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By *gent Coulson OP Man 4 weeks ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
In the bedroom, are you dominant or submissive |
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By *eglegMan 4 weeks ago
Telford |
Switch, best of both worlds  |
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I'll take a pinch of each please. |
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Totally submissive very obediant |
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Believe it or not dominant
But like to try the submissive roll |
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(pleasure) Dom leaning, but switchy. Different ways express the same energy |
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Dominant (I don't have a submissive streak).
'dominant' as in taking the lead, gently coaxing, orchestrating the playtime and steering my partner; NOT as in being a 'Dom', BDSM, extreme stuff... |
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Primal with some domme leanings |
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"Depends who I'm with."
This 👆🏻
Men, I am definitely submissive
Women, I prefer to be in charge
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Dominant. I'd like to try being submissive with the right person though. |
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We both switch. But for meets Mr cheeky is submissive to Mrs cheeky and Mrs cheeky likes to be submissive to whom he watches her with x |
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Switch - giving and control of pleasure is where it's at! Love it in both roles but am yet to find a woman who is interested in this local to me |
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By *Effy-Woman 4 weeks ago
Scotland |
I'm not more one over the other. It's very dependant on the other person involved.
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Dom here but feeling like I want to switch for the right person. |
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"We both switch. But for meets Mr cheeky is submissive to Mrs cheeky and Mrs cheeky likes to be submissive to whom he watches her with x"
This definitely works for me. |
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More submissive with some brat tendencies with certain partners. |
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I'm a pleasure dom and my wife is submissive to me. With others, my wife is dominant and loves punishing people but she's still submissive to me. |
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I’d say dominant although it does depend on the partner and it’s fun to switch and someone ‘bite back’ sometimes! 😏 |
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By *vaRoseWoman 4 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
A switch with a lean to the more Dominant side |
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By *mf123Man 4 weeks ago
with one foot out the door |
I was dominant in the end but its been so long id likely just fall asleep now im too old for that sheeet |
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Very much a submissive |
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By *ed FlameWoman 4 weeks ago
South Gloucestershire |
Sub to men mainly.
Switch with women.
More of a brat to be honest |
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Submissive - I don’t have a dominant bone in my body (insert your own punchline!) 😉 |
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submissive,couldnt be dominant if I tried  |
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I’m the dominant one she’s most submissive with me than others she won’t tolerate it but I can do as I wish |
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Submissive , in the bedroom only … |
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80% dominant, but like to switch too |
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Depending on with who and the mood, both.
Switch. enjoy the best of both ! |
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"Submissive , in the bedroom only …"
Tend to notice a lot of people who has a dominant based work like being submissive in bed, same with guys ? Maybe I'm reading too much into it haha |
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Mostly dominant but have been known to occasionally switch with the right partner, so it’s not totally ruled out |
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By *iver78Man 4 weeks ago
barton upon humber |
Switch,it depends on the mood |
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I’m not one for labels but I’d have to say more of a sensual dominant yet depending on the sub I can be pretty firm and demanding |
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By *iver78Man 4 weeks ago
barton upon humber |
"Submissive , in the bedroom only …
Tend to notice a lot of people who has a dominant based work like being submissive in bed, same with guys ? Maybe I'm reading too much into it haha "
Very true , some people like to have a break from there day today life |
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"Submissive , in the bedroom only …
Tend to notice a lot of people who has a dominant based work like being submissive in bed, same with guys ? Maybe I'm reading too much into it haha "
No, I would agree with this for me 😉 |
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In actual bed, neither. Primal energies, very reliant on moods and contexts, but sex is primarily between equals for me.
Bedroom adjacent, Domme and masochist 💜 |
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Submissive with occasional attitude |
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Me (mr) was very submissive and do enjoy being submissive but learning a lot to be more dominant (I have a few blocks)
Mrs is not dominant at all and really wants to be dominated. |
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I must admit i do like being bossed about abit, quite happy to do as i am told. |
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I've not owned a sub for many years so if any sub needs a Good Dom please consider me. |
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Submissive to my very core but only if I trust my Dom to take every ounce of my control 🥰 |
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Neither. I am assertive when I want to be and that’s it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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Switch depending on partner |
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By *S_71Man 4 weeks ago
leeds |
A lil bit of both, depending on who im with |
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By *iz..Woman 4 weeks ago
Somewhere Over The Rainbow.. |
Bratty sub
So there  lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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Lazy aka submissive |
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In my BDSM life, I'm Dominant.
