We introduced ourselves to swinging by visiting a club. We were asked to "play" and we hear it used all the time in clubs now so I think we have just gone along with the term.
Men usually say "do you want to play with my mrs?" I don't mind what its referred to though. I get the jist... 
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"Sounds better then making love maybe ,  "
To us swinging isn't making love( that only happens between people that love each other)meeting for sex just doesn't sound as naughty as playing with someone , don't ask us why lol |
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"Sounds better then making love maybe ,
To us swinging isn't making love( that only happens between people that love each other)meeting for sex just doesn't sound as naughty as playing with someone , don't ask us why lol "
would feel weird a person come up at a club say lets go make love , lol x if you never really new them . |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Why do us swingers refer to sex as playing? where did this come from and what would be an alternative?"
Same reason why people describe it as 'naughty fun'
I once made a word up in scrabble and got 87 points, heh.  |
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"I don't know really but I started to use this as the term too as it seems to be he lingo.
Think of it as my leisure time activity and the same as a game of golf to others."
Don't know about that, go to whack my balls with a 9 iron and I definitely wouldn't think of it as 'playing'... ouch  |
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"Sounds better then making love maybe ,
Sex ...thats better than making love "
Ewwwww! I hate the term 'making love'. Makes me think of slow boring sex with the lights off.  |
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