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Pegging, what’s in it for her?
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By *dstefiMan 12 hours ago
Solihull |
My wife and I have used a Feeldoe (strapless with a bulb that goes inside her while the shaft goes inside me) and particularly if I ride her using it, she gets a lot of sensory pleasure from the movement. We have managed virtually simultaneous orgasms from it on occasion. |
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"I think what we observe here is the difference between people who've seen it in porn and wanked off to it, and those who've done it with an interested partner.
Not sure what this means"
Me neither bro |
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By *dstefiMan 12 hours ago
Solihull |
"I think what we observe here is the difference between people who've seen it in porn and wanked off to it, and those who've done it with an interested partner.
Not sure what this means"
Sorry, do I need to use fewer and smaller words?
It's not always like it is in porn. |
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My issue with pegging is obviously when I guy performs anal he can feel the resistance on his cock, I can’t with a strap on so I get really anxious about pushing too hard too fast and hurting them. So I don’t really get anything out of it but have no problem giving it a go if a guy is really in to it |
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Pre joining fab, I had a bf at the time who expressed an interest in being pegged. I was very vanilla and naive and he didn't approach it well so needless to say it never happened.
A few years on and the idea of doing it with a partner is an absolute turn on.
I can get just as much pleasure and enjoyment out of being the giver rather than the receiver as it were,and yes there is also the dominance aspect with this one. |
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By *666Man 9 hours ago
Warrington |
I'm a 53 male, a 23 year old female messaged and wanted to peg me, it was her fantasy. When I said yes she said she couldn't concentrate and had to leave work. We arranged a time for her to come round, she was late because she couldn't concentrate. She pegged me and I showed her how to peg me in different positions. She orgasmed so many times, she loved it. |
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"I'm a 53 male, a 23 year old female messaged and wanted to peg me, it was her fantasy. When I said yes she said she couldn't concentrate and had to leave work. We arranged a time for her to come round, she was late because she couldn't concentrate. She pegged me and I showed her how to peg me in different positions. She orgasmed so many times, she loved it. "
Lucky bastard! |
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We've hot a double ended dido bulb end goes in her shaft goes in me. Best position is me on top it stay i her better. And she usually climaxes many times with me riding her..its not about domination or control it's about sharing the experience and understanding wants a desires. It's pleasurable for both of us. But she will fuck me standing up if the sex swing comes out to play and she gets me at the right height.. |
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Wife here.
It's sharing special intimate moments.
It's the excitement of wanting to give them pleasure and an amazing orgasm and watching them cum hard.
Giving not just taking is incredibly important and satisfying in a relationship. |
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"Wife here.
It's sharing special intimate moments.
It's the excitement of wanting to give them pleasure and an amazing orgasm and watching them cum hard.
Giving not just taking is incredibly important and satisfying in a relationship."
totally agree |
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A girlfriend I met at a club pegged me with my strap on I bring with me, she loved the fun of fucking me gripping my hips and the pad of the strap on pressing and rubbing against her clit while she fucked me. Had it done by several women and they've all enjoyed fucking me. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 5 hours ago
Ankh-Morpork |
What’s in it for me…
Firstly, I share in a vicarious joy of seeing his eyes roll back, hearing his moans, and watching his body respond to the stimulation. Knowing I’m the one responsible for that, without the distraction of my own physical stimulation, it’s incredibly arousing and his pleasure becomes part of mine.
Secondly, I fucking love the power. I love having control of his pleasure. Learning his body, seeing exactly how it responds, then conducting that response like an orchestra. Faster, slower, building, easing off… it’s immensely satisfying to me. The control is just as enjoyable as the act itself.
Finally… pride. That satisfaction in knowing you can give another person that experience. Those quiet little moments after and the flashbacks where you smile and know “Yeah… I did that”
You could ask this about any particularly one-sided sex act. What would I get out of giving a handjob? Or what would he get out of using his fingers or a toy on my clit? It’s not exclusive to pegging. Giving and controlling pleasure is pleasurable.
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"Would a woman who’s never considered it, try it for a male partner because he expressed he’d enjoy it? "
That would depend on the individual. Some might, others wouldn't consider it. It's about communication. |
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