If I look at a profile, I make a point of reading it. I get that there is a lot of unwanted attention and messages from people that we have categorically ruled out in our profiles. But does anyone else get put off or turned off when the whole profile is basically an expletive rant. Even if it doesn't apply to them. |
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Yes if I find a profile overly negative then it makes me wonder of they have a negative personality.
I am not a negative energy and I struggle with people who are. It zaps my energy, I have no issue with dislikes etc but tone can be tricky to decipher when it's written |
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By *eliWoman 4 days ago
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Yes. I can understand how it happens though; people have negative experiences, get cynical, grumpy, think it'll make a difference to their experience.
The sad thing is those who are more likely to read their profile will be put off, those who it apply to? Unlikey to read it/be deterred. |
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By *iver78Man 4 days ago
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I love them profiles with a massively long list of of dislikes , no beards , over 6ft must accommodate must be verified etc
With the comment I'll find you.dont waist my time ,
I get we all have all like and dislikes , but when you read them sort its just an immediate red flag |
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By *r_K85Man 4 days ago
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I’ve never understood these kind of profiles. Negative & rude for no reason. A whole dissertation of telling us what you don’t like and not to message you. Ok love, you’re not exactly beyonce. Chill. 😂😂😂 |
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By *r_K85Man 4 days ago
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"I love them profiles with a massively long list of of dislikes , no beards , over 6ft must accommodate must be verified etc
With the comment I'll find you.dont waist my time ,
I get we all have all like and dislikes , but when you read them sort its just an immediate red flag "
Exactly this!!! |
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