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Extra filter needed for couples who meet separately
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I get it, you're a couple and have a couples account, you've got all your veris on your couples account so why set up another account and start all over again without veris? I have a separate solo account as I meet ladies solo, but its poorly verified and no-one really messages me. Also, if they are part of a couple they are usually more approachable I've found. So why dont we have a search filter for couples accounts where they meet separately? The amount of times I've spoken to couples and found out they meet separately but it's not stated on their profile. Is this something that people think would be useful?
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"It's a good idea but I think it's potentially wide-open for exploitation.
"I'm friendly and coupled off but want to meet separately. Honest"
Or maybe I'm getting cynical in my old age "
You have been on here long enough to be cynical too  |
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"It's a good idea but I think it's potentially wide-open for exploitation.
"I'm friendly and coupled off but want to meet separately. Honest"
Or maybe I'm getting cynical in my old age "
Yes, it'd be ripe for abuse. |
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I think everything is ripe for abuse on here, it could be an optional setting that you can switch on or off when you are looking for meets. It just makes more people easier to find, this site is difficult enough to use already cant hurt to have more options 🤷🏼♀️
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We have done this in the past, but not on separate profiles. It’s generally with people we have already met as a couple and are comfortable with. We wouldn’t set up a single profile just for solo meets. Most people don’t believe that one half of the couple isn’t cheating anyway so I’m not sure what difference it would make anyway.
As far as the ripe for abuse comment above, I believe that it would be no more ripe for abuse than any other aspect of using the site. |
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"Also a vote against it. The amount of couples profiles who are really men, would give them the green light then. "
Thats a valid point but I think the verification process has a lot of room for improvement for this reason. For people to be verified as genuine there needs to be stricter processes to out fakes.
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By *eliWoman 6 days ago
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"It could just be a symbol like the "meet today" or "verified". This symbol would indicate the couple are open to meet separately. And you could remove it whenever you want."
A symbol is a great idea.
Talking to a couple when you only want to meet one... I'm not sure there's demand for it. |
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Honestly wish there were a lot of seperate filters.
For instance i am a bisexual man who will meet men and tv/ts. But the age i would meet those is different to the ages of couples and single women. So I have them blocked and dont have it listed that I meet purely to keep my updates feed clear of some nasty photos |
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