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Ladies, how do you want to be messaged?
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"I check a profile before I open a message, it begins there
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This.
After that, I want sanity (you think that might be standard... Alas not), something to show why I might be interested in them, and something to show why they might be interested in me.
(This is not a 1:1 formula for success, just the bare minimum) |
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By someone I can see from their photos is physically appealing, whose profile tells me enough that I think we may be compatible, and who messages me something directly engaging as an individual rather than a bland copy paste that can go to anyone 💜 |
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"What is the best way someone can present themselves in a message?"
Here you go OP:
"Hi there, your profile caught my eye—especially your boundaries regarding [specific detail]. I am a single [male/female], fully respectful of couples' rules, and looking for [specified dynamic]. Let me know if you’d like to chat and see if we click!"
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If that doesn't work, fall back on the old trust worthy:
FAF
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Most will look at your profile before even thinking of reading your message so thats your first priority after that they are all individuals different things will appeal to different people, try to read their profile properly before you message to see if their intrests match yours other than that as long as you are polite and honest there's not a lot more you can do. |
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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Quite like a haiku.
Genuinely interested and being yourself, with a somewhat decent bio. That's the best way. It doesn't guarantee a response, nothing does but it does mean you're slightly more likely to get one. |
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