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why is it so hard to find a single bifem?
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By *izena OP Couple
over a year ago
if we are near were up for fun |
yep we have had the single guy playing the single bifem role but we have asked to call and always find they have a good reason not to chat on the phone like i carnt chat as my partner is sleeping or my dog has eaten the phone charger or something stupid like that..... funny how always the offers that are sent are a plane trip away! lol |
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over a year ago
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The first rule of swinging is:
Those that you fancy live the other side of the country.
Rule 2
The weekend you can meet is the "wrong time of the month" for them
Rule 3
Would love to but we have Mother in Law staying that weekend
Rule 4
You fancy her but not him
Rule 5
You fancy him but not her
Rule 6
They are the hottest thing you have ever seen but they don't fancy you.
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By *izena OP Couple
over a year ago
if we are near were up for fun |
we start to think we are mr and mrs john merick!
just for you that wants to know who is john merick is..... he was the elephant man if you dont know who he is you better get the film oh and a box of tissus NO its not a porn film before you start getting turned on!
its a great english film classic |
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By *izena OP Couple
over a year ago
if we are near were up for fun |
"The first rule of swinging is:
Those that you fancy live the other side of the country.
Rule 2
The weekend you can meet is the "wrong time of the month" for them
Rule 3
Would love to but we have Mother in Law staying that weekend
Rule 4
You fancy her but not him
Rule 5
You fancy him but not her
Rule 6
They are the hottest thing you have ever seen but they don't fancy you.
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how true...... lol
i wonder how many true (not guys) bi fems are realy looking for fun and why are they single if they are hot? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The first rule of swinging is:
Those that you fancy live the other side of the country.
Rule 2
The weekend you can meet is the "wrong time of the month" for them
Rule 3
Would love to but we have Mother in Law staying that weekend
Rule 4
You fancy her but not him
Rule 5
You fancy him but not her
Rule 6
They are the hottest thing you have ever seen but they don't fancy you.
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how true...... lol
i wonder how many true (not guys) bi fems are realy looking for fun and why are they single if they are hot?"
wont be that many for sure
why do they pose as bi girls for not as if you get to meet the person or persons just dont understand it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wonder how many true (not guys) bi fems are realy looking for fun and why are they single if they are hot?"
Hey! true (yes I am) single bi-fem here. I'm single because I choose to be and have fun when I choose to, most recently this weekend.
Many are in the same situation as myself, single mums who don't have a partner to share childcare etc. Doesn't make us any less willing to have fun, just means we have to plan more carefully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so ,, single bi ladies ,,,, if time was not an issue ,,,,, just how many meets could you get ??? ( i think bi single ladies are very rare ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so ,, single bi ladies ,,,, if time was not an issue ,,,,, just how many meets could you get ??? ( i think bi single ladies are very rare ) "
I have offers of meets every day with couples, single guys or fems.
I will not have anyone to my home because of my family, and I am restricted therefore with childcare and fitting it around work etc.
However I'm not sure why you ask how many meets CAN we get? if I wanted to shag for Scotland I could have 3 a day every day but have explained why I don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not that there's no single bi fems its just that there not ALL on here.
A couple of our lady friends we either know through personal life or met on other sites.Also, lots of guys pretending to be them or couples does slim the chances of meeting real ones.
Hang in there, have fun and be yourselves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The irony is
The fake single bi-fem that swaps pictures, talks dirty in mails, wanks over what he gets
is too stupid to realise that the person he is having all this sexy fun with is another guy pretending to be a single bi fem.
Have lots of gay fun boys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The irony is
The fake single bi-fem that swaps pictures, talks dirty in mails, wanks over what he gets
is too stupid to realise that the person he is having all this sexy fun with is another guy pretending to be a single bi fem.
Have lots of gay fun boys "
lol there are just so many fakes in here - we just seem to come across all of them what a nightmare it is jed - having plenty of gay fun though lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The irony is
The fake single bi-fem that swaps pictures, talks dirty in mails, wanks over what he gets
is too stupid to realise that the person he is having all this sexy fun with is another guy pretending to be a single bi fem.
Have lots of gay fun boys
lol there are just so many fakes in here - we just seem to come across all of them what a nightmare it is jed - having plenty of gay fun though lol"
yeh ano what yeh mean get them to fakes that is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always found the best place to find bi girls who would like to try the scene is anywhere but the scene.
Lots of girls would love to go to a swingers club to see what it is really like, especially the younger ones and more especially the bi ones
In the past our best place to find them was at my ex's college and there were more than we could handle, but we tried hard and got through them all.
Twice we found bi girls at the local laundrette and ended up taking them to Chameleons
Why do you think we are moving to the University town of Aberystwyth  |
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how true...... lol
i wonder how many true (not guys) bi fems are realy looking for fun and why are they single if they are hot?"
that's a really odd thing to say ?? There are many reasons someone may be single ..it won't preclude them from being genuine, wanting to meet and hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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psssst.....sprite, cheeky....have you noticed......no one talks to single bi-fems...we're like unicorns....invisible except to others...
