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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Comment if you must PM me if u want lol. I need to say this as I'vd come to realise after a wonderful meet the other week that at times I was self conscious about being fat basically. BUT
It dawned me my weight goes up and down but my damn belly doesn't leave me lol and I've been with women curvy and slim and they couldn't care less about my fat ass so why do I kick myself. They enjoyed themselves with ME
So FUCK YOU TO ALL THOSE OUT THERE WHO JUDGE BY WEIGHT AND COLOUR AND RACE ETC ETC OR WHAT EVER LOL MRZAMBIQUE DON'T CARE I care about me being happy and pleasing who ever wants to get pleasure from me  (plus I've worked out somewhat how to use my cock and tongue correctly as I've told) lol I am happy and confident to fuck whoever wants to play with me
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Where not all going to appeal to everyone and then there are others we will appeal too. Instead of ranting about the ones I don't appeal to I concentrate on the ones that I do appeal to.
You can't really rant about people having preferences
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just in my opinion everyone should feel that way tbh and here esp on fab not be put off by their weight race or anything else for that matter if someone is attractive the go for it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where not all going to appeal to everyone and then there are others we will appeal too. Instead of ranting about the ones I don't appeal to I concentrate on the ones that I do appeal to.
You can't really rant about people having preferences
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Please don't get me wrong I too have preferences what I'm trying to say is here on fab I've heard of people being upset or even bullied etc for whatever reasons and I'm just saying people are here to have fun and be happy in some form or another well that's the way I see it I may be wrong if I am my apologies. |
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"Where not all going to appeal to everyone and then there are others we will appeal too. Instead of ranting about the ones I don't appeal to I concentrate on the ones that I do appeal to.
You can't really rant about people having preferences
Please don't get me wrong I too have preferences what I'm trying to say is here on fab I've heard of people being upset or even bullied etc for whatever reasons and I'm just saying people are here to have fun and be happy in some form or another well that's the way I see it I may be wrong if I am my apologies. "
I agree everyone is here to have fun, but people are also going to have preferences and I thought your op was very aggressive which would put me off you more than what you looked like
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Where not all going to appeal to everyone and then there are others we will appeal too. Instead of ranting about the ones I don't appeal to I concentrate on the ones that I do appeal to.
You can't really rant about people having preferences
Please don't get me wrong I too have preferences what I'm trying to say is here on fab I've heard of people being upset or even bullied etc for whatever reasons and I'm just saying people are here to have fun and be happy in some form or another well that's the way I see it I may be wrong if I am my apologies. I agree everyone is here to have fun, but people are also going to have preferences and I thought your op was very aggressive which would put me off you more than what you looked like
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Well I'm not out to offend anyone so my apologies to you if you took offence to it hun. Please note I did say judgement on people rather than preferences. |
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"Where not all going to appeal to everyone and then there are others we will appeal too. Instead of ranting about the ones I don't appeal to I concentrate on the ones that I do appeal to.
You can't really rant about people having preferences
Please don't get me wrong I too have preferences what I'm trying to say is here on fab I've heard of people being upset or even bullied etc for whatever reasons and I'm just saying people are here to have fun and be happy in some form or another well that's the way I see it I may be wrong if I am my apologies. I agree everyone is here to have fun, but people are also going to have preferences and I thought your op was very aggressive which would put me off you more than what you looked like
Well I'm not out to offend anyone so my apologies to you if you took offence to it hun. Please note I did say judgement on people rather than preferences. "
I didn't take offence |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It sounds like you have the issue with your weight and shape, not others.
Own it. Do not let it own you !"
Tbh I'm fine with it just I've been sat here pondering over it lol and I just came to I am happy as I am as despite what I do nothing changes me lol I've been big most my adult life. Oh trust me I've had people whose had a prob with my weight and shape despite shagging me saying you're fat but I'll still sleep with you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have every right to judge people because they (including you) do the same to me/others. Don't be nieve its an every day fact. People do it without even realising. We have evolved to be so and there is nothing you can do to change that.
The only thing you can change is your thoughts. Understand that only you can let people make you feel bad. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where not all going to appeal to everyone and then there are others we will appeal too. Instead of ranting about the ones I don't appeal to I concentrate on the ones that I do appeal to.
You can't really rant about people having preferences
Please don't get me wrong I too have preferences what I'm trying to say is here on fab I've heard of people being upset or even bullied etc for whatever reasons and I'm just saying people are here to have fun and be happy in some form or another well that's the way I see it I may be wrong if I am my apologies. I agree everyone is here to have fun, but people are also going to have preferences and I thought your op was very aggressive which would put me off you more than what you looked like
Well I'm not out to offend anyone so my apologies to you if you took offence to it hun. Please note I did say judgement on people rather than preferences. I didn't take offence"
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"It sounds like you have the issue with your weight and shape, not others.
