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By *iggo123 OP Man 4 weeks ago
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Is it weird that I’m actually on here hoping to find my future Mrs? 😂
Hear me out before you judge lol. I just feel like this lifestyle cuts out so much of the pretending and wasting time you get on normal dating apps. Half the people on Tinder either end up wanting this secretly anyway or eventually end up on Fab regardless.
At least on here people are usually more open minded, honest about what they like and a bit more real about attraction, connection and relationships. I know it’s probably not everyone’s cup of tea and trust me, even I question it sometimes 😂 but I’d rather meet someone on here who actually understands me and the lifestyle than force something “normal” that was never gonna work long term.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m still here for fun, good vibes and experiences too… but finding someone I genuinely click with along the way wouldn’t exactly be the worst thing in the world.
Maybe I’m delusional… maybe I’m ahead of the curve 😂 You tell me??? |
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By *iggo123 OP Man 4 weeks ago
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Haha trust me, I’m struggling too — and not for the lack of trying either 😂 dating feels cooked these days. So don’t be putting yourself down like that, confidence and good energy goes a long way.
At this rate it might genuinely be me and you against the world till the end lol. But honestly I still believe the right people find each other eventually, even if we have to survive a hundred awkward conversations and bad coffee dates first 😭 |
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"I hope you find what you're looking for. It's not impossible. But right now I'm struggling to meet for a coffee. But you're probably more desirable than I am so it'll be fine"
You look very desirable to me. Just saying. |
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By *iggo123 OP Man 4 weeks ago
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Thank you honestly, nice to know I’m not the only one thinking it 😂 and yeah exactly! I swear half the people on Tinder and POF are secretly on Fab anyway lol.
At least on here people tend to be more upfront about what they actually want instead of pretending to be something they’re not. Makes life a bit easier I think. Hopefully we both find what we’re looking for eventually 🤞 |
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By *wcoMan 4 weeks ago
West Midlands |
"Is it weird that I’m actually on here hoping to find my future Mrs? 😂
Hear me out before you judge lol. I just feel like this lifestyle cuts out so much of the pretending and wasting time you get on normal dating apps. Half the people on Tinder either end up wanting this secretly anyway or eventually end up on Fab regardless.
At least on here people are usually more open minded, honest about what they like and a bit more real about attraction, connection and relationships. I know it’s probably not everyone’s cup of tea and trust me, even I question it sometimes 😂 but I’d rather meet someone on here who actually understands me and the lifestyle than force something “normal” that was never gonna work long term.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m still here for fun, good vibes and experiences too… but finding someone I genuinely click with along the way wouldn’t exactly be the worst thing in the world.
Maybe I’m delusional… maybe I’m ahead of the curve 😂 You tell me??? "
Chin up fella, could always be worse. You wanna try looking for your future Mrs when your current one is the other side of the room playing Sudoku. |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 4 weeks ago
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"Is it weird that I’m actually on here hoping to find my future Mrs? 😂
Hear me out before you judge lol. I just feel like this lifestyle cuts out so much of the pretending and wasting time you get on normal dating apps. Half the people on Tinder either end up wanting this secretly anyway or eventually end up on Fab regardless.
At least on here people are usually more open minded, honest about what they like and a bit more real about attraction, connection and relationships. I know it’s probably not everyone’s cup of tea and trust me, even I question it sometimes 😂 but I’d rather meet someone on here who actually understands me and the lifestyle than force something “normal” that was never gonna work long term.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m still here for fun, good vibes and experiences too… but finding someone I genuinely click with along the way wouldn’t exactly be the worst thing in the world.
Maybe I’m delusional… maybe I’m ahead of the curve 😂 You tell me???
Chin up fella, could always be worse. You wanna try looking for your future Mrs when your current one is the other side of the room playing Sudoku."
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By *iggo123 OP Man 4 weeks ago
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"Is it weird that I’m actually on here hoping to find my future Mrs? 😂
Hear me out before you judge lol. I just feel like this lifestyle cuts out so much of the pretending and wasting time you get on normal dating apps. Half the people on Tinder either end up wanting this secretly anyway or eventually end up on Fab regardless.
At least on here people are usually more open minded, honest about what they like and a bit more real about attraction, connection and relationships. I know it’s probably not everyone’s cup of tea and trust me, even I question it sometimes 😂 but I’d rather meet someone on here who actually understands me and the lifestyle than force something “normal” that was never gonna work long term.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m still here for fun, good vibes and experiences too… but finding someone I genuinely click with along the way wouldn’t exactly be the worst thing in the world.
Maybe I’m delusional… maybe I’m ahead of the curve 😂 You tell me???