.....and they wonder why they can't get a meet with one!  |
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"psssst.....sprite, cheeky....have you noticed......no one talks to single bi-fems...we're like unicorns....invisible except to others...
.....and they wonder why they can't get a meet with one! "
lol.....well the chat room seems to have plenty of bifems too....don't know why people think we're such a rare breed |
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"You're right there Sprite....and in my case a Fab social was responsible for awakening my bi-curious side........and led to me changing my status to bi-sexual a week or so later
Happily there are loads of genuine bifems on the site"
from what i saw there was nothing curious about you by then ...and what a great woman you had to show you the light hehehe
lol laine and queen !
xx |
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"psssst.....sprite, cheeky....have you noticed......no one talks to single bi-fems...we're like unicorns....invisible except to others...
.....and they wonder why they can't get a meet with one!
lol.....well the chat room seems to have plenty of bifems too....don't know why people think we're such a rare breed"
because they dont think we're real
i remember having a fab time with a gorgeous and very popular bi girl from here...we stopped mid flow and she said " we're not doing too badly for a couple of people who dont really exist are we? " Grin xx |
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"You're right there Sprite....and in my case a Fab social was responsible for awakening my bi-curious side........and led to me changing my status to bi-sexual a week or so later
Happily there are loads of genuine bifems on the site
from what i saw there was nothing curious about you by then ...and what a great woman you had to show you the light hehehe
lol laine and queen !
xx"
yes...I was very lucky....and she's still my best girl.....but I have to say I've met some fabulous women since |
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"Single Bi Fems are at the top of the pecking order in the swinging world.
They have offers by the bus-load and can pick and choose at their will.
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i dont think thats true tho pearl ..i get rejections as well as offers .. and 95% of offers arent compatible so it puts me with the same odds as most other people.
meeting couples even as a single means you still have to have a 3 way like and many, many people really do feel we arent genuine or will be so up ourselves we'll be horrible. Or they just want to tick a box or for you to convert their g/f ....believe me you get it all, in the same way couples and single guys will.
the genuine advantage we have over the single guys is numbers...oh and great boobs
xx |
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"Single Bi Fems are at the top of the pecking order in the swinging world.
They have offers by the bus-load and can pick and choose at their will.
i dont think thats true tho pearl ..i get rejections as well as offers .. and 95% of offers arent compatible so it puts me with the same odds as most other people.
meeting couples even as a single means you still have to have a 3 way like and many, many people really do feel we arent genuine or will be so up ourselves we'll be horrible. Or they just want to tick a box or for you to convert their g/f ....believe me you get it all, in the same way couples and single guys will.
the genuine advantage we have over the single guys is numbers...oh and great boobs
xx "
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Really? People rejected you??? What hope do the rest of us have???!!! 
I quoted what View once posted about Bi Fems being very popular at parties, however, I could be wrong. |
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"Single Bi Fems are at the top of the pecking order in the swinging world.
They have offers by the bus-load and can pick and choose at their will.
i dont think thats true tho pearl ..i get rejections as well as offers .. and 95% of offers arent compatible so it puts me with the same odds as most other people.
meeting couples even as a single means you still have to have a 3 way like and many, many people really do feel we arent genuine or will be so up ourselves we'll be horrible. Or they just want to tick a box or for you to convert their g/f ....believe me you get it all, in the same way couples and single guys will.
the genuine advantage we have over the single guys is numbers...oh and great boobs
xx
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Really? People rejected you??? What hope do the rest of us have???!!!
I quoted what View once posted about Bi Fems being very popular at parties, however, I could be wrong. "
no its not wrong that we can be very popular at parties, again because i think there are fewer of us ..and at parties you can see the person is real. If you dont meet through parties though, its difficult to get compatible meets. There can be a view also that we'll shag anything that moves !
and hell yes i get rejections ..the week i got three no replies after they'd asked for my picture was a grim one lol !! |
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"Single Bi Fems are at the top of the pecking order in the swinging world.
They have offers by the bus-load and can pick and choose at their will.
i dont think thats true tho pearl ..i get rejections as well as offers .. and 95% of offers arent compatible so it puts me with the same odds as most other people.
meeting couples even as a single means you still have to have a 3 way like and many, many people really do feel we arent genuine or will be so up ourselves we'll be horrible. Or they just want to tick a box or for you to convert their g/f ....believe me you get it all, in the same way couples and single guys will.
the genuine advantage we have over the single guys is numbers...oh and great boobs
xx "
It is fabulous when you really hit it off with though especially when it starts off just being okish lol |
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"and hell yes i get rejections ..the week i got three no replies after they'd asked for my picture was a grim one lol !! "
truly their loss Honey.....maybe you should send pics of your "fruit pastilles" xxx |
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Yeah they are all fake  I saw about 10 if not more on Friday night all having the time of their life (like the rest of us) and not very invisable or is it cos I know them that I could see them?? 