In the bedroom, I'm me. |
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I like someone to take charge of me during sexy time. I'm in charge of a lot of lads at work through my company - it's nice to switch off |
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Both but leaning more on dominant now |
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I'm nether of the extremes.
Some women make me melt into submission, some I want to tie down and flog |
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Switch.
Can be either.
Depends on my mood. |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 4 weeks ago
pink panther territory |
Switch,though as I get older I find myself to be more dominant |
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Dom ...sometimes Daddy Dom with certain partners |
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He: Dominant
she: submissive
Both Primal
We enjoy playing with both singles and couples who understand how power dynamics work - DMs are open to profile readers |
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By *hemieMan 4 weeks ago
North Wales |
I dont think I'm either 🤷🏼♂️ |
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Very much a switch .
As rough rule mostly more Dom/tops with guys and happier on my knees for ladies. |
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I’m submissive to men and switch with women xx |
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Happy to be both, but do love a good hard fuck. |
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By *ot_Rod43Man 4 weeks ago
newcastle upon tyne |
I’m more dominant in the bedroom but do like to switch sometimes |
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By *homas400Man 4 weeks ago
Carmarthen / Llandeilo |
I think I lean more towards being dominant, especially when I feel really horny, but I love it when a woman tells me what she wants. |
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With my husband probably more controlling but not in any kind of BDSM way..
With others absolutely submissive, in every way. |
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Dominant mostly, I can sometimes switch depending on the mood |
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I'm a Dom leaning switch and adapt according to the natural energy between myself and a woman or couple.
That said I only can only submit to a woman |
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submissive but considering a switch to dom a man |
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By *rs.MinxWoman 4 weeks ago
somewhere nearby |
Dominant…except for with MrMinx…then it can go either way…though I do struggle with keeping in a submissive mindset…certainly doesn’t come naturally |
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By *eeNKayCouple 4 weeks ago
Stockport |
T: Dom, K: Sub-leaning switch. |
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In our bedroom I’m submissive
In your bedroom I’m dominant
Mrs Bx |
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By *rolicUsCouple 4 weeks ago
Worth travelling to |
I’m super submissive in the right hands. In play only.
I have topped women before but it’s not my true leaning. More of a service top in that situation as I’m doing it for their pleasure.
But my true nature in a power play setting is sub. |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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Dom |
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Switch but I'm not gonna lie I like powerful women those that know what they want. |
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Dominant and always have been, but i would like the opportunity to be submissive for once |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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It all depends on the mood and vibes, mainly dominent, but I can also be submissive to an elegant lady |
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Dom! Favourite position is prone bone |
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"In the bedroom, are you dominant or submissive "
100% sl@ve 24/7, it never changes, as Master says a double-minded man, is unstable in all his ways. Stemming from the Greek word dipsuchos.
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"In the bedroom, are you dominant or submissive "
Dominant and sadisticly gentle |
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Neither really, I'll take the lead but I wouldn't say I'm dom.
