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By (user no longer on site) OP 8 weeks ago
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Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.
Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?
Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?
Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?
Im having a pondering day today
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By (user no longer on site) OP 8 weeks ago
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"I think there should be male brothels where all the men have been vetted and have safety and good shagger clearance that i could use every day.
Thank you - and I can do it with me Google wallet"
🤣 yes! |
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When I started, absolutely i had a specific preference.
Now, 4 years later my horizons have broadened a little.
But theres still the group of things that are important including,
The types of pics that someone posts.
Age.
Interests (sexual)
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To a point. I like what I like, I know what I like, but there have been people that have added, or taken from what I like.
I've been attracted to things I had never considered before (in people and sexual interests).
I'm not a "I will give any opportunity a go" person, but to completely shut myself off from things that are currently not on my radar seems a bit of a waste too. |
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In regards to TheHusband I have everything I could ever want, he's amazing and also giving me this opportunity to have a playmate
As for TheBF, he does a decent job 😉 is there room for more... Yes! Could we do other things... Also yes! But at the moment we're all happy doing what we're doing... Well, I am  |
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"In regards to TheHusband I have everything I could ever want, he's amazing and also giving me this opportunity to have a playmate
As for TheBF, he does a decent job 😉 is there room for more... Yes! Could we do other things... Also yes! But at the moment we're all happy doing what we're doing... Well, I am "
We've read your posts about your dynamics a few times.....it sounds amazing!!!!
Mr. |
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I’ve got a clear sense of what I want. I’m a fussy bugger, I know my likes, my dislikes, but I’m also open to everything (not everyone) in between.
Am I getting what I want? Yeah.
Am I getting enough of it? Not even close 🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 8 weeks ago
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"I’ve got a clear sense of what I want. I’m a fussy bugger, I know my likes, my dislikes, but I’m also open to everything (not everyone) in between.
Am I getting what I want? Yeah.
Am I getting enough of it? Not even close 🤣"
Shame! Shame! Shame!🔔
Give her more. Now 🤣 |
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"I’ve got a clear sense of what I want. I’m a fussy bugger, I know my likes, my dislikes, but I’m also open to everything (not everyone) in between.
Am I getting what I want? Yeah.
Am I getting enough of it? Not even close 🤣
Shame! Shame! Shame!🔔
Give her more. Now 🤣"
🤣🤣🤣 |
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"I’ve got a clear sense of what I want. I’m a fussy bugger, I know my likes, my dislikes, but I’m also open to everything (not everyone) in between.
Am I getting what I want? Yeah.
Am I getting enough of it? Not even close 🤣
Shame! Shame! Shame!🔔
Give her more. Now 🤣"
I've debated it, but she is from that lancs place. They are a bit of an unsavoury sort up that way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 8 weeks ago
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"I’ve got a clear sense of what I want. I’m a fussy bugger, I know my likes, my dislikes, but I’m also open to everything (not everyone) in between.
Am I getting what I want? Yeah.
Am I getting enough of it? Not even close 🤣
Shame! Shame! Shame!🔔
Give her more. Now 🤣
I've debated it, but she is from that lancs place. They are a bit of an unsavoury sort up that way. "
There ya go. Sorted 😁 |
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I don't have a crib sheet that exists within the confines of my head that either highlights or lists what I'm looking for.
There will always be one or two boundaries for the 'unmentionable stuff' that would apply to most free thinkers on here.
Qualities: I never truly know until I start chatting to someone first and get to know them at length. I can't put my finger on it or describe it: some women exhibit fine qualities that I hadn't even considered or thought about. They throw my crib sheet out of the window!
Now I remember why I don't have a crib sheet.
It's good to muse.
I think I'm looking for a Muse. |
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It's like ice cream. Having the same flavour every time would get very stale. You can pick a different one every now and then to try it out. If you were enjoying three scoops you are not going to want them all to be vanilla. When you add the sprinkles, do they work for every flavour? How many chocolate flakes do you prod in there? Some times you just want to close your eyes and someone surprise you. A nice surprise. Variety is the spice of life. |
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"I think there should be male brothels where all the men have been vetted and have safety and good shagger clearance that i could use every day.
Thank you - and I can do it with me Google wallet"
Id do you for free in your google wallet… ps -never heard it called that before!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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I have boundaries of course.
But I am on something of a journey recently. Discovering things I thought I didn’t like because of who I thought I was.
Sometimes trying something again with someone new is amazing. Sometimes it helps to pop it into the boundary pile.
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I think it's easier to know what you don't want. I stay open to new things and happy to shift boundaries. I'm getting what I want and need, but the reason we are all here is because we're a little bit greedy |
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I have an ideal of a relationship/partner that I would love, but I know the likelihood of finding that is slim. So I make consessions in reality.
But I do know what I definitely don't want. If any of that makes sense |
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"I think there should be male brothels where all the men have been vetted and have safety and good shagger clearance that i could use every day.
Thank you - and I can do it with me Google wallet"
I’ve always fantasised about being an international male fiesta (can’t say that word)
And being educated in art, philosophy and culture, able to speak 9 languages, and able to hand out orgasms in bed like toffee’s.
Unfortunately I can’t speak any other languages |
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"Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.
Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?
Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?
Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?
Im having a pondering day today
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I know exactly what I want, and I’m not prepared to compromise on that, my list is short but non negotiable. |
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"Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.
Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?
Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?
Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?
Im having a pondering day today
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No issues here, I’ll do anything to anyone.
Preference for no yapping and a nice roomy minge. |
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"Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.
Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?
Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?
Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?
Im having a pondering day today
No issues here, I’ll do anything to anyone.
Preference for no yapping and a nice roomy minge."
Have you looked on Airbnb or Booking.com? |
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"Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.
Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?
Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?
Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?
Im having a pondering day today
No issues here, I’ll do anything to anyone.
Preference for no yapping and a nice roomy minge."
Roomy? First I've heard of anyone wanting that haha. |
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"Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.
Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?
Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?
Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?
Im having a pondering day today
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Big tits and a dirty mind pretty much covers it for me. Luke |
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By *eliWoman 7 weeks ago
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Making it a pondering morning as well because I like thinky threads. And TT ones. ❤️
No; not actually looking for anything means there aren't specifics.
There are a couple of qualities/traits that are non-negotiable - I'm not attracted to people without a certain level of friendship. I might think they're attractive, enjoy talking to them - my quim stays sleeping.
Boundaries - a couple of hard ones. Had people try to push those, they're happily out of my life/vagina. Some are more situational so perhaps they're not boundaries as such.
I'm getting what I want and need for the most part which is part of why I'm fairly laidback, bordering on losing interest too quickly. |
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