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By *oopy097 OP Man
over a year ago
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"This is why I warn people in advance I look better in photos. Saves some of the look of sheer disappointment. I quite like doggie style anyway, which helps.
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dont know what you're on about your are HOT!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a good day when it comes to pictures so I would hope I look better in person, And judging by the people I have seen of this site they have all looked better in person,
I hope that doesn't come across as a insult 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I would fuck her, the hole is the goal not the look
Or another way to put it shag,
You don't look at the mantelpiece while poking the fire 
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lol that's right, look up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a woman in the US many years ago from a similar site. She had sent me someone elses photos. I bought her pizza and despite the fact she was quite attractive didn't feel inclined to fuck her at all. I'm not even sure why! |
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By *rc83Man
over a year ago
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"I don't have a good day when it comes to pictures so I would hope I look better in person, And judging by the people I have seen of this site they have all looked better in person,
I hope that doesn't come across as a insult
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I agree on this, I'm not very photogenic. |
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"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.  "
I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always have a quick coffee social with guys first. If I don't fancy them I'll just talk about really wanting a boyfriend and how I'm not over my ex and if they still aren't put off by that I'll say that I don't think I'm ready yet to be meeting people. I always try and leave things with them thinking I'm a fruitcake and that they've had a lucky escape. I have massive issues with rejection and I never want to be someone who makes anyone feel bad about themselves even for a second. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.
I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step."
Don't have a web can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always have a quick coffee social with guys first. If I don't fancy them I'll just talk about really wanting a boyfriend and how I'm not over my ex and if they still aren't put off by that I'll say that I don't think I'm ready yet to be meeting people. I always try and leave things with them thinking I'm a fruitcake and that they've had a lucky escape. I have massive issues with rejection and I never want to be someone who makes anyone feel bad about themselves even for a second. "
But you have just give your game away 
You will have to meet people who don't use the forums now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've lost count of the number of times we've said no thanks . Some pics are simply nothing like the reality and we certainly won't ever take one for the team . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.
I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step."
I don't go on cam, I'm not proving myself to anyone. Would rather a quick social meet if I want to know how I get on with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fuck them anyway, i'll usually find something attractive about them and i was horny so that's why i invited them round.
If they obviously tried to trick me into meeting using old pics then i don't want to fuck them and don't, hasn't happened often that though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.
I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step.
Don't have a web can "
You do. You're on a smartphone to access this site so you can webcam on that. |
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"I had 1 woman send me a pic of her doughter. 150 mile drive 5 mins in threw the door 150 mile back home at worp speed
Ah dammit, I can't use that trick now!  "
I wasn't going to let on it was you but hey if you don't mind then  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.
I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step.
Don't have a web can "
Neither do I. I do warn people that I have had people run away once they've seen me.
I haven't had any men that I haven't been able to recognise but some were taken at least a decade ago. Deception doesn't sit well with me so it's a no.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I would fuck her, the hole is the goal not the look
In the list of 'shagism's' is that one above if they bring Haribo's they're a keeper..?
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YEs that's right, but we will have half each of the bag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A quick social meet first and play if all goes well. Quite happy to say I've changed my mind and don't mind if they've changed their mind either. It's never happened as I'm normally pretty sure before I meet people.
Oh, and I do have a webcam but don't/won't use it. My choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always have a quick coffee social with guys first. If I don't fancy them I'll just talk about really wanting a boyfriend and how I'm not over my ex and if they still aren't put off by that I'll say that I don't think I'm ready yet to be meeting people. I always try and leave things with them thinking I'm a fruitcake and that they've had a lucky escape. I have massive issues with rejection and I never want to be someone who makes anyone feel bad about themselves even for a second.
But you have just give your game away
You will have to meet people who don't use the forums now
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There's probably less than 10% of guys on here I would meet, doubt even 1% of them use the forums!
(There are handsome people on the forums just not local enough to me that's why they aren't included in my percentage estimations)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.
I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step.
Don't have a web can
You do. You're on a smartphone to access this site so you can webcam on that."
Think you can only watch cams not broadcast so that wouldn't be fair. I haven't needed to use cam anyway. I do a social and wouldn't play if there was no attraction. They always know it's a social anyway. |
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"Always have a quick coffee social with guys first. If I don't fancy them I'll just talk about really wanting a boyfriend and how I'm not over my ex and if they still aren't put off by that I'll say that I don't think I'm ready yet to be meeting people. I always try and leave things with them thinking I'm a fruitcake and that they've had a lucky escape. I have massive issues with rejection and I never want to be someone who makes anyone feel bad about themselves even for a second.
But you have just give your game away
You will have to meet people who don't use the forums now
There's probably less than 10% of guys on here I would meet, doubt even 1% of them use the forums!
(There are handsome people on the forums just not local enough to me that's why they aren't included in my percentage estimations)
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Wales isn't that far  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.
I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step.
I don't go on cam, I'm not proving myself to anyone. Would rather a quick social meet if I want to know how I get on with them. "
This. I have a social first. Never had anyone who didn't look like their pics but with some I've known there was no chance of anything physical happening even if they've been nice & we've had a good laugh together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't meet