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By *onin25 OP Man 4 days ago
Durham |
I was reading a thread and two posts had been quoted which appeared to be single men offering up wife pics. The quote posts were querying consent but the original posts were not there (and no 'removed by poster' message). Is this another new thing? If so it's another step in the right direction. |
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By *onin25 OP Man 4 days ago
Durham |
"Is this the 'Enjoy my wifes' comment on the thread? I couldn't see who wrote that either. 🤷🏼♂️"
Yeah, there was another one on the same thread. Definitely not complaining if Fab are doing something about these posts but it seemed weird |
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There has been a lot of discussion recently about consent or lack of and threads and comments are being reported.
I recently reported one thread that had 70 comments up to that point from people happy to share pics and stories of wives and partners who aren't on fab.
I couldn't believe that there wasn't a single comment about lack of consent until I said something. |
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By *onin25 OP Man 4 days ago
Durham |
I wonder if the posts were reported or just spotted. If there's something we can do to help remove them (apart from just calling them out because a lot of us do that already) then that would be useful information. |
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By *onin25 OP Man 4 days ago
Durham |
"I know for a fact that there's a guy posing as a couple and using his wife's photos without consent. I've reported it but it's still there. And I think people who leave fake veris for scum bags like this need a permanent ban! "
Yeah, they need to take these things seriously, and there needs to be a way to stop people just rejoining. Better verification and making it a requirement. |
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"My issue with all this Is the admins not removing any of these sort of ppl, we're not able to name em, they can't detect when they're rejoining fab and we keep having to report. It's annoying "
I suppose it's a bit like ing your garden, it's a ongoing and thankless task and you hope that you've weakened it into submission but wait and see what happens if you stop.
Keep at it Admin  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 4 days ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
This is a fantastic move in the right direction.
Also, on a side note, is anyone else ever surprised at just how many 'single' guys out themselves in threads like that through mentioning a partner? |
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It's always been the case that we remove threads offering to share 'wife' pics. We do need to spot them or someone needs to report them so that always helps
If the quote posts offering to share are still there and you report them they'll be removed too. |
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By *onin25 OP Man 4 days ago
Durham |
"It's always been the case that we remove threads offering to share 'wife' pics. We do need to spot them or someone needs to report them so that always helps
If the quote posts offering to share are still there and you report them they'll be removed too. "
Good to hear, and appreciate you need to see the posts so will report them when I see them.
The quote posts weren't offering to share, they were quoting the men offering to share and calling them out. |
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"It's always been the case that we remove threads offering to share 'wife' pics. We do need to spot them or someone needs to report them so that always helps
If the quote posts offering to share are still there and you report them they'll be removed too.
Good to hear, and appreciate you need to see the posts so will report them when I see them.
The quote posts weren't offering to share, they were quoting the men offering to share and calling them out. "
Ok still worth reporting though  |
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"I wonder if the posts were reported or just spotted. If there's something we can do to help remove them (apart from just calling them out because a lot of us do that already) then that would be useful information. "
As my thread the other day showed, a lot of people won't report, they would rather find threads they find interesting and leave the inappropriate ones to gain traction  |
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"I wonder if the posts were reported or just spotted. If there's something we can do to help remove them (apart from just calling them out because a lot of us do that already) then that would be useful information.
As my thread the other day showed, a lot of people won't report, they would rather find threads they find interesting and leave the inappropriate ones to gain traction "
I guess it feels a bit like telling tales at school. My personal opinion that is that in cases like non consensual sharing of pictures it's actually keeping women safer (and men too if someone is offering their photo out) so why wouldn't you report!? 🤷♀️ |
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By *ohn 66Man 4 days ago
South Birmingham |
"It's always been the case that we remove threads offering to share 'wife' pics. We do need to spot them or someone needs to report them so that always helps
If the quote posts offering to share are still there and you report them they'll be removed too.
Good to hear, and appreciate you need to see the posts so will report them when I see them.
The quote posts weren't offering to share, they were quoting the men offering to share and calling them out.
Ok still worth reporting though "
Let's all pledge to report each and every time we see non consensual sharing of photos (or any other non consensual activity).
I want Fab to be full of decent people, not abusers |
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