Chin up fella, could always be worse. You wanna try looking for your future Mrs when your current one is the other side of the room playing Sudoku. If that was the case I’d be over the moon cause we would be playing strip Sudoku somehow looool
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By *oxy-RedWoman 4 weeks ago
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"The amount of people that are on both here and tinder surprised me at first... Tinder you can't really be open and honest about stuff where as here you can"
Same as pof,guys stating on pof that there looking for ltr,then you see them on fab looking for sex  |
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By *iggo123 OP Man 4 weeks ago
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"The amount of people that are on both here and tinder surprised me at first... Tinder you can't really be open and honest about stuff where as here you can"
and that’s exactly why I’m here cause honesty is the best policy that’s what makes it really work
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By *iggo123 OP Man 4 weeks ago
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"The amount of people that are on both here and tinder surprised me at first... Tinder you can't really be open and honest about stuff where as here you can
Same as pof,guys stating on pof that there looking for ltr,then you see them on fab looking for sex "
starting to realise everyone has that kinky side just not everyone’s willing to embrace it |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 4 weeks ago
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"The amount of people that are on both here and tinder surprised me at first... Tinder you can't really be open and honest about stuff where as here you can
Same as pof,guys stating on pof that there looking for ltr,then you see them on fab looking for sex starting to realise everyone has that kinky side just not everyone’s willing to embrace it "
That's it in a nutshell |
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"The amount of people that are on both here and tinder surprised me at first... Tinder you can't really be open and honest about stuff where as here you can
Same as pof,guys stating on pof that there looking for ltr,then you see them on fab looking for sex starting to realise everyone has that kinky side just not everyone’s willing to embrace it "
Kinky is fun... I mean you can totally put it on tinder... I did match with a guy and his profile litteraly said call me daddy... Like uhm... Nope... Titles are earned plus he was ten years younger than me |
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By *iggo123 OP Man 4 weeks ago
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"The amount of people that are on both here and tinder surprised me at first... Tinder you can't really be open and honest about stuff where as here you can
Same as pof,guys stating on pof that there looking for ltr,then you see them on fab looking for sex starting to realise everyone has that kinky side just not everyone’s willing to embrace it
Kinky is fun... I mean you can totally put it on tinder... I did match with a guy and his profile litteraly said call me daddy... Like uhm... Nope... Titles are earned plus he was ten years younger than me "
your not wrong there titles are most definitely earned can’t be calling him daddy and he don’t live up to expectations- people do say tinder can be good for hook-ups but that’s just it hook-ups u don’t usually get to kno the person and see if your kinks align |
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By *eliWoman 4 weeks ago
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Why would you be ahead of the curve? Daft AI, tell it it's typing bollocks.
People have been dating and marrying those they've met on Fab for a long, long time. Not all people. Some people.
Fab in my mind is pretty much like anywhere else to meet people. I've dated a few people from here - one was a car crash and he's still blocked/his messages unread. A few we weren't too compatible but they were joys. And I'm engaged to one, dating another. There's hope at the light of the end of the tunnel.
What I would say is - don't rush in to anything. Be honest with the people you're dating. Enjoy it.
And don't put pressure on it. Meet people, see what happens. How things evolve more organically.
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By *AYENCouple 4 weeks ago
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Every woman on here is someone's wife, mother, sister or daughter - they are normal women with an open and adventurous attitude towards life - you can meet your future wife on here, you can meet her anywhere - I met mine at Stratford train station - I hope you find who you're looking for OP. |
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By *ino200Man 4 weeks ago
Bournemouth,london and Sienna |
All sites are about sex for men we are built to reproduce and we dont talk about sex enough ,certainly in a relationships we dont ,its probably the number one cause of relationship breakdowns in one way or another .So starting here makes perfect sense in one way but as with all relationships its time that tells ,monotony ,bills ,money ,house .You could be lucky and find your perfect match ,some have .  |
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By *b03Man 4 weeks ago
Exeter |
Honestly having been in the lifestyle for a few years now, if I were to find or were looking for someone, it would have to be someone into the lifestyle or enm..
better chance to find that person here than anywhere else! |
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Relationships form on fab.
They also end and then new Relationships begin.
Fab is made up of people, just like wider society.
If people can meet while shopping in a supermarket, sunbathing at the beach, or whilst doing their recycling at the local tip, they can just as easily meet on fab.
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"Relationships form on fab.
They also end and then new Relationships begin.
Fab is made up of people, just like wider society.
If people can meet while shopping in a supermarket, sunbathing at the beach, or whilst doing their recycling at the local tip, they can just as easily meet on fab.
🤷♂️"
And you met me on here.... you lucky sod 😘 even if I did ignore your first message |
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"Relationships form on fab.
They also end and then new Relationships begin.
Fab is made up of people, just like wider society.
If people can meet while shopping in a supermarket, sunbathing at the beach, or whilst doing their recycling at the local tip, they can just as easily meet on fab.
🤷♂️
And you met me on here.... you lucky sod 😘 even if I did ignore your first message "
Rude. |
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As one who got into a relationship with a fab member please bear in mind you cannot bank on anyone being your cup of tea.
In my experience and hindsight was the worst relationship I had the sex was great and I knew she been on at least 30yr.
The paranoia was scary she got her daughter and daughters friend on it because she was a cool mum, totally the the opposite.
Since the split she has bee arrested and jailed on and off for 6yrs and stull causing issues.
The real persons personality was clouded by and she was dangerous and psychotic and violent.
I accept takes two to tango |
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"Relationships form on fab.
They also end and then new Relationships begin.
Fab is made up of people, just like wider society.
If people can meet while shopping in a supermarket, sunbathing at the beach, or whilst doing their recycling at the local tip, they can just as easily meet on fab.
🤷♂️
And you met me on here.... you lucky sod 😘 even if I did ignore your first message
Rude. "
Don't be bitter ha ha ha x |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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"I hope you find what you're looking for. It's not impossible. But right now I'm struggling to meet for a coffee. But you're probably more desirable than I am so it'll be fine"
Going by your photos,trust me you are very desirable |
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I've been looking for a fwb for years here. I've met a lot of people, for me the site has been, and continues to be successful. But the fwb has been elusive.
I meet many couples, we have a good time, but they walk out the door, hand in hand, smiling, and when I close the door I'm alone.
So, for me I'm refining my search ... Fwb potential to the top of the queue. |
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