"So, Iv seen a few daddy and his girl couples, however, having met a couple at a club recently. I can’t stop wondering about the whole dynamics.
He - lovely guy - late 50’s. She - gorgeous, I’m talking absolute knock out! Perfect figure, so pretty, and a personality to match. And 23/24 years old!
It hugely depends on the dynamic of that couple. Some people live the lifestyle 24/7, others only participate in the dynamics within the “bedroom” or clubs.
There are levels to it, I’d hazard a guess that they’re not using a lead in public, but likely still participating in the D/s dynamic in some format.
I personally couldn’t be “controlled”, however, people fail to realise, that in true D/s dynamics/relationships, the sub has agreed to all the rules, they hold the power, and can say no at any point.
There are some amazing books to read on it if you’re interested in it
Now, outside the club and before entering the world of Fab, I’d have had very different views. Yes, I was very judgemental! Until clubs…. Teaches you a lot on life! Anyway, the ponder is this….
She was being led around by a lead, and was very strict on only doing what he said. Absolutely nothing without his consent.
Is this inside the world of fab, or does it continue outside?
I’m not a dom, so I do struggle with the lead thing, but I get that if that’s what people want, and they are happy with it, then hey - good for you. Just don’t think I can do it, nor control someone like that.
Is it really what some females want? To be controlled, told what and where to go and with whom? Or as I say, is this just for the fab world, and once outside the dynamics change?
I’m not judging, just curious really 🤔
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