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By *eli OP Woman 3 hours ago
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"When we were all going out and about on weekends back in the day and you'd see someone you slept with the week before is that a form of swinging?"
Might be a slight generational difference here, I don't remember that time.  |
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"I’m not a swinger. I have sex with various people as a sort of hobby or past-time, not a lifestyle.
What's the difference between a hobby and a lifestyle in terms of swingers?"
Some I have met spend weekends and such travelling the country to clubs and places and staying over at others houses for weekend sessions etc, live and breathe sex and swinging. That’s a lifestyle. A hobby is an occasional dabble. |
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"When we were all going out and about on weekends back in the day and you'd see someone you slept with the week before is that a form of swinging?
Might be a slight generational difference here, I don't remember that time. "
Haha,only 10yrs difference which i guess yes is a time |
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"I think i am.
I'm in a relationship where we both enjoy having sex with other people. you’re very lucky to be in such a situation. "
It's only so her husband can have a break from her. That poor man. |
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"I think i am.
I'm in a relationship where we both enjoy having sex with other people. you’re very lucky to be in such a situation.
It's only so her husband can have a break from her. That poor man. "
(Yes, I know, but don’t tell her) |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 3 hours ago
Somewhere dark and gloomy |
"Can you be a swinger as a single person? I’m not sure. I don’t class myself as one anyway."
This is my thinking. I'm just someone who meets different guys. It's a bit like me in my twenties really. Kinda fun. |
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"I wouldn't class us as swingers. We have a bit of occasional fun with a third person. "
You could say that in the third person:
“I wouldn’t class them as swingers. They have a bit of occasional fun with a third person.” |
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By *Effy-Woman 2 hours ago
Scotland |
"I think i am.
I'm in a relationship where we both enjoy having sex with other people. you’re very lucky to be in such a situation.
It's only so her husband can have a break from her. That poor man. "
Stop sticking up for him, he doesn't deserve it! |
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"What's a swinger? As in, what makes a person a swinger?
Would you say you're a swinger?
I'd ask more swinger questions but reached the word looks wrong stage."
Nope I don't think I am as I'm single,just someone with an open mind and liberal approach to sex and likes variety. |
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I enjoy your threads _eli. I like to peruse through the different opinions on them.
I cant really offer much as i'm not a swinger, i suppose my thoughts are they are either couples, poly, enm couples who are true swingers. Then again i could be very wrong.
I also like how unchaotic your threads are unlike mine ❤️ |
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By *eli OP Woman 2 hours ago
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"I enjoy your threads _eli. I like to peruse through the different opinions on them.
I cant really offer much as i'm not a swinger, i suppose my thoughts are they are either couples, poly, enm couples who are true swingers. Then again i could be very wrong.
I also like how unchaotic your threads are unlike mine ❤️"
You're a sweetheart TT, well and truly. Yeah, it's down to nosiness really - I like finding different opinions and views and the wit and the more serious. I think sometimes swinging/swingers are seen in a negative light and yeah, the thread came from there.
Your threads are a hoot, never change them. 🥰 |
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"I'm not a swinger, not do I purport to being one.
I'm just a vanilla singleton looking for one-to-one dates and dalliances with a restricted retinue.
This but with less eloquence "
This but even less eloquence |
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"I wouldn't class us as swingers. We have a bit of occasional fun with a third person.
You could say that in the third person:
“I wouldn’t class them as swingers. They have a bit of occasional fun with a third person.”"
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I think we are part swingers.
We meet others for sex but they are regulars, not one offs and generally singles, not other couples.
We go to clubs every so often, maybe two/three times a year, but we hardly play with others in them.
We’ve been to PDI and didn’t have sex with others.
We enjoy the lifestyle but it doesn’t dictate our lives.
We have friends who go to clubs every weekend and always play. They can be found in the midst of group play and their whole life revolves around swinging. Going away with other couples, PDI twice a year. I’d say that they are true swingers whereas we are only dipping our toes in now and again.
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By *iver78Man 1 hour ago
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I'm not a swinger , I'm a single old man who enjoys meeting new people , but I believe true swingers swop and go to clubs !? Iv no one to swop with and wouldent ever go to a club / event , well not on my own |
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When I first joined I had a distinct mental picture of what was a swinger and it absolutely wasn’t me. The keys in a bowl thing is still very much not for me. But I think it would be untrue to say I’m not a swinger. |
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I'm not a swinger. I enjoy socialising, interacting on the forums, occasionally meeting people in real life. I haven't figured out what I'm looking for apart from friendship and intimacy.
Is a swinger someone who likes upside down pineapples? |
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"I think i am.
I'm in a relationship where we both enjoy having sex with other people. you’re very lucky to be in such a situation.
It's only so her husband can have a break from her. That poor man.
Stop sticking up for him, he doesn't deserve it! "
See! |
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