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Evening beauties
As I sit here … I wonder if any of you come across profiles you once interacted with/ met… and wish things had happened differently? Or that you still wished you had th chance to meet again?
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Yeah, I have in the past. It's so tough finding people to meet that you get on with that when you do and you don't end up meeting or things don't work out they way I wanted them to, I have held onto it and lamented where it knocked my confidence.
But I think I'm better at letting things go now and focusing my energy in what I can control. |
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"I wonder if any of you come across profiles you once interacted with/met…"
Most of the time, yes, because they're still extant on here, except a handful that have left Fab altogether and are just 'people that I used to know'.
"...and wish things had happened differently?"
If it didn't happen the first time then it was probably for the right reason/s why it didn't happen. I would let sleeping dogs lie.
"...Or that you still wished you had the chance to meet again?"
If it did happen before then - for two or three of them - I would be open to the notion of meeting them again. The reason why it probably stalled previously is because of the vast distances between us or they started a monogamous relationship with someone, amongst other possible reasons. |
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"Sadly most of the people I've met I wouldn't meet again bar a very small number! I either wasn't happy with the meet or things didn't work out in some way. I've had some bad luck in the past. "
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"Yeah, I have in the past. It's so tough finding people to meet that you get on with that when you do and you don't end up meeting or things don't work out they way I wanted them to, I have held onto it and lamented where it knocked my confidence.
But I think I'm better at letting things go now and focusing my energy in what I can control."
That’s a good place to be in .. and better probably |
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I have stayed in touch with some of my first friends from here. Those that i had met but are no longer on here i leave alone as their situations may have changed and if they wished to chat to me, they know how to get hold of me. |
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Yes, there has been a couple of people I've met on here that I would love to spend more time with.
Some have left the site, as we met over 8 yrs ago and some are still on here but circumstance dont allow our paths to cross now.
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It's the ones who left Fab that I enjoyed interacting with but we're not on my watsapp list that I miss and wonder about. There are at least two that I have met who have hidden profiles and have not been on the site for over a year. Both are in monogamous relationships, so have gone awol (though one messages at birthdays and Christmas). I like both and enjoyed our interactions. |
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"Yes, there has been a couple of people I've met on here that I would love to spend more time with.
Some have left the site, as we met over 8 yrs ago and some are still on here but circumstance dont allow our paths to cross now.
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I guess it’s as may have said.. things happen for a reason |
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No not at all.
This is my 4th profile in 10 years and each time I left and rejoined I deliberately didn't make contact with anyone I had met before because the whole point of leaving and coming back was so I'd have a blank slate.
I've never once asked someone I met to reverify me.
If I've met someone and it didn't go as planned I've just moved on and don't have any fab regrets. |
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"No not at all.
This is my 4th profile in 10 years and each time I left and rejoined I deliberately didn't make contact with anyone I had met before because the whole point of leaving and coming back was so I'd have a blank slate.
I've never once asked someone I met to reverify me.
If I've met someone and it didn't go as planned I've just moved on and don't have any fab regrets."
That’s a good headspace / outlook  |
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"Only one person. Seen him a few times over the years. Hes left now.. I assume hes living happy ever after which is lovely. "
And it’s lovely that you have the fondness of the memories and enjoyed it while you could  |
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There’s a few, but for one reason or another their fab journey took them in a different direction.
Never any malice held, people are free to choose.
There’s a few that have left or passed that we miss. |
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There's one man I met a few times, I'd meet again,but think he's left the scene now.
A few old meets contacted me in the last couple of years, but as it had been so long, I wasn't really bothered about meeting them again tbh.
In fact one blocked me when I said I wasn't looking at meeting anyone else just now. It all felt a bit entitled,like because I'd met him before, I'd still meet him.so I'm glad he did Tbf. |
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I was looking at my friends list and there is a couple I never met, but had lots of emails with.
They took a break from fab for personal reasons and never came back
And some of my verification from meets, I wonder why we didn’t meet again |
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Theres 2 ladies on here I used to talk to loads and met, but due to me having a break and new account, I cant get a message to them due to age filters. I dont want to meet them again for anything sexual, it would just been nice to see how they have been and if their doing well. |
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"Evening beauties
As I sit here … I wonder if any of you come across profiles you once interacted with/ met… and wish things had happened differently? Or that you still wished you had th chance to meet again?
Happened just once.
Just curious "
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All the time. I also wonder things like 'what if we'd met in person instead of me messaging them and being rejected?. Would they still have rejected us or would they have chosen us instead?'. I'm aware that there is only so much you can portray in a message, couple that with the fact that some messages get deleted by fab before the receiver even gets to see them, and it makes fab a tough place to meet people as it is. On the flip side there have been occasions where we have liked someone from a far then having met them we changed or minds and didnt like them as much. So I'm sure it must cross others minds too
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