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Am I a bi**h but…no pic profiles 🫣
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By *inkyukxxx OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Nottinghamshire |
Please tell me it’s not just me who find it bizarre when people have been here weeks, months, years and have zero photos. Not even a friends photo or a profile pic. Zilch. Zero. Nothing! And to top it off has a cheek to ask for face pics off you 🤣🫣
And can’t upload any pics because they don’t have any on their phone/ or as we’ve just been told……it will take a day to take some nice ones! FML
WHY! WHY 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don’t understand how bored people must be to create these fake profiles. If this is you reading this and you are one of those. Get a hobby 🫣 a better one! And move out of your mums box room! |
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By *inkyukxxx OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Nottinghamshire |
"I assume they’re here for the amateur porn and a good wank"
But so much better and easier free options via Google hahahah way too much effort for me that would be for some porn. People are odd 🤣🤣🤣 |
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If the person has only joined to use the forums I get it but I don't understand why you wouldn't have at least one public photo and a profile photo if you're looking to meet.
What boggles me Is when blank profiles send a friend request or wink. Why would I wink back if I can't see what you look like? If I can't see any part of your face on your profile the text will have to really, really stand out for me to respond to a wink.
Personality is very important to me, but I'm shallow to a point and like an attractive face to look at. |
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"If the person has only joined to use the forums I get it but I don't understand why you wouldn't have at least one public photo and a profile photo if you're looking to meet.
What boggles me Is when blank profiles send a friend request or wink. Why would I wink back if I can't see what you look like? If I can't see any part of your face on your profile the text will have to really, really stand out for me to respond to a wink.
Personality is very important to me, but I'm shallow to a point and like an attractive face to look at."
That’s not being shallow though, it’s kinda the point isn’t it? |
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By *ino200Man 2 weeks ago
Bournemouth,london and Sienna |
"Please tell me it’s not just me who find it bizarre when people have been here weeks, months, years and have zero photos. Not even a friends photo or a profile pic. Zilch. Zero. Nothing! And to top it off has a cheek to ask for face pics off you 🤣🫣
And can’t upload any pics because they don’t have any on their phone/ or as we’ve just been told……it will take a day to take some nice ones! FML
WHY! WHY 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don’t understand how bored people must be to create these fake profiles. If this is you reading this and you are one of those. Get a hobby 🫣 a better one! And move out of your mums box room! "
They are hiding something  |
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I have my facepic on my profile. I got a guy atm who is arranging to take me dogging next week. Seems genuine, has loads of veris, loads of cock pcs we have been chatting about details a few weeks but he refuses to send a photo. Says he cant upload to his messages. I gave him my e mail so he could send one there. As i dont use other chat places. He hasnt sent . If he hasnt sent by 17.00 then im calling off our meet. Im not getting in a car with someone whos face i havent seen no matter how tempting the fun. |
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By *inkyukxxx OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Nottinghamshire |
"If the person has only joined to use the forums I get it but I don't understand why you wouldn't have at least one public photo and a profile photo if you're looking to meet.
What boggles me Is when blank profiles send a friend request or wink. Why would I wink back if I can't see what you look like? If I can't see any part of your face on your profile the text will have to really, really stand out for me to respond to a wink.
Personality is very important to me, but I'm shallow to a point and like an attractive face to look at."
I hadn’t considered the only joining to use forum part so yes I can get that however if you are wanting to meet or potentially meet and chat etc then no one would meet surely without seeing a pic. I always think you’ve seen some of us, how’s that fair 🤣🫣
And I don’t think you are shallow! Everyone has things that are important to them, some more than others and some people are more rigid on their “tick boxes” than others. I want to explore my Bi side and I am fussy I suppose about what I am looking for in a female but that’s not my fault 🤣 and I would t be offended if I wasn’t everyone’s cup of tea either x
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"Please tell me it’s not just me who find it bizarre when people have been here weeks, months, years and have zero photos. Not even a friends photo or a profile pic. Zilch. Zero. Nothing! And to top it off has a cheek to ask for face pics off you 🤣🫣
And can’t upload any pics because they don’t have any on their phone/ or as we’ve just been told……it will take a day to take some nice ones! FML
WHY! WHY 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don’t understand how bored people must be to create these fake profiles. If this is you reading this and you are one of those. Get a hobby 🫣 a better one! And move out of your mums box room! They are hiding something "
Hiding everything really |
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By *inkyukxxx OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Nottinghamshire |
"I have my facepic on my profile. I got a guy atm who is arranging to take me dogging next week. Seems genuine, has loads of veris, loads of cock pcs we have been chatting about details a few weeks but he refuses to send a photo. Says he cant upload to his messages. I gave him my e mail so he could send one there. As i dont use other chat places. He hasnt sent . If he hasnt sent by 17.00 then im calling off our meet. Im not getting in a car with someone whos face i havent seen no matter how tempting the fun. "
If you are a lone female absolutely DO NOT go and meet a guy who can’t show you his face first please 🙏 that’s really strange on his part. He should be doing what he can to make you feel safe. Find someone who is genuine and decent to have fun with 😘 ( Mrs K) |
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By *inkyukxxx OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Nottinghamshire |
"What makes it a fake profile?"
