be that, not just the specific dynamic you're looking for) |
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"You dont really specify that and your age range is really wide still
Maybe its the way you message them? not sure x "
Yeah, all the general profile advice applies - the OP's text is generic, 18-99 suggests "will fuck anything with a pulse", etc. |
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By *p4funuk OP Man 2 days ago
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"Is it that older women don't believe young men want them, or is it that these older women aren't interested in younger men? Women over a certain age (I don't know what people mean by "older" - 30, 40, 50, 60?) aren't out here begging for scraps, and so grateful when someone graced by God with youth comes up to them.
(Fab is hard for guys of all ages, although based on what I've seen, less hard between 30 and 50. It could also be that, not just the specific dynamic you're looking for)"
whenisay older I mean older than me but starting at like mid 40 upwards they just don't seem to want to go any further than hello basically even though there profile will say20-40 age range |
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"Is it that older women don't believe young men want them, or is it that these older women aren't interested in younger men? Women over a certain age (I don't know what people mean by "older" - 30, 40, 50, 60?) aren't out here begging for scraps, and so grateful when someone graced by God with youth comes up to them.
(Fab is hard for guys of all ages, although based on what I've seen, less hard between 30 and 50. It could also be that, not just the specific dynamic you're looking for) whenisay older I mean older than me but starting at like mid 40 upwards they just don't seem to want to go any further than hello basically even though there profile will say20-40 age range "
Some of us have been here for awhile, and forget to change our age range. Also, "not going beyond hello" sounds like it's a message/approach issue - you're not appealing to them. |
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"I try to look for the more mature women on here but it's like they don't believe I actually want them is there anything I could do to change how I come across to them  "
Without knowing how you approach women o can't really say. Can you give a general idea (don't quote messages)?
I can't speak for others but just talking to me without referring to my age as the main point of meeting is a good start, being interested in *me* and just generally respectful. |
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"It might be that they feel as if they're be fetishized and you're just looking to meet an older lady, rather than them in particular  "
Yes. There's very little I'd find less attractive than being on the other end of "I want to achieve a fossil whose birthdate is in the 1900s" |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 2 days ago
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"It might be that they feel as if they're be fetishized and you're just looking to meet an older lady, rather than them in particular
Yes. There's very little I'd find less attractive than being on the other end of "I want to achieve a fossil whose birthdate is in the 1900s""
I need an Inaswingdressasaurus to complete my bucket list/ sticker collection. How about it?
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"It might be that they feel as if they're be fetishized and you're just looking to meet an older lady, rather than them in particular
Yes. There's very little I'd find less attractive than being on the other end of "I want to achieve a fossil whose birthdate is in the 1900s"
I need an Inaswingdressasaurus to complete my bucket list/ sticker collection. How about it?
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