"Would you leave the site if you met someone who wasn't in the lifestyle but knew about it...but didn't want to partake? "
Yes if I was getting into a relationship I’d kill this profile and have done. It’s just a tool for fucking around when single for me |
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"Nope.
I have very little interest in a relationship. If I did, it wouldn't be a monogamous one"
This, I've been in long term relationships, married, widowed and brought up my daughter solo. I'm happy with my own company and enjoy doing what I want and when I want, for the most part.
So at this part of my life, no. |
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Nø.
As long as it wasn't a spousal arrangement or relationship I would still remain here. Where else on earth would I go to flirt, to ruffle my plumage, to charm, to beguile and to meet for Åfternoon Teå? 🫖 {shudders!} |
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Maybe would have to be someone bloody special for me to want that sort of relationship. If I kept it, it would be purely for the forums ... and I would have a minimal profile and be clear I was not meeeting.
I have left fab for two previous relationships with people I met on here.
1st asked that we delete profiles and be exclusive so I did ... 6 months later I snuck on as something felt off to discover he hadn't deleted his and had still been meeting people according to his verifications. Relationship ended.
2nd again asked me to delete profiles because he was bloody insecure and didnt trust me ... I was stupid and said yes ... again snuck on and he had kept his, said he wasn't meeting people but for a whole host of other reasons the relationships ended as he turned out to be controlling and a liar. |
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By *mf123Man 10 hours ago
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Id love to leave i actually want to but i cant my brain panics when i hover the i understand bit i worry it may trigger my darker side if i do so i try only come on now and then to just check in |
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If that person was someone with whom I wanted to be in a serious relationship with & fulfilled me sexually, amongst all the other important stuff, then I wouldn't feel the need for this place so would leave.
However I'm happily single & not seeking any kind of relationship, so this is why I'm here, to meet my sexual needs & nothing more |
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No. I have met loads who have met me we still fuck but not a part of the life style. Swinging is a part of me. If they can’t accept that then that’s not right. I think I’ll always need more than one guy in my life. |
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"Would you leave the site if you met someone who wasn't in the lifestyle but knew about it...but didn't want to partake? "
Yes, I would. If in a relationship, I am always loyal to my partner and respect their reasonable requests. |
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