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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?
Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications. "
Could always have a lengthy fuck over the works of the oxford publications  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications.
Could always have a lengthy fuck over the works of the oxford publications "
They'd dig in the worst places though, some of them books is hardback.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?
Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on. "
Not at all...I would not meet someone who not on a similar intellectual level as myself... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications.
Could always have a lengthy fuck over the works of the oxford publications
They'd dig in the worst places though, some of them books is hardback. "
And imagine the sticky end eeewwww  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a rule about it on my profile. Can't stand bad grammar and spelling. It just looks sloppy."
That's good to know. I think similar minds attract.
What made me post this was that I read a story earlier that could have been very sexy but was just badly written! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?
Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on. "
And text speak in messages is an instant turn off... |
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My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications. "
You used the term discourse! Damn I want to fuck you now! |
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"I totez gree wi dis shit, bad spelin is sick init xxx"
bless up init, it is shit especially when we peeps fail 2 realise dat not every person on earth will have d same educational priviledges or tingz like d fortunate ones and we judge dem and get turned off by dem 4 dat. I bet text speak will be next on the platform |
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"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications.
You used the term discourse! Damn I want to fuck you now! "
You most definitely don't  |
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"Nah, we want to fuck some of the people here not have lengthy discourse over the works of Oxford publications. "
Really? How weird. Much more fun discussing the correct usage of "are", "our" and "hour" not to mention "your" and "you're"; "there", "their" and "they're".
You clearly just don't know how to really enjoy yourselves. !;  |
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"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?
Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on.
And text speak in messages is an instant turn off..."
? text speak in itself is a form of shorthand writing, the person textspeaking is expressing himself in his or her own natural way combining and ommiting certain letters with numbers. He is genuinely trying to make contact. How can that be a turn off ? I think text speak is clever and futuristic, as long as you can atleast attempt to decode it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The sad truth probably is they just do not know they are getting it wrong. They blame dyslexia, laziness and even those that point it out to them.
However, in the end, if they do not know the difference between common words like "accept" and "except", "there","they're" and "their", and put "no" instead of "know" it indicates the schooling ststem has failed them.
I also do not believe they write correctly elsewhere and not on Fab because this is a casual sex site. Sadly, they just don't know and we should make allowances for them. |
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"My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write "
You may be right but to a lot it just looks like you can't be arsed to make the effort. And if you're not making the effort in what you write what else might you not be willing to make the effort in. Not a personal attack on you but just something to consider. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've stimulated a few peoples minds and spelling and grammar are a weak point of mine. Neither have anything to do with someones mind, character or imagination. I also suspect that there are many people who could turn the OP on who can't spell or punctuate badly.What do you do OP in that situation ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really just cant be bothered with anyone that thinks theyre a cut above everyone else...I've written many essays in my time...but as long as people generally know whats being talked about I cant see why a potential meetup with someone cant get to the face to face meet or telephone conversation.
Some of these grammar nazi's sound like those folk that pretend they cant understand a foreign accent speaking english. |
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over a year ago
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*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.
in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.
in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well."
Paddy does this mean me asking potential meets to pass an English exam before I shag them is the reason why I don't ever get a shag  |
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"My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write
You may be right but to a lot it just looks like you can't be arsed to make the effort. And if you're not making the effort in what you write what else might you not be willing to make the effort in. Not a personal attack on you but just something to consider."
maybe its about time you change your prejudged mindset about people who get their spelling wrong then init. As people have pointed out, they could ve dislexic or even worse could be they were typing fast and didnt have time to go through their text to correct any misspellings. Errors in a sentence shouldnt be a basis to judge wether they are lazy or what they will be like in bed, thats like saying most of the uneducated and under priviledged have very low sex drive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.
in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well.
Paddy does this mean me asking potential meets to pass an English exam before I shag them is the reason why I don't ever get a shag "
its only an oral exam thats needed darlin lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.
in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well.
Paddy does this mean me asking potential meets to pass an English exam before I shag them is the reason why I don't ever get a shag
its only an oral exam thats needed darlin lol x"
I is good at oral I is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.
in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well.
Paddy does this mean me asking potential meets to pass an English exam before I shag them is the reason why I don't ever get a shag
its only an oral exam thats needed darlin lol x
I is good at oral I is "
wiping the spoonk off ma keyboard already just imagining it |
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"*just to add..I think its pretty insulting to many intelligent enough people..who simply dont care that much how they spell or punctuate as long as it is legible.
in short...a grammar nazi can fuck off, if they think belittling others shows themselves off well.
Paddy does this mean me asking potential meets to pass an English exam before I shag them is the reason why I don't ever get a shag
its only an oral exam thats needed darlin lol x
I is good at oral I is "
Mi cocky antenna is beeping and pointing your way now |
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"My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write
You may be right but to a lot it just looks like you can't be arsed to make the effort. And if you're not making the effort in what you write what else might you not be willing to make the effort in. Not a personal attack on you but just something to consider.
maybe its about time you change your prejudged mindset about people who get their spelling wrong then init. As people have pointed out, they could ve dislexic or even worse could be they were typing fast and didnt have time to go through their text to correct any misspellings. Errors in a sentence shouldnt be a basis to judge wether they are lazy or what they will be like in bed, thats like saying most of the uneducated and under priviledged have very low sex drive "
I think you should get of your high horse and re read what I actually said. I didn't say it was what I thought, I said it was what some do think. I'm well aware that some people maybe be dyslexic and have to put more effort in to getting their spelling and punctuation correct. I'm also well aware that that does not mean they are stupid.