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By *hantomfemmeWoman 4 weeks ago
Sligo/Galway/limerick depends on the day |
Thought i was neither but a recent encounter made me realise im not a sub...... |
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By *ike341Man 2 weeks ago
Leamington Spa |
Usually dominant but after enjoying the pleasures of being with a Femdom, I would like to explore that more. |
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Much more submissive in nature, but I'm not a Sub. Have switched in the past, but I need the right partner to be confident in doing so. |
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Depends on the occasion, but I'd be more of a take charge type of fella |
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By *asoMan 2 weeks ago
Sheffield |
I’d love to be control and toss a lady around in bed! |
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By *inkeeMan 2 weeks ago
north lincs |
Depends, dominant with women but submissive with men. |
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Dominant, both in the vanilla sense and the kink sense. Have owned subs in the past, a lot of fun |
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I'm a mixture of submissive, dominant and bratty |
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Very much a switch but have been the sub in a D/s relationship for a short while. I definitely would be again for the right person |
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Dominant but do love a lady to take lessons from ne and return the favour |
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By *G LanaTV/TS 2 weeks ago
Gosport |
Sometimes neither but often sub especially in surroundings I feel more comfortable in. |
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Bit of both sometimes with the wife but would love to be sub for another man when he's with my mrs |
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Me and my FWB are both switch with each other. Best of both worlds |
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Switch with a sub lean as I simply enjoy being told how to get people to that edge quicker and more fun haha  |
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Can be sub when am with a women i trust. Looking lol. |
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Dom mostly but sub with the right women somtimes its nice to give away the power and be "vulnerable" |
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Switch lately
More sub with men and dom with women x |
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We enjoy switching, but this also depends on our moods at the time. |
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Never experienced the sub / dom scene but wouldn’t mind a domme who is into strap-on fun and watersports x |
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Dominant tendencies, but not a Dom. |
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Mr Dominant, Mrs is a submissive slut |
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By *urse234Woman 2 weeks ago
somewhere in Essex |
I can switch. Depends on the person and situation..
In the dungeon Im more dominant
Stick me in a hotel room with a FWB then ill be more sub x |
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"I can switch. Depends on the person and situation..
In the dungeon Im more dominant
Stick me in a hotel room with a FWB then ill be more sub x"
Can you not be a Domme in a hotel room please ? Lol 😂 x |
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By *urse234Woman 2 weeks ago
somewhere in Essex |
"I can switch. Depends on the person and situation..
In the dungeon Im more dominant
Stick me in a hotel room with a FWB then ill be more sub x
Can you not be a Domme in a hotel room please ? Lol 😂 x "
Its been known |
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One of us is dominant and one is full sub ...
Works for us. |
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I'm definitely vety submissive; a lot more than I wanted to admit at first because there are a lot of dominant types that seem like arseholes. Finding someone that's the right mix of kinky, rough but who can still act like a normal human being outside of sex, and be affectionate when needed is tougher than finding a needle in a haystack!
I will say I would probably only becompletely obedient for another woman though. Just putting that out there as it's so difficult to find women who are interested on this site.  |
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By *FNMLMCMan 2 weeks ago
Sunderland |
Submissive little pervert and I love being humiliated and dominated |
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I'm dominant and pretty experienced. I enjoy a few different dynamics but it's all about the connection with the right person |
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By *D07Man 2 weeks ago
Huddersfield |
I'm sub. I love to be used. |
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By *ike341Man 1 week ago
Leamington Spa |
Femdom sessions are so hot. |
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We’re both dominant. We like to be bosses. |
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I find myself feeling very submissive these days and offer myself for personal or online training |
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By *viatrixWoman 1 week ago
Back in Surrey, Dahlings! |
I always thought I hated all this D/s malarkey.
But I have discovered I am VERY submissive in the right hands. 🎀🩷 |
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I’m submissive. Always have been. Vanilla sex bores me to tears |
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Definitely Dominant, i enjoy being in control xx |
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"Definitely Dominant, i enjoy being in control xx"
Would love to hear your style of dominance if that isn’t too personal  |
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"I’m submissive. Always have been. Vanilla sex bores me to tears "
Preach! |
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"Brat x "
Funny…with the profile pic I can’t see why  |
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Dominant but caring. Can be Vers but don't blue ball me, if you tie me up you better ride me like a pony |
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By *essTTWoman 7 days ago
Birmingham |
I wish I could switch but I don't have it in me |
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Both, it really depends on my mood and the vibe. |
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Never submissive, dominant if I perceive (or discussed) the other person is a submissive. I don't get off on being dominant, I get off on seeing the dominated person's enjoyment. |
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Switch ..but definitely in a submissive phase |
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Very submissive i know my place |
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I like to be dominant but usually to vers/top men until they finally take over |
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