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I once visited a local couple, where photos of the lady had been very misleading indeed and nothing like her; she was only what could be described as mountainous ...with poor hygiene and a foul mouth.
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mostly we have been pleasantly surprised. We have on another site, met a gent who was considerably older than his picture, he sent a snap of him with glossy black hair and turned up completely grey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have seen pics that were, to say the least, unflattering, only to meet the person at a social to see that they were actually very attractive. Some people are just not very photogenic! |
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over a year ago
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One girl came to my hotel room...was nothing like the photo, she had had been working all day and had not washed, her finger nails were filthy and she tramped mud all over the carpet it was a horrible experience.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One girl came to my hotel room...was nothing like the photo, she had had been working all day and had not washed, her finger nails were filthy and she tramped mud all over the carpet it was a horrible experience. "
please tell me you refused any advances she made |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only 1 person didn't match their pictures, and that was a single guy years ago!
Have to say that everyone else that we have met have been just like or even better than their pictures  |
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"mostly we have been pleasantly surprised. We have on another site, met a gent who was considerably older than his picture, he sent a snap of him with glossy black hair and turned up completely grey "
I think I met this guy too!! Must have been 15 years before the pic I got!
Also met a guy who weighed probably 5 stone more than his pics
But then met another guy who takes awful pics but really cute in person
Pics can be misleading either way |
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By *ent57Man
over a year ago
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"mostly we have been pleasantly surprised. We have on another site, met a gent who was considerably older than his picture, he sent a snap of him with glossy black hair and turned up completely grey
I think I met this guy too!! Must have been 15 years before the pic I got!
Also met a guy who weighed probably 5 stone more than his pics
But then met another guy who takes awful pics but really cute in person
Pics can be misleading either way"
Had a similar experience with a lady who I met ... I don't know who the pics were of... perhaps her... but 15 years and 5 stone earlier... I felt as if I'd been conned!
But agree that face pics are deceiving ... mines not on here cos I look sooooo serious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only had one person who has looked fairly worse in her pictures, was at a group social though so wasn't a major deal, we weren't potentially going to play. |
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"We all like looking at pics but just wondering what's your best / worst pic to reality experience?
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On a dating site I used to use I met a guy who had put on at least 10stone since his pics were taken...I made my excuses.  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"We all like looking at pics but just wondering what's your best / worst pic to reality experience?
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Once met a woman who's pictures showed her as white. I turned up at her doorstep, and she's black - have to say I wondered if I had the right house.
Had another who's pictures we're extremely posed - only to meet them, and be greeted at the door by a guy in a wife beater! I shit you not ! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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All of our photos are very recent and although we try to make them as sensuous and erotic as we can they are honest representations of us (as our veris show). We don't think that anyone has been disappointed when they have met us, but would fully understand if we didn't meet their particular expectations. We cant understand why anyone would purposely be dishonest with their photographs. Surely any dishonesty will be picked up at the first meet and be a waste of everyone's time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never been disappointed. Everyone has always looked even more attractive in person. "
+1 bar one man who didn't look quite as good as in his pics but nothing that major I wanted to do a runner at the first opportunity I got! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most people have been better looking than their photos. I'm the opposite.
Me too. I warn people of this in advance as well before I meet them. "
Yup, ditto although they always think it's fishing for compliments  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm always sold on someone's character . Looks are a bonus if they are better than the pics . I never go to a meet expecting to be bowled over by looks . It's not why I swing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hence why we always Do socials first. That way all parties have the chance to back out. I think I take a good photo and worry I don't look as good in the flesh |
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i met a guy for a social meet from a different site looked really nice from his pic and usually i have a great gut instinct i wasnt entirely sure but thought id go ahead with it... saw him pulling up in his car and thought oh no how can i get out of this.. he was about 3 stone heavier with a big huge beard... anyway we chatted but there just wasnt that spark so i made an excuse that i had a headache and he left but before doing so he asked me for a kiss.. i was near crying but felt bad so i gave him a peck to which he came at me full on tongue the lot  |
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"All of our photos are very recent and although we try to make them as sensuous and erotic as we can they are honest representations of us (as our veris show). We don't think that anyone has been disappointed when they have met us, but would fully understand if we didn't meet their particular expectations. We cant understand why anyone would purposely be dishonest with their photographs. Surely any dishonesty will be picked up at the first meet and be a waste of everyone's time." Your pics are fab  |
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im not too botherd by looks as i dont actually fancy guys anyway. as long as theyre clean with a working cock im happy.tho i do ,of course , want to see who im meeting.
however.. some have turned up and theyve been surprisingly fat ,a big turn off 4 me . no mention of it in their profile so now i have to ask outright if im not sure |
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Went on a social a little while ago, pics were exchanged prior to meeting mine all within the last few months I said. He sent me a pic of face then a body pic hmmm ok not my usual type but give guy a chance, friendly x polite. Turned up to meet him to be greeted by an old duffer! When I picked my jaw up from the floor and managed to utter the words 'your not @#@#@#'! He replies yes I am, he then says pics I sent u are 20 yrs old x I'm sorry I made a typing error I'm actually 68! Not 49 !!! Well this angel fluttered her wings back on the next train to the Wirral. .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do worry that my pics might over flatter me, after all no one would post a pic of themselves that they thought was unflattering. That's more of a confidence thing though. However I've never been disappointed with anyone I've met, although one guy didn't look much like his pic but everyone else has been way better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not very photogenic so what you get in theflesh us a bruccie bonus "
Nor am I, I take a terrible pic, everyone I meet tells me I look better in real life
I've met a few guys who don't quite look like their pics none that have been overly bad though, like 20 years old or 10 stone ago just sometimes in a different light people look different |
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"All of our photos are very recent and although we try to make them as sensuous and erotic as we can they are honest representations of us (as our veris show). We don't think that anyone has been disappointed when they have met us, but would fully understand if we didn't meet their particular expectations. We cant understand why anyone would purposely be dishonest with their photographs. Surely any dishonesty will be picked up at the first meet and be a waste of everyone's time." Because they are hoping no one will notice the difference and they`ll think oh well we`re here now so lets just get on with it. We have had a couple of meets where the guys looked nothing like their pics just told them straight that they need to update their pics and said goodbye
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Went on a social a little while ago, pics were exchanged prior to meeting mine all within the last few months I said. He sent me a pic of face then a body pic hmmm ok not my usual type but give guy a chance, friendly x polite. Turned up to meet him to be greeted by an old duffer! When I picked my jaw up from the floor and managed to utter the words 'your not @#@#@#'! He replies yes I am, he then says pics I sent u are 20 yrs old x I'm sorry I made a typing error I'm actually 68! Not 49 !!! Well this angel fluttered her wings back on the next train to the Wirral. .... "
What a nightmare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the biggest fraud was a guy that had a picture of a ripped 6 pack and a Nice big cock. The guy turned up was 20 years older and had a scar on his tummy so clearly he'd used someone else's picture.
Luckily for him he was tooled up with some nice massage oils and Mrs N needed some extra cock anyway so he got away with it. That was definitely his lucky day LOL. |
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