Asking "Who is into BDSM?" is like asking "Who is into cars?" BDSM is a composite acronym made of Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, and Sadomasochism, athough some people define some of the elements of differently.
Therefore similar to the car question, do you want a sports or a saloon or 4×4, or a people wagon? Do you want diesel, or a hybrid or an EV? In regard to BDSM what particular parts of the acronym and combination of parts of the acronym float your boat? Within that, what sort of play are you looking for? B/D can be very different from D/S and D/S can be different from S/M. Within those, each dynamic is different. Also despite social media stereotypes Dominants and submissives are not formed with a cookie cutter. As an example some articles list from 6 to 16 types of Dominant.
It may help if you provide more detail of what you are looking for in a dynamic and from a Dominant.
As most people that are ethical and serious about BDSM know that it is more than rough sex, and Ann Summers'paddles |
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By *vaRoseWoman 2 days ago
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"Asking "Who is into BDSM?" is like asking "Who is into cars?" BDSM is a composite acronym made of Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, and Sadomasochism, athough some people define some of the elements of differently.
Therefore similar to the car question, do you want a sports or a saloon or 4×4, or a people wagon? Do you want diesel, or a hybrid or an EV? In regard to BDSM what particular parts of the acronym and combination of parts of the acronym float your boat? Within that, what sort of play are you looking for? B/D can be very different from D/S and D/S can be different from S/M. Within those, each dynamic is different. Also despite social media stereotypes Dominants and submissives are not formed with a cookie cutter. As an example some articles list from 6 to 16 types of Dominant.
It may help if you provide more detail of what you are looking for in a dynamic and from a Dominant.
As most people that are ethical and serious about BDSM know that it is more than rough sex, and Ann Summers'paddles"
Forums would be pretty dull if every conversation starter had to come with a 25-page filter questionnaire before anyone was allowed to reply.
OP to answer your broad question, yes I am, and while there is a large crossover on fab, fab isn’t necessarily the easiest place to find those dynamics.
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By *vaRoseWoman 2 days ago
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"Forums would be pretty dull if every conversation starter had to come with a 25-page filter questionnaire before anyone was allowed to reply.
[Yes/No] Do you want a shag?"
I wonder if anyone has sent that as a message. Variation on fancy a fuck |
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"Forums would be pretty dull if every conversation starter had to come with a 25-page filter questionnaire before anyone was allowed to reply.
[Yes/No] Do you want a shag?
I wonder if anyone has sent that as a message. Variation on fancy a fuck "
It’s more scientific and has been approved by Sydney University. |
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