Dont you just love time wasters, litrally been chatting to someone for weeks, exchanged face pics etc and only just now they have decided to tell me that dad bods dont do it for them and they then block.
What is the actual point. My username states this so why chat in the first place? |
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I'm not sure that's a time waster, that's just annoying. (Maybe very annoying)
Conversation is just part of the deal. They might have thought you were an interesting enough prospect to overcome something they're usually not attracted to, and decided it wasn't the case.
To me, a time waster would be someone who arranged a time to meet and didn't show up. |
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I would guess since its your name and you have pics of your body there making an excuse. Sorry it must be frustrating OP, maybe sent face photos a little earlier next time so you both know were you stand and if theres attraction so time isnt wasted |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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Why is it time wasting when you're just getting to know someone.
Every conversation doesn't have to lead to sex.
It's a pathetic phrase people use to make themselves feel better when the other person had just lost interest in them, which they are allowed to do! |
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"I would guess since its your name and you have pics of your body there making an excuse. Sorry it must be frustrating OP, maybe sent face photos a little earlier next time so you both know were you stand and if theres attraction so time isnt wasted "
Face pics were sent early on |
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"Why is it time wasting when you're just getting to know someone.
Every conversation doesn't have to lead to sex.
It's a pathetic phrase people use to make themselves feel better when the other person had just lost interest in them, which they are allowed to do! "
Yeah i get that not every conversation leads to sex, we had already had a social and we had booked a hotel for tomorrow evening, everything was planned then they message with actually dad bods are not for me |
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"I would guess since its your name and you have pics of your body there making an excuse. Sorry it must be frustrating OP, maybe sent face photos a little earlier next time so you both know were you stand and if theres attraction so time isnt wasted
Face pics were sent early on "
Sorry i read it wrong. She just obviously changed her mind then OP it sucks for you but we are all allowed to doesnt mean we are time wasters 🤷♀️ |
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Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people but they typically won't know who is or isn't immediately.
You have to expect that the numbers of initial chatters will decline, as the reality gets revealed. As well as being in contrast with their other options, including doing nothing |
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I've gotten to the point where anyone who interacts with me via messages or winks or anything is just a time waster. Statistically 100% of interactions initiated by the other have lead to wasted time. They message arrange to meet, i message on the day, they're completely and coincidentally unavailable for days after. Happens every single time |
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"Dont you just love time wasters, litrally been chatting to someone for weeks, exchanged face pics etc and only just now they have decided to tell me that dad bods dont do it for them and they then block.
What is the actual point. My username states this so why chat in the first place?"
Your name literally states that.
You could fuck me anytime if you were nearer |
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By *ewMan2026Man 2 weeks ago
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First experience of a time waster this morning. Agreed to go and watch a couple. Sounded all plausible.
I get there and the poor woman who lived there knew nothing about it. Someone deliberately using her address for windups.
Ok it wasted my time- big deal- but doing that to her felt really awful. She’d had 4 knocks already |
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"First experience of a time waster this morning. Agreed to go and watch a couple. Sounded all plausible.
I get there and the poor woman who lived there knew nothing about it. Someone deliberately using her address for windups.
Ok it wasted my time- big deal- but doing that to her felt really awful. She’d had 4 knocks already "
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"First experience of a time waster this morning. Agreed to go and watch a couple. Sounded all plausible.
I get there and the poor woman who lived there knew nothing about it. Someone deliberately using her address for windups.
Ok it wasted my time- big deal- but doing that to her felt really awful. She’d had 4 knocks already "
Report. This person needs kicking off the site. |
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The excuses I've had for not turning up over the years.
Car broke down
Brother got arrested
Text didn't send
My voice was 'too old'
Waited for ages (she arrived three hours too early)
Wouldn't follow them on Instagram
Pet issues
Trapped in the house by husband
And the majority didn't give a reason. Tried to message and found myself blocked. Very frustrating. |
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"The excuses I've had for not turning up over the years.
Car broke down
Brother got arrested
Text didn't send
My voice was 'too old'
Waited for ages (she arrived three hours too early)
Wouldn't follow them on Instagram
Pet issues
Trapped in the house by husband
And the majority didn't give a reason. Tried to message and found myself blocked. Very frustrating. "
One sent me a Hospital bed pic 🤣😂😅 |
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