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One or t'other...a question for the ladies
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've often heard said that male confidence is a huge aphrodisiac, so ladies, whom would you prefer to meet, a great looking guy who was shy, timid and quiet, or a guy who wasn't much to look at, but had buckets of confidence (meaning self belief, a can-do attitude, a smile on his face and a swagger in his step - not an arrogant prat).
...and yes I'm sure that an ideal mix of both looks and confidence would probably be the best, I'm just curious as to which attribute is deemed more attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hmmm tough, i actually like shy quiet types. That given time will open up
but then i also like men with character and personality that are confident.
think ultimately the 2nd option though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely the latter. No amount of confidence would help with guys that I really can't stand, but guys that aren't necessarily my type can become super sexy with a decent chunk of confidence... |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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think u might have done this the wrong way around as in its nearly always the good looking guy that has the confidance and the swagger and maybe a bit of cockiness.where as the ordinary guy is quite and shy until u get to no him , this is our tuppence worth  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"think u might have done this the wrong way around as in its nearly always the good looking guy that has the confidance and the swagger and maybe a bit of cockiness.where as the ordinary guy is quite and shy until u get to no him , this is our tuppence worth "
Nearly but not always. I asked the question because its not uncommon to see a great looking woman with a guy who hasn't much in the way of looks, and it makes me wonder if they're together simply because he was the only one with the nerve to ask her out? |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"think u might have done this the wrong way around as in its nearly always the good looking guy that has the confidance and the swagger and maybe a bit of cockiness.where as the ordinary guy is quite and shy until u get to no him , this is our tuppence worth
Nearly but not always. I asked the question because its not uncommon to see a great looking woman with a guy who hasn't much in the way of looks, and it makes me wonder if they're together simply because he was the only one with the nerve to ask her out?"
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or maybe he is loaded  .
but on a serious note, isnt beauty in the eye of the beholder and thats what makes the world go around |
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"think u might have done this the wrong way around as in its nearly always the good looking guy that has the confidance and the swagger and maybe a bit of cockiness.where as the ordinary guy is quite and shy until u get to no him , this is our tuppence worth
Nearly but not always. I asked the question because its not uncommon to see a great looking woman with a guy who hasn't much in the way of looks, and it makes me wonder if they're together simply because he was the only one with the nerve to ask her out?"
Or maybe she knew him from work/school/through friends and he's a great guy although he might not be considered good looking, I've been out with guys before that I wouldn't of looked twice at in a club or pub but I've gotten to know them and found out they are really lovely blokes so after a while the fact they aren't my usual type doesn't matter. |
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