The reason why I'm aware of these things is because I'm dyslexic myself. I didn't learn to read properly until I was over 11 and writing game even later.
Don't jump to speedy conclusions before you've actually read properly what a person has written. |
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"My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write
You may be right but to a lot it just looks like you can't be arsed to make the effort. And if you're not making the effort in what you write what else might you not be willing to make the effort in. Not a personal attack on you but just something to consider.
maybe its about time you change your prejudged mindset about people who get their spelling wrong then init. As people have pointed out, they could ve dislexic or even worse could be they were typing fast and didnt have time to go through their text to correct any misspellings. Errors in a sentence shouldnt be a basis to judge wether they are lazy or what they will be like in bed, thats like saying most of the uneducated and under priviledged have very low sex drive
I think you should get of your high horse and re read what I actually said. I didn't say it was what I thought, I said it was what some do think. I'm well aware that some people maybe be dyslexic and have to put more effort in to getting their spelling and punctuation correct. I'm also well aware that that does not mean they are stupid.
The reason why I'm aware of these things is because I'm dyslexic myself. I didn't learn to read properly until I was over 11 and writing game even later.
Don't jump to speedy conclusions before you've actually read properly what a person has written."
Lol you are confusing tho, first you support the notion and den you go against it and now you trying to defending it. Make up your mind |
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"My spelling and grammar are poor and i think its unfair to judge somone on it im a really respectful genuine guy who loves to pleasure women i have a partner who has excellent grammer and spelling. Im sute there are guys out there who can spell well and have great grammer who are only out for themselves and they would get more attention over thw the way they write
You may be right but to a lot it just looks like you can't be arsed to make the effort. And if you're not making the effort in what you write what else might you not be willing to make the effort in. Not a personal attack on you but just something to consider.
maybe its about time you change your prejudged mindset about people who get their spelling wrong then init. As people have pointed out, they could ve dislexic or even worse could be they were typing fast and didnt have time to go through their text to correct any misspellings. Errors in a sentence shouldnt be a basis to judge wether they are lazy or what they will be like in bed, thats like saying most of the uneducated and under priviledged have very low sex drive
I think you should get of your high horse and re read what I actually said. I didn't say it was what I thought, I said it was what some do think. I'm well aware that some people maybe be dyslexic and have to put more effort in to getting their spelling and punctuation correct. I'm also well aware that that does not mean they are stupid.
The reason why I'm aware of these things is because I'm dyslexic myself. I didn't learn to read properly until I was over 11 and writing game even later.
Don't jump to speedy conclusions before you've actually read properly what a person has written.
Lol you are confusing tho, first you support the notion and den you go against it and now you trying to defending it. Make up your mind"
The first post was sarcastic.
The second post was a joke.
The third post was serious and unfortunately true, many people will judge a person by how they write. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?
Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on.
And text speak in messages is an instant turn off...
? text speak in itself is a form of shorthand writing, the person textspeaking is expressing himself in his or her own natural way combining and ommiting certain letters with numbers. He is genuinely trying to make contact. How can that be a turn off ? I think text speak is clever and futuristic, as long as you can atleast attempt to decode it "
My very intelligent Oxford English degree holding friend sends me texts saying I want to fuck u. I forgive him,he has a big cock  |
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"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?
Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on.
And text speak in messages is an instant turn off...
? text speak in itself is a form of shorthand writing, the person textspeaking is expressing himself in his or her own natural way combining and ommiting certain letters with numbers. He is genuinely trying to make contact. How can that be a turn off ? I think text speak is clever and futuristic, as long as you can atleast attempt to decode it
My very intelligent Oxford English degree holding friend sends me texts saying I want to fuck u. I forgive him,he has a big cock "  |
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For as long as I can understand the information they are trying to pass through then it's really not a problem for me except when it happens too often. I do review my messages most times, but we all make mistakes sometimes (mostly autocorrect for me). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Op i found this sentence on your profile.
It looks incorrect to me.
"I'm not pushy and respectful of those who I meet wishes." "
It's missing a comma. I actually don't mind small mistakes it's more about those who don't make any effort at all.
As someone else pointed out, I'm sure that there are people who's grammar and spelling are very bad but could turn me on if we met. I have no doubt that would be the case but my original point is that I'm less likely to start conversing with someone who doesn't bother with making an effort on either.
It's at least generated some interesting conversation and debate. That's part of the reason the forum is here. |
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Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on. "
You are in fact correct, however people with less than the most perfect grammar and spelling are equally capable of having and using an erotic mind..
to assume otherwise is short sighted.. |
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"Am I alone in finding it a turn off when people write stuff with appalling grammar and spelling?
Personally I think that the mind is the biggest erogenous zone and to stimulate it is the absolute best way to turn someone on.
And text speak in messages is an instant turn off...
? text speak in itself is a form of shorthand writing, the person textspeaking is expressing himself in his or her own natural way combining and ommiting certain letters with numbers. He is genuinely trying to make contact. How can that be a turn off ? I think text speak is clever and futuristic, as long as you can atleast attempt to decode it "
Crap...it is pure laziness on the writers part... |
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