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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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"Do you open Doors for Women when your out and would you give your seat up for someone else, answer honestly  "
Yep in most cases without a thought you do it but hell i wouldn't give up my seat on the train for an ungrateful feminazi.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I posted because of something that happened a while ago,
a young Lad in the Newsagent didn't have enough for his can of pop so I said to the Newsagent put what he's short of on mine, the Lad said thanks any chance of a bag of Crisps so I bought the Crisps as well  the Lad then waited for me and opened the door for me, I just said thanks you cheeky git and walked off still laughing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So do woman not leave the door open for us gents or give up their seats??
I open the door for anybody but give up my seat for the elderly, pregnant and the disabled.
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"Giving up your seat can be really embarassing especially if they aren't pregnant just obese!"
i wouldnt be embarrased - i'd happily take your seat even though i'm a fatty!!!
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I always open doors and hold lifts for ladys, sometimes for gents as well if it feels right to. Give up my seat? If anyones mad enough to want the seat I sit in all day long they're welcome to it lol  Rides a motorcycle for a living!!! Lmao. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes always, is how i was brought up as well,
Treat others as you would like to be treated, and respect women,
Call me old fashioned if you like but manners and being polite cost nothing,
And besides sometimes they pay benefits lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think i must be a femanist because i hate guys who hold doors open for me, men who get out of cars and run round the other side to open mine just plain annoy me, i can open my own door ffs and why am i less able to stand up than a man? i dont need yout seat thanks you, if its cold and i havnt had the sence to bring my coat out and you have, you wear it dont give it me lol im really funny about things like that, its supposed to be a time of eqality, women dont need mamby pambying any more lol |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"i think i must be a femanist because i hate guys who hold doors open for me, men who get out of cars and run round the other side to open mine just plain annoy me, i can open my own door ffs and why am i less able to stand up than a man? i dont need yout seat thanks you, if its cold and i havnt had the sence to bring my coat out and you have, you wear it dont give it me lol im really funny about things like that, its supposed to be a time of eqality, women dont need mamby pambying any more lol"
i like to be namby pambyied!!!!! i love to be treated like a lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I give up my seat for the elderly, pregnant and the disabled.
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Fookin' 'ell! You'll have to go some way to find one of them. So you don't really give up your seat at all do you? hehehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*** notes in my little black book ***
Hold door open for Femme, get Naughtynymph to buy me a pint,
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sorted larger or bitter? lol
i guess im just not a lady lady lol
ive always been very independant and i just see such thing as men looking down on us, you know aww poor woman cant even open a door herself no wonder shes got no chance with the pickles jar lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I give up my seat for the elderly, pregnant and the disabled.
Fookin' 'ell! You'll have to go some way to find one of them. So you don't really give up your seat at all do you? hehehe "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*** notes in my little black book ***
Hold door open for Femme, get Naughtynymph to buy me a pint,
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sorted larger or bitter? lol
i guess im just not a lady lady lol
ive always been very independant and i just see such thing as men looking down on us, you know aww poor woman cant even open a door herself no wonder shes got no chance with the pickles jar lol "
I would never look down on you Naughty, in fact I think you're an inch taller than me already  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and yes.
Got out of a busy lift at Hull Royal Infirmary, so that an elderly couple could squeeze in. As it was the busiest time of day, and they where on the worst floor to try and get into a lift, I figured I could walk the last five sets of stairs rather than leave them standing there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often hold doors open for people but it really pisses me off when they walk through and don't even have the decency to say thanks !
I always respond with a very loud, "You're welcome", but most of the time it falls on deaf ears.
Some people wouldn't understand the meaning of manners if it jumped up and bit their arse |
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"I often hold doors open for people but it really pisses me off when they walk through and don't even have the decency to say thanks !
I always respond with a very loud, "You're welcome", but most of the time it falls on deaf ears.
Some people wouldn't understand the meaning of manners if it jumped up and bit their arse"
ooooohhhhhhhh i hate that too, also when i hold back to let someone pass me in an isle etc when shopping - so rude!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ok
consider my self a lady
and i love it when men show old fashioned values
as for myself i always hold the door open if i get there first and people are behind me regardless of sex
i tend to avoid public transport but if i did and i had a seat i would glady give it up for the elderly or infirm or pregnant ladies - never just for another female though
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"I often hold doors open for people but it really pisses me off when they walk through and don't even have the decency to say thanks !
