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over a year ago
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When I was a young teenager I wanted to be a journalist
Things happened and since then there has always been curve balls ....
Now I go with the flow - what will be will be |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"im an off roader then. go with the flow  "
Do you have career ambitions? You've mentioned wanting another child... all things that need a little bit of planning, even if that is to take risks and see what happens. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"When I was a young teenager I wanted to be a journalist
Things happened and since then there has always been curve balls ....
Now I go with the flow - what will be will be "
Have you given up on journalism? There's a whole on-line world of people producing content now.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Roll with the flow, I micro manage day to day stuff and plan ahead within certain parameters eg. I book holidays a long way ahead, but career wise I'm a mere pawn, a puppet, a mug.  "
Pawn, puppet and mug - you're a busy person having three roles.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was a young teenager I wanted to be a journalist
Things happened and since then there has always been curve balls ....
Now I go with the flow - what will be will be
Have you given up on journalism? There's a whole on-line world of people producing content now.
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For the time being .. Im learning on the job now and doing other studies
Ill always want to do it so it may be something I pick back up when the other courses have finished. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I try to plan things but it tends to tits up, I have goals that I'm working towards but its not easy so try to go with the flow so its less stressful."
Isn't there a stress in not knowing what is likely to happen? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have your life mapped out, a career plan and milestones? Or do you go go with the flow and make your decisions based on what's presented to you?
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I go with the flow.sort of bumble along in my own happy little way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im an off roader then. go with the flow
Do you have career ambitions? You've mentioned wanting another child... all things that need a little bit of planning, even if that is to take risks and see what happens."
think that just means im a dreamer. They aren't ridgid wants in life.
i had 4 mates all have kids within a matter of days and after lots of photo's on facebook filling my newsfeed and getting cuddles from the new bambino's guess im back to being normal and happy with my one child.
one day in the future id not entirely rule a second one out but im now in the frame of 'if it happens it happens' |
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I always wanted to join the navy when I was younger, joined the sea cadets learned as much as i could. Only to get an eye injury that fucked up my chances, after that I let things happen by themselves and see what happens. |
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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago
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I'm a planner, most things are carefully mapped: day to day affairs, a monthly plan which fits within my yearly plan, and then a 5 year plan which feeds into each year's yearly plan.
That said, I also leave room for flexibility so that I don't miss out on the random, often spontaneous opportunities that head my way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My life never goes according to plan. Theres always something that has to mess everything up...
...i guess for the time being i go with the flow and take each day as it comes.
Although, i do think its time i started doing things for myself rather than being the one who does everything to help others.
I havent planned my life but i know what others have planned and id much rather help them..
(Oops? Getting rather deep there  ) |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm a planner, most things are carefully mapped: day to day affairs, a monthly plan which fits within my yearly plan, and then a 5 year plan which feeds into each year's yearly plan.
That said, I also leave room for flexibility so that I don't miss out on the random, often spontaneous opportunities that head my way "
Absolutely. Planning doesn't mean that you can't let opportunities in when they arise.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"My life never goes according to plan. Theres always something that has to mess everything up...
...i guess for the time being i go with the flow and take each day as it comes.
Although, i do think its time i started doing things for myself rather than being the one who does everything to help others.
I havent planned my life but i know what others have planned and id much rather help them..
(Oops? Getting rather deep there )"
An interesting approach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In life generally I know where I am, what's around me and where I want to be. I trust myself to get there and enjoy the scenery on the way.
Day to day, I plan everything out but only "fix" the key points of the plan, so when it ultimately goes belly up I don't care and end up winging it anyway |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"In life generally I know where I am, what's around me and where I want to be. I trust myself to get there and enjoy the scenery on the way.
Day to day, I plan everything out but only "fix" the key points of the plan, so when it ultimately goes belly up I don't care and end up winging it anyway"
Plans are never fixed until you deliver them. They do provide a handy road map. I think we should all have alternative routes on that map too. A contingency plan isn't a bad thing. |
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