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By *arryp88 OP Man 3 days ago
bridlington |
Hey everyone been on the site a few months now... (I am genuine) Finding it really hard to get a meet. I'm polite willing and cleen . I don't think I'm ugly but I suppose that's up to others? I don't have public pics as I need to be discreet due to work. What am I doing wrong xxx |
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"Hey everyone been on the site a few months now... (I am genuine) Finding it really hard to get a meet. I'm polite willing and cleen . I don't think I'm ugly but I suppose that's up to others? I don't have public pics as I need to be discreet due to work. What am I doing wrong xxx"
Work would recognise any picture of you? How likely is that? You start your profile with info you’ve already given, age and location etc.
Have you thought about a club or a local social. I’d also change your status update unless you mean you have a quarter pounder burger  |
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You might not think you're ugly but I'd assume it from the lack of pictures.
Otherwise, yeah. The profile doesn't say or show anything.
When there's 20 messages to go through the no pictures are the first in the bin, the no information in the profile are second, and then it's the crap messages and people who's profiles make it clear we're not compatible. If there's anyone left, I might talk to them.
You're out twice before I even look at the message 💜 |
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By *vaRoseWoman 3 days ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"Hey everyone been on the site a few months now... (I am genuine) Finding it really hard to get a meet. I'm polite willing and cleen . I don't think I'm ugly but I suppose that's up to others? I don't have public pics as I need to be discreet due to work. What am I doing wrong xxx"
You answered your own question. No public gallery means very few will want to interact.
Would work recognise your back, hand, arm, torso, bum? Would they recognise you in a headless photo against a plain background?
Or I could put it another way.
You’ve messaged profiles you like the look of. Because of their gallery and bio, don’t they deserve to make the same decision themselves? |
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By *iver78Man 3 days ago
barton upon humber |
"Hey everyone been on the site a few months now... (I am genuine) Finding it really hard to get a meet. I'm polite willing and cleen . I don't think I'm ugly but I suppose that's up to others? I don't have public pics as I need to be discreet due to work. What am I doing wrong xxx"
Genuinely if you can, go on tinder , its a lot easier , just be honest on profile regarding what you want , loads of women on here are on there iv found , if you can't then stop cheating haha , |
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"What am I doing wrong xxx"
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You have no photos whatsoever on your profile. How are you going to tantalise your target audience otherwise?
Your profile text is basic, generic and lacks any substance. It's also prone to repetition: we know that you're 38 and from Bridlington because it's already displayed in your profile summary/details.
Nothing stands out.
You need to really invest some time in polishing your profile, especially as a returning member who should know better.
I wish you all the best, OP. |
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By *arryp88 OP Man 3 days ago
bridlington |
100% not cheeting I understand the conclusion. I love in a small village everyone knows everyones business. I don't want to be known as the swinger... Although I do want to swing. 😂 I've taken a few pics put don't want to post them on the site there mot very good. Maybe I need a photographer 😂 I appreciate all the advice and criticism xx |
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From a guys perspective, your profile is a bit bland, there is nothing that makes it stand out from the hundreds of other single men.
Ask yourself, what do you bring to the table, what are you offering, its more than who you are.
Look at your profile as a shop window on the high street, make it stand out.
Pics would help, you can edit them so there is nothing anyone you know would recognise, just not 100 cock pics next to link cans or the sky remote. |
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By *erdyHollyTV/TS 3 days ago
In a galaxy far far away |
"100% not cheeting I understand the conclusion. I love in a small village everyone knows everyones business. I don't want to be known as the swinger... Although I do want to swing. 😂 I've taken a few pics put don't want to post them on the site there mot very good. Maybe I need a photographer 😂 I appreciate all the advice and criticism xx"
Unless your other villagers are also on this site, how are they going to recognise you on here? 🤔 |
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By *iver78Man 3 days ago
barton upon humber |
"100% not cheeting I understand the conclusion. I love in a small village everyone knows everyones business. I don't want to be known as the swinger... Although I do want to swing. 😂 I've taken a few pics put don't want to post them on the site there mot very good. Maybe I need a photographer 😂 I appreciate all the advice and criticism xx"
I know that feeling well lol , my village is the same tbf |
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"...if you can't then stop cheating haha
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Is he cheating? 🤔
Can be the only reason , tinder is a pretty innocent and exepted app "
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He didn't mention Tinder. You did.
I mean, some people do lie. For example next you'll be telling me that you're self employed and running three businesses.  |
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By *iver78Man 3 days ago
barton upon humber |
"...if you can't then stop cheating haha
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Is he cheating? 🤔
Can be the only reason , tinder is a pretty innocent and exepted app
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He didn't mention Tinder. You did.
I mean, some people do lie. For example next you'll be telling me that you're self employed and running three businesses. "
Haha , sounds bitter there poppit lol |
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I live in a village of about 2K residents and don’t show my face…. But, I still have pics, both public and private ones that show my face for when I feel comfortable sharing them with people who I become friends with.
I can only answer for myself, and as my profile states quite clearly, I won’t entertain conversation with someone who doesn’t have any public pictures.
I’m sure most men on here will tell you that they are outnumbered… probably 1 women to every 10 men.. maybe more… so you get out what you put in I guess.
If I had some guy message me with zero public pics on his profile and a very short mundane profile and another who took time and effort in his profile and has pics on his profile… guess who I would reply too?
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