Have any of the bi people on here gone into a "normal" pub and pulled someone of the same sex?
This is something I would like to do, but a bit nervous about meeting the most homophobic guy in the world and his mates.
My bi fem best mate almost did last week, but the lass's boyfriend wasn't impressed and dragged her home.
Oh PS, Halifax has 0 gay pubs or clubs. |
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It's different for females though. Generally (not always) we are quite a tactile species, give us alcohol, and we are even more so.
I've done it numerous times where I've started chatting to a group of girls on nights out, and ended up kissing one. But they are usually 'lipstick lesbians', not gay or even bi, just doing it for the attention it brings from men.
I did once start talking to a girl on the bus, and end up dating her for 4 months. |
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Ive encountered women on nights out who aren't remotely interested in women as such but think it would be ' fun' to kiss a woman - or to please their man
Strange huh 
I think just carry on as you are - be who you are and it will happen if its meant to happen .. don't think its a good idea to start randomly chatting up a man in a bar though |
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"Have any of the bi people on here gone into a "normal" pub and pulled someone of the same sex?
This is something I would like to do, but a bit nervous about meeting the most homophobic guy in the world and his mates.
My bi fem best mate almost did last week, but the lass's boyfriend wasn't impressed and dragged her home.
Oh PS, Halifax has 0 gay pubs or clubs."
Sorry to say you'd probably get your head kicked in round here! |
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I met an ex girlfriend at a nilla event once. Theatre in sheffield but she was very direct & asked me straight out.
People find me 
I must have ' bi sexual horny & something else' stamped on me... Somewhere 
But then i also pulled a bloke in homebase with 3 kids in tow 
Im just approachable in real life / people are sympathetic  |
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"I wouldn't bother in a straight pub. Not unless your gaydar is exceptionally precise.
Well said "
But even if it were , a bi/gay bloke might not appreciate being approached in a normal pub  |
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"I wouldn't bother in a straight pub. Not unless your gaydar is exceptionally precise.
Well said
But even if it were , a bi/gay bloke might not appreciate being approached in a normal pub "
Then, presumably, he'll say so. The same as a straight person might not want to be approached in tesco. In my book you take your chances where you can. |
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