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Am I wrong in wanting pics before swapping tele?
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Hi guys,
Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.
Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)
But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful? |
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"Hi guys,
Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.
Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)
But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"
I think its only fair asking for pics before exchanging tele details, so no your not in the wrong at all! |
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"Hi guys,
Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.
Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)
But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"
Do they realise how many people that is? 700 wouldn't fit in most venues, and if they are arranging a GB and vetting each and everyone one as thoroughly as you, it would be a full time job.
Either this is the same people who arranged the GB where BB had over 1000 men in 12 hrs, or someone is pulling your leg mate |
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"Hi guys,
Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.
Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)
But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"
If this was the case he would be a lot more open and know the score by now.
I wouldn’t even give it a second thought OPs. Move on and block.
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If you’re right or wrong doesn’t matter. If it’s your boundary then that’s ok.
I had a guy recently who wanted to play as a couple, but wouldn’t share his wife’s face pics because she was only going to be watching so it didn’t matter what she looked like. He got well rude about it |
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"Hi guys,
Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.
Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)
But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"
I would say this guy is bull shitting. But that you both are very attractive and he wants to have fun with you both then ghost you.
Its an interesting (and wrong) tactic to get couples who dont want single guys to contact him then he gets his sex.
Tell him to do one |
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By *oop87Man 2 days ago
Salisbury |
"Hi guys,
Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.
Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)
But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us
both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"
Nothing wrong with asking for pics first. More than reasonable. He should be grateful. Your a gorgeous couple |
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By *ision21Man 2 days ago
Newcastle Under Lyme |
"Hi guys,
Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.
Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)
But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"
Stay firmly away from anyone on Tele.
They only want cash and nothing more.
Parasites that see you as a transaction.
I report these profiles on here daily.
There are hundreds on here. |
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I agree with all the above but would add, why wouldnt they send a pic ?
Sounds like a scam / timewaster to me.
If i'm chatting with someone and they want to meet, I'll want a pic and a video chat with them before hand.
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"Hi guys,
Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.
Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)
But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"
Sounds like a load of bollocks in more ways than one. Walk away. |
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Only ever do what you feel happy with but I will say that having been meeting with a well established g b group a while ago it became necessary to meet prospective couples/F before committing to a meet as there are so many fakes now |
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"Hi guys,
Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.
Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)
But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"
Why does he need to chat on tele anyways if hes genuine he can chay to you on here, plus why does he need to meet he can see that you are verified genuine and you can clearly see what you look like. Sounds like a billy bullshitter to me  |
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I’d agree with so many on here OP, trust your gut. I’m pretty nervous about sharing stuff for reason I’ve detailed on my profile but even I’m not as unreasonable as that person seems
Remember, his loss, give others that value you the time, not him |
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Never trust anyone that asks you to move on to a different app.
You can exchange photos even cam chat all on here. To verify the both parties generally.
All he will be doing is asking for loads of pictures of the female, with the pretext of saying he needs to show them to the guys. |
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I agree...trust the instinct...always sounds in the dodgy region if people want to straight away into another app, no need for that if you can do it all through here😎 so nope, wouldn't say you were in the wrong or unreasonable or unrespectful🥴 |
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"Hi guys,
Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.
Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)
But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"
I know exactly who you're talking about haha, he's absolutely full of shit and incredibly obnoxious about it, can't hold a basic conversation and gets nasty when he doesn't get his own way.
You didn't miss much by not entertaining him. |
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It's wild to me how many people are so weird about tele on here, perfectly reasonable to want to chat on a different platform before meeting and it's a great option for staying in touch without having to give out personal info |
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"Hi guys,
Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.
Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)
But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"
He's now got 701 in his group lol xxx |
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If there isn't any face pics on a profile I may be chatting with, I will ask for one.
I do like to see who I am talking to, and they definitely don't get my number if they are not willing to let me see.
Big red flag, but then that is just me |
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