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Is there a Taboo Regarding Mens sex toys
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By *olace50 OP Man 4 days ago
Northampton |
So its seems socially ok for women to outwardly talk about and own a sex toy or even multiple ones , but a male shagging a neoprene arse attached to a mahogany board brands him as a pervert , Discuss |
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"So its seems socially ok for women to outwardly talk about and own a sex toy or even multiple ones , but a male shagging a neoprene arse attached to a mahogany board brands him as a pervert , Discuss "
Does it OP? I wouldn’t have thought so with the audience here on fab. What are your thoughts? Is this something close to your heart? |
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"So its seems socially ok for women to outwardly talk about and own a sex toy or even multiple ones , but a male shagging a neoprene arse attached to a mahogany board brands him as a pervert , Discuss "
A mahogany board? That must be the Rolls Royce of neoprene arses. |
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By *olace50 OP Man 4 days ago
Northampton |
"So its seems socially ok for women to outwardly talk about and own a sex toy or even multiple ones , but a male shagging a neoprene arse attached to a mahogany board brands him as a pervert , Discuss
A mahogany board? That must be the Rolls Royce of neoprene arses. "
All recycled materials and less chance of getting a splinter in your Japs eye |
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Yes there is definitely still some sort of disparity between male and female open use of sex toys, though let's be honest, when it comes to disparity between the sexes women do tend to get the rough end of the bargain - Stud v's whore for doing exactly the same thing for example.... Let's not complain too loudly here!!
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It is weird how women will freely chat about sex toys when together, but it is still a stigma for men. If I went into work on Monday telling people I'd cum bucketloads from a great anal session I'd get laughed right back out with a bunch of homophobe comments.
I guess it stems from the old competitive urge to give the impression you, as a man, are so studly that you're neck deep in clunge constantly and thus never need to wank because that's for saddos. |
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"It is weird how women will freely chat about sex toys when together, but it is still a stigma for men. If I went into work on Monday telling people I'd cum bucketloads from a great anal session I'd get laughed right back out with a bunch of homophobe comments.
I guess it stems from the old competitive urge to give the impression you, as a man, are so studly that you're neck deep in clunge constantly and thus never need to wank because that's for saddos. "
Where on earth do you work! |
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ive only once known a man in a working class factory environment, where sex was discussed openly and freely, sugest that pegging or a prostate massage might be worth trying. He was verbally hammered with such intensity he hardly spoke for a week. |
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"Where on earth do you work!"
Nothing special, just a standard SME manufacturing place with a male workforce. It's hard physical work, all of it, and the banter is equally savage because when your muscles are screaming before tea break, that's how men deal.
I kind of like it, but I'm a boomer who grew up in the 70s even if most of the lads are more millennial/Gen X or Z (dunno what happened to Y).
It is very much if you can't take it and give it back, you'll get beasted, verbally at least (physical beasting or hazing is obviously non-grata these days). |
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I think its taboo or a stigma..just enjoy what ever.. ive a metal cock ring i love to use for that tight swell and throb, a couple of strokers and a couple of anal toys.. just openly enjoy... if women can have cupboards full there shouldnt be anything wrong with a guy having a prostate massager 🤣 |
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"So its seems socially ok for women to outwardly talk about and own a sex toy or even multiple ones , but a male shagging a neoprene arse attached to a mahogany board brands him as a pervert , Discuss
A mahogany board? That must be the Rolls Royce of neoprene arses. "
It’s so it looks good on the sideboard.. |
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I’ve had this discussion a few times and I do think it’s viewed very differently. For decades now it’s fun for women to have dildos, vibrators, beads, all sorts of things but men it feels like only in the last 10 years is it becoming known that men use toys, flesh light or a fake body piece etc and those guys are viewed as pervy, creepy and ‘desperately lonely’ to some people which is a very unfair judgement.
I think that’s half the reason I’ve never even thought about using anything other than my hand. Subconsciously thinking “what would a woman think of me if she knew I had this toy?” Or just as bad telling a mate. I’ve had the same mates for 34 years, we know loads about each other, seen each other naked but I bet if 1 of the group said they had a fake pussy the others would give them shit and bring it up for years.