I find I have the problem of "well I will meet you as long as my partner can watch" when I prefer to meet women alone with no men anywhere near. I think its so I dont have to compete with a dick!!!
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah they are all fake I saw about 10 if not more on Friday night all having the time of their life (like the rest of us) and not very invisable or is it cos I know them that I could see them??
Shona
x x x "
ah but you are a unicorn too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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how true...... lol
i wonder how many true (not guys) bi fems are realy looking for fun and why are they single if they are hot?
that's a really odd thing to say ?? There are many reasons someone may be single ..it won't preclude them from being genuine, wanting to meet and hot "
I was thinking the same thing: what a bizzare comment! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single Bi Fems are at the top of the pecking order in the swinging world.
They have offers by the bus-load and can pick and choose at their will.
i dont think thats true tho pearl ..i get rejections as well as offers .. and 95% of offers arent compatible so it puts me with the same odds as most other people.
meeting couples even as a single means you still have to have a 3 way like and many, many people really do feel we arent genuine or will be so up ourselves we'll be horrible. Or they just want to tick a box or for you to convert their g/f ....believe me you get it all, in the same way couples and single guys will.
the genuine advantage we have over the single guys is numbers...oh and great boobs
xx
Another bizzare comment! We won't appeal to everyone! Not everyone finds Kate Moss sexy or Dawn French minging so to be surprised that someone "attractive" has been rejected and wonder where that leaves the plain Janes is downright daft in my opinion!
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Really? People rejected you??? What hope do the rest of us have???!!!
I quoted what View once posted about Bi Fems being very popular at parties, however, I could be wrong. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah they are all fake I saw about 10 if not more on Friday night all having the time of their life (like the rest of us) and not very invisable or is it cos I know them that I could see them??
Shona
x x x
ah but you are a unicorn too! "
You mean that horn is used for something else????
Is that the magic invisable to visable key??
Shona
x x x |
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I'm a single bi fem. I'm single because I choose to be. Whether I'm hot or not is down to the individual perspective.
I don't think I am, but hey, beauty is in the eye of the beholder yadda yadda.
Be careful what you wish for. The last couple I met, I ended up moving in with. In a purely lodger with benefits type of way!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every time someone says, "I don't believe in single bi fems" somewhere in the world, a single bi fem dies 
shit ...... is it your turn ? "
luckily there was a suited and booted donkey close by and as I fell he clapped three times.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every time someone says, "I don't believe in single bi fems" somewhere in the world, a single bi fem dies
shit ...... is it your turn ?
I got a Fab kiss of life tho lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
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It isnt that hard but from my point of view, you are way too far, at least i am within your age range for the next 10 months though yippeee and yes am alll female |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and hell yes i get rejections ..the week i got three no replies after they'd asked for my picture was a grim one lol !! "
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Their frigging loss for not being able to appreciate quality!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi there, you look like a nice couple to me. Im sure youll find a bi fem soon. We have met quite a few single bi fems over the past four years or so, but now also we meet couples with bi fems. however we have only met two bi fems off of here ,if you wish I can give you a web address of two sites you might have better luck with finding single bi women, e mail me and Ill give you the addresses. Kisses ,Luisa
hotlatina at hot mail dot co dot uk
x Luisa |
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"Hi there, you look like a nice couple to me. Im sure youll find a bi fem soon. We have met quite a few single bi fems over the past four years or so, but now also we meet couples with bi fems. however we have only met two bi fems off of here ,if you wish I can give you a web address of two sites you might have better luck with finding single bi women, e mail me and Ill give you the addresses. Kisses ,Luisa
hotlatina at hot mail dot co dot uk
x Luisa"
Hear theres gonna be a couple of stunning Bi Femmes at the April social in Barnsley... |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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"Hi there, you look like a nice couple to me. Im sure youll find a bi fem soon. We have met quite a few single bi fems over the past four years or so, but now also we meet couples with bi fems. however we have only met two bi fems off of here ,if you wish I can give you a web address of two sites you might have better luck with finding single bi women, e mail me and Ill give you the addresses. Kisses ,Luisa
hotlatina at hot mail dot co dot uk
x Luisa
Hear theres gonna be a couple of stunning Bi Femmes at the April social in Barnsley... "
I heard that too! don't tell all though or we might not get a look in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"** whistles**
OK OK I'm looking
Well i have it on good authority 2 of the hottest are attending the Barnsley social on 10th apr but keep it Shhhhhhh"
** whispers** okay..... shhhhhhh |
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