I mean maybe sometimes they aren’t but I imagine you come accross a lot of fake profiles as do we. So people claiming to be something they aren’t, using Google searched images etc etc |
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"I have my facepic on my profile. I got a guy atm who is arranging to take me dogging next week. Seems genuine, has loads of veris, loads of cock pcs we have been chatting about details a few weeks but he refuses to send a photo. Says he cant upload to his messages. I gave him my e mail so he could send one there. As i dont use other chat places. He hasnt sent . If he hasnt sent by 17.00 then im calling off our meet. Im not getting in a car with someone whos face i havent seen no matter how tempting the fun.
If you are a lone female absolutely DO NOT go and meet a guy who can’t show you his face first please 🙏 that’s really strange on his part. He should be doing what he can to make you feel safe. Find someone who is genuine and decent to have fun with 😘 ( Mrs K) "
Tbf this good advice applies to anyone not just lone females. |
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By *inkyukxxx OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Nottinghamshire |
"I have my facepic on my profile. I got a guy atm who is arranging to take me dogging next week. Seems genuine, has loads of veris, loads of cock pcs we have been chatting about details a few weeks but he refuses to send a photo. Says he cant upload to his messages. I gave him my e mail so he could send one there. As i dont use other chat places. He hasnt sent . If he hasnt sent by 17.00 then im calling off our meet. Im not getting in a car with someone whos face i havent seen no matter how tempting the fun.
If you are a lone female absolutely DO NOT go and meet a guy who can’t show you his face first please 🙏 that’s really strange on his part. He should be doing what he can to make you feel safe. Find someone who is genuine and decent to have fun with 😘 ( Mrs K)
Tbf this good advice applies to anyone not just lone females. "
Yes actually that is true…..you are right it does. I stand corrected 😘
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"I have my facepic on my profile. I got a guy atm who is arranging to take me dogging next week. Seems genuine, has loads of veris, loads of cock pcs we have been chatting about details a few weeks but he refuses to send a photo. Says he cant upload to his messages. I gave him my e mail so he could send one there. As i dont use other chat places. He hasnt sent . If he hasnt sent by 17.00 then im calling off our meet. Im not getting in a car with someone whos face i havent seen no matter how tempting the fun.
If you are a lone female absolutely DO NOT go and meet a guy who can’t show you his face first please 🙏 that’s really strange on his part. He should be doing what he can to make you feel safe. Find someone who is genuine and decent to have fun with 😘 ( Mrs K)
Tbf this good advice applies to anyone not just lone females.
Yes actually that is true…..you are right it does. I stand corrected 😘
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And for me some sort of attraction has to be there, so not only unsafe but a waste of everyones time if we met and i didnt find him attractive. No facepic, no meet end of. |
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"If the person has only joined to use the forums I get it but I don't understand why you wouldn't have at least one public photo and a profile photo if you're looking to meet.
What boggles me Is when blank profiles send a friend request or wink. Why would I wink back if I can't see what you look like? If I can't see any part of your face on your profile the text will have to really, really stand out for me to respond to a wink.
Personality is very important to me, but I'm shallow to a point and like an attractive face to look at.
I hadn’t considered the only joining to use forum part so yes I can get that however if you are wanting to meet or potentially meet and chat etc then no one would meet surely without seeing a pic. I always think you’ve seen some of us, how’s that fair 🤣🫣
And I don’t think you are shallow! Everyone has things that are important to them, some more than others and some people are more rigid on their “tick boxes” than others. I want to explore my Bi side and I am fussy I suppose about what I am looking for in a female but that’s not my fault 🤣 and I would t be offended if I wasn’t everyone’s cup of tea either x
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I've had a worrying number of people ask if I'm interested in meeting when I haven't seen their face. I don't know what they expect the response to be, but even if what someone looks like isn't important to another in terms of sex, I doubt they'd want to meet without knowing what that person looks like. You could be meeting anyone!
I'm not the most popular on here and someone said I come across as entitled on my profile, but I've never once said I think I'm special; I'm simply particular with men ( more than women) and I might as well be honest about that or I'm wasting people's time.