Own it. Do not let it own you !
Tbh I'm fine with it just I've been sat here pondering over it lol and I just came to I am happy as I am as despite what I do nothing changes me lol I've been big most my adult life. Oh trust me I've had people whose had a prob with my weight and shape despite shagging me saying you're fat but I'll still sleep with you lol "
You said in your OP that you kick yourself over it. I agree with whoever it was further up that said it sounds more like your issue than anyone else's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP everyone has issues with themselves and know one is truly happy with how we look. We can't also expect others to either but that doesn't mean you should let it get you down.
Everyone has a type or a preference. If your aren't one persons you'll certainly be another's.
Try and remember to be confident in what you can offer and don't dwell on the things you can't.
Besides not everyone likes slim guys or guys with 6 packs and muscles. Some woman love a bit of meat, or love a big guy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It sounds like you have the issue with your weight and shape, not others.
Own it. Do not let it own you !
Tbh I'm fine with it just I've been sat here pondering over it lol and I just came to I am happy as I am as despite what I do nothing changes me lol I've been big most my adult life. Oh trust me I've had people whose had a prob with my weight and shape despite shagging me saying you're fat but I'll still sleep with you lol
You said in your OP that you kick yourself over it. I agree with whoever it was further up that said it sounds more like your issue than anyone else's. "
I was before I'm not now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP everyone has issues with themselves and know one is truly happy with how we look. We can't also expect others to either but that doesn't mean you should let it get you down.
Everyone has a type or a preference. If your aren't one persons you'll certainly be another's.
Try and remember to be confident in what you can offer and don't dwell on the things you can't.
Besides not everyone likes slim guys or guys with 6 packs and muscles. Some woman love a bit of meat, or love a big guy"
Thanks you I think you understand where I'm coming from |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies and gentleman ease accept my apologies if my OP was somewhat aggressive in some of my wording if I caused ANY offence again my apologies like I said it was bit of a rant.
I should've said in reflection is never judge a book by its cover.
We all have a preferences of our "books" but take the time to actually read it rather than look just on the outside. Hope that makes sense |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Ladies and gentleman ease accept my apologies if my OP was somewhat aggressive in some of my wording if I caused ANY offence again my apologies like I said it was bit of a rant.
I should've said in reflection is never judge a book by its cover.
We all have a preferences of our "books" but take the time to actually read it rather than look just on the outside. Hope that makes sense "
I look at looks first and then see if we get on after that. You cant force people to chat to others they don't fancy,
I agree with others though, your OP is aggressive |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I actually like guys that I would describe as robust, its not very often I'm attracted to guys with six pack bodies although they can look nice
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What's the robust look lol? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ladies and gentleman ease accept my apologies if my OP was somewhat aggressive in some of my wording if I caused ANY offence again my apologies like I said it was bit of a rant.
I should've said in reflection is never judge a book by its cover.
We all have a preferences of our "books" but take the time to actually read it rather than look just on the outside. Hope that makes sense
I look at looks first and then see if we get on after that. You cant force people to chat to others they don't fancy,
I agree with others though, your OP is aggressive"
I knooo and I said I'm sorry  |
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"I actually like guys that I would describe as robust, its not very often I'm attracted to guys with six pack bodies although they can look nice
What's the robust look lol? "
with a bit of meat on them
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I actually like guys that I would describe as robust, its not very often I'm attracted to guys with six pack bodies although they can look nice
What's the robust look lol? "
sounds better than short n fat im robust |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I actually like guys that I would describe as robust, its not very often I'm attracted to guys with six pack bodies although they can look nice
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Did I mention I got a 6pack? |
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"I actually like guys that I would describe as robust, its not very often I'm attracted to guys with six pack bodies although they can look nice
Did I mention I got a 6pack? "
well it goes without saying I'm attracted to you shag |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I actually like guys that I would describe as robust, its not very often I'm attracted to guys with six pack bodies although they can look nice
Did I mention I got a 6pack? "
I don't think so...maybe mention it now so everyone can see  |
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Maybe your OP shouldn't have focused on weight, because it should be directed at judgmental people in general, for whatever they judge others on.
There are a lot of those on fab, but they shouldn't get compared to those who have sexual preferences or preferences regarding physical attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I should've said in reflection is never judge a book by its cover.
We all have a preferences of our "books" but take the time to actually read it rather than look just on the outside. Hope that makes sense "
On here if the cover doesn't take my fancy I won't waste time reading the book  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I should've said in reflection is never judge a book by its cover.
We all have a preferences of our "books" but take the time to actually read it rather than look just on the outside. Hope that makes sense
On here if the cover doesn't take my fancy I won't waste time reading the book "
I can agree with you there if based on attractions that I understand |
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