I always respond with a very loud, "You're welcome", but most of the time it falls on deaf ears.
Some people wouldn't understand the meaning of manners if it jumped up and bit their arse"
Me too, me too! I HATE it when i hold the door in a random act of kindness/courtesy and the person just gives you a cold look, or worse ignores you and walks on by. A loud "your welcome" always makes me feel SOOOO much better!!
(there may have also been the odd "ignorant cow", but don't tell anyone on here, i want them to think i'm a nice guy...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often hold doors open for people but it really pisses me off when they walk through and don't even have the decency to say thanks !
I always respond with a very loud, "You're welcome", but most of the time it falls on deaf ears.
Some people wouldn't understand the meaning of manners if it jumped up and bit their arse"
Yes, being of a certain age I also was brought up to treat ladies in a certain manner. Interestingly, a certain lady recently commented on the way that I regularly walk on the 'outside' of her, another little thing that was part of my upbringing!
If a lady doesn't want to be treated like that then that's up to her but for me, it's part of treating a lady like a lady! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes of course I do, on both accounts, and not just for the ladies, but anyone I deem may have trouble opening the door or may need the seat I have more than me, be that an older gentleman or small child, etc etc.
Problem I find is there are far less people with manners to thank me for doing so, especially holding the door open. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often hold doors open for people but it really pisses me off when they walk through and don't even have the decency to say thanks !
I always respond with a very loud, "You're welcome", but most of the time it falls on deaf ears.
Some people wouldn't understand the meaning of manners if it jumped up and bit their arse
Me too, me too! I HATE it when i hold the door in a random act of kindness/courtesy and the person just gives you a cold look, or worse ignores you and walks on by. A loud "your welcome" always makes me feel SOOOO much better!!
(there may have also been the odd "ignorant cow", but don't tell anyone on here, i want them to think i'm a nice guy...)"
So it was you who shouted that at me last year when I was hobbling around Princes Street was it
In reality I like men holding doors open for me cos some of them are that hard to open and heavy I struggle - I have hardly any strength in my arms since my surgery  BUT I ALWAYS say thank you, and if its a child holding the door I always say what a well mannered boy/girl thank you very much the smile on their faces says it all especially when loads of people have walked past and not said a word
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a polite thing to do. be polite is free and goes along way. just like your p's and q's. opening doors shows your are a kind and thoughful person who thinks about others rather than himself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im happy if they dont wipe their cock on the curtains!!!
i always say thank you if someone holds the door for me its nice to be nice!!
as for car doors its never happened!! i must just see ill mannered gits!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In these days of men too scared to approach women for fear of being labelled stalkers/perverts/wierdos it's harldy surprising to see gentlemanly traditions like holding the door open for a lady dying out.
It used to be a display if respect for the fairer sex. To show her how important she is, regardless of whether she was your own partner or not. A man still held the door for women he didn't know as he knew another man would do the same for his partner. But now, it's seen as an interference by the woman from a man she doesn't know who is invading her personal space and underminging her ability to do things for herself.
The point I'm trying to make is that we KNOW women can open the door for themselves, we just like doing it. It's nice to hear the sweet tones of a female voice say, 'Thank you,' and see her smile. It makes us smile too. |
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By *riapus4uMan
over a year ago
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"I often hold doors open for people but it really pisses me off when they walk through and don't even have the decency to say thanks !
I always respond with a very loud, "You're welcome", but most of the time it falls on deaf ears.
Some people wouldn't understand the meaning of manners if it jumped up and bit their arse"
I totaly agree, & yes I do open doors for women & give my seat up to people who may be of pensionable age & to some women who are not.
I also stand up to meet new people who have just entered the room or come to the dining table etc.
My parent's drummed all this into me as a child & it is only good manners to do so!. |
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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
Yes, I open doors. Also, when walking with a woman in the street, I always position myself on the side nearest the kerb (which, on 50% of occasions, annoys one of my non-swinging friends because she is deaf in one ear). |
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