I think everyone should be choosy in the sense you shouldn't meet someone you don't like the look and/ or sound of. Like you say the no photos and expecting someone to meet or be interested is bizarre. |
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By *ee04Man 2 weeks ago
Essex |
"I have my facepic on my profile. I got a guy atm who is arranging to take me dogging next week. Seems genuine, has loads of veris, loads of cock pcs we have been chatting about details a few weeks but he refuses to send a photo. Says he cant upload to his messages. I gave him my e mail so he could send one there. As i dont use other chat places. He hasnt sent . If he hasnt sent by 17.00 then im calling off our meet. Im not getting in a car with someone whos face i havent seen no matter how tempting the fun.
If you are a lone female absolutely DO NOT go and meet a guy who can’t show you his face first please 🙏 that’s really strange on his part. He should be doing what he can to make you feel safe. Find someone who is genuine and decent to have fun with 😘 ( Mrs K) "
I have to agree you can attach a direct photo to any message it’s not rocket science. I attach mine if I am asked for it |
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By *inkyukxxx OP Couple 2 weeks ago
Nottinghamshire |
"If the person has only joined to use the forums I get it but I don't understand why you wouldn't have at least one public photo and a profile photo if you're looking to meet.
What boggles me Is when blank profiles send a friend request or wink. Why would I wink back if I can't see what you look like? If I can't see any part of your face on your profile the text will have to really, really stand out for me to respond to a wink.
Personality is very important to me, but I'm shallow to a point and like an attractive face to look at.
I hadn’t considered the only joining to use forum part so yes I can get that however if you are wanting to meet or potentially meet and chat etc then no one would meet surely without seeing a pic. I always think you’ve seen some of us, how’s that fair 🤣🫣
And I don’t think you are shallow! Everyone has things that are important to them, some more than others and some people are more rigid on their “tick boxes” than others. I want to explore my Bi side and I am fussy I suppose about what I am looking for in a female but that’s not my fault 🤣 and I would t be offended if I wasn’t everyone’s cup of tea either x
I've had a worrying number of people ask if I'm interested in meeting when I haven't seen their face. I don't know what they expect the response to be, but even if what someone looks like isn't important to another in terms of sex, I doubt they'd want to meet without knowing what that person looks like. You could be meeting anyone!
I'm not the most popular on here and someone said I come across as entitled on my profile, but I've never once said I think I'm special; I'm simply particular with men ( more than women) and I might as well be honest about that or I'm wasting people's time.
I think everyone should be choosy in the sense you shouldn't meet someone you don't like the look and/ or sound of. Like you say the no photos and expecting someone to meet or be interested is bizarre."
I think some people just see it as a free for all lol 😂 that if yoh are here basically you are up for anything. Free game in a sense: the amount of people who ask husband to send pics of me to them just without any conversation or basic respect like I’m some object he has zero respect for and passes round like sweets to every tom dick and Harry 😂🫣 |
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I don't engage at all with blank profiles, it's an instant delete if they mail me
Like yesterday, a shadow messages to ask if I'll be meeting today.
1 line of writing and no pics at all, even if I was,they wouldn't get a chance, with a profile that rubbish..
I always think they're hiding something (rightly or wrongly) we can all add a pic that won't give us away. I have a public facing job and haven't correctly been identified yet. |
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"I find it annoying when asked for a face pic and the person doesn’t have any pictures on their profile "
Definitely true pal. All the new joiners asking for face pics and not willing to show theirs |
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"I find it annoying when asked for a face pic and the person doesn’t have any pictures on their profile
Definitely true pal. All the new joiners asking for face pics and not willing to show theirs"
Just walk on by |
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I have entertained a blank profile before because he was charming and funny and drew me in and he ended up being one of the best meets i had however he did share pics with me i wouldnt meet without seeing a face ever.  |
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In essence, some people tend to manage their profiles at their discretion - some in ways that are positively conducive and in other ways less so. It's entirely up to them. Blank profiles are fine if these people aren't looking to meet but instead thrive for the forums, for self-gratification, or to keep abreast of socials and keeping in touch with event organisers etc.
What is unacceptable is when these people - with their bleak profiles - start winking, messaging, posting lamenting status updates or interacting with other people and then complain that they are being ignored, blocked or treated harshly by those they are trying to interact with. Sometimes they deserve contempt...and an instant block. |
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"In essence, some people tend to manage their profiles at their discretion - some in ways that are positively conducive and in other ways less so. It's entirely up to them. Blank profiles are fine if these people aren't looking to meet but instead thrive for the forums, for self-gratification, or to keep abreast of socials and keeping in touch with event organisers etc.
What is unacceptable is when these people - with their bleak profiles - start winking, messaging, posting lamenting status updates or interacting with other people and then complain that they are being ignored, blocked or treated harshly by those they are trying to interact with. Sometimes they deserve contempt...and an instant block."
☝️ Nailed it. As always; good man. |
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