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over a year ago
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If I see somebody of interest and don't have time to message I wink them, sometimes you get a reply sometimes not, but I've had some meets that originated from a cheeky wink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry we dont pay any attention to them.
I will have a quick look but I'm the male and it's mostly men that send them, they just dont tickle my fancy 
If I'm sharing her with a fella, I want him to be able to chat/laugh with us both, not just give me a wink over her backside
She is the first to say we all have to have banter and get on, otherwise she can go into her toybox  |
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"Also if they aren't a site supporter, they cant see who has sent them"
You can see who has sent them even if you are not a site supporter. My best friends aren't site supporters and they check their winks and have had a few meets of the back of them.
I don't check my winks. I currently have about 250 sat there. I'll go in and bulk delete at some point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do winks actually work? I mean does females or couple take any notice of them."
Always have a look at the winkers (snigger) and wink back if interested.
Some folk seem offended at winks but I've always assumed them to be a stealthy hello and sign of interest.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes winks work for some. I've met many lovely people that started as a wink. If people are that easily offended/annoyed by a wink then I wouldn't be interested in meeting them. |
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I like to wink in the internet and IRL.
I find it useful to tell people that I like them when I can't be arsed to speak to them. 
As an aside if you become a Platinum Site Supporter you are not restricted one wink a month. Sometimes I can wink at a person thousands of times a day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind winks so much, like them even more if they're followed up with a message
If some winks at us and we like what we see, I'll often wink back letting them know the "ball" is now in "their court"
No harm in a wink for the most part |
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"Do winks actually work? I mean does females or couple take any notice of them."
They're a bit hit or miss - occasionally I will check out the profile if the avatar looks good and maybe wink back, but a message gets my attention better, and then I'll know what the wink actually means too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look at their profile. If I like it I reply.
If they wink when my profile is just a dot I ask them why on earth they winked at me. Some people just wink everyone regardless in the hope of a reaction.  |
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