It’s like many things that weren’t acceptable years ago… it will be viewed the same as women having sex toys but not for a few years yet! |
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I used to banter with a work colleague about sex toys, both male and female varieties on websites and sex shops. All tongue in cheek banter. Only time I felt embarrassed was in Tesco when I purchased a cucumber. I genuinely bought it just to eat, but there's always that awkward moment when the cashier gives you that quick judgement with her eyes to see what you intend to do with it.  |
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"I’ve had this discussion a few times and I do think it’s viewed very differently. For decades now it’s fun for women to have dildos, vibrators, beads, all sorts of things but men it feels like only in the last 10 years is it becoming known that men use toys, flesh light or a fake body piece etc and those guys are viewed as pervy, creepy and ‘desperately lonely’ to some people which is a very unfair judgement.
I think that’s half the reason I’ve never even thought about using anything other than my hand. Subconsciously thinking “what would a woman think of me if she knew I had this toy?” Or just as bad telling a mate. I’ve had the same mates for 34 years, we know loads about each other, seen each other naked but I bet if 1 of the group said they had a fake pussy the others would give them shit and bring it up for years.
It’s like many things that weren’t acceptable years ago… it will be viewed the same as women having sex toys but not for a few years yet!"
I now have a DGAF attitude to this. If I want to stick some inches of silicone up my arse and get off, I'm not asking anyone's permission  |
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By *wcoMan 4 days ago
West Midlands |
"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄"
This is a funny post, a simple laughing emoji wouldn't do it justice. Well done, Sir |
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"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄"
Is the cum collection tray worth the extra £45 err asking for a friend, who looks like me with a fake tash |
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By *Effy-Woman 4 days ago
Scotland |
"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄"
Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried. |
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"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄"
Sound like a hobby to me |
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By *wcoMan 4 days ago
West Midlands |
"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄
Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried. "
Where he inflates it I guess.
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By *Effy-Woman 4 days ago
Scotland |
"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄
Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.
Where he inflates it I guess."
Ahh, the blow hole. |
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"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄
Is the cum collection tray worth the extra £45 err asking for a friend, who looks like me with a fake tash"
It depends if £45 is worth your time taking it to a car wash to clean it out properly |
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By *wcoMan 4 days ago
West Midlands |
"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄
Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.
Where he inflates it I guess.
Ahh, the blow hole."
Yes but I'm guessing this particular model comes with a more technical name for it.
Guessing, I promise. |
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"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄
Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried. "
Oh, it's nothing. It was there when I bought it 👀 |
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"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄
Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.
Oh, it's nothing. It was there when I bought it 👀"
Did you accidentally make a hole between the tits? There's a guy who makes a living repairing life size dolls. |
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By *eliWoman 4 days ago
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"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄"
👏🏼👏🏼 Love when you're like this. |
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By *Effy-Woman 4 days ago
Scotland |
"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄
Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.
Oh, it's nothing. It was there when I bought it 👀
Did you accidentally make a hole between the tits? There's a guy who makes a living repairing life size dolls."
You know a bit don't you 👀 |
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"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄
Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.
Oh, it's nothing. It was there when I bought it 👀
Did you accidentally make a hole between the tits? There's a guy who makes a living repairing life size dolls.
You know a bit don't you 👀"
I used to work nights and struggled to sleep. Channel flicking led me to the Channel 5 programs of doom. Adult documentaries 😂 |
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"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄
Joe, where's the extra hole located? I'm worried.
Oh, it's nothing. It was there when I bought it 👀
Did you accidentally make a hole between the tits? There's a guy who makes a living repairing life size dolls."
That's crazy! I wonder what his website or phone number is 🤔 |
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"I know right?! Women can own a dildo but my life size, 4 hole, silicone sex doll with 250w suction capability and 500ml cum collection tray for easy cleaning means I'm "sad" and "need a hobby" 🙄
👏🏼👏🏼 Love when you're like this."
It's cooler and my brain finally feels operational 😅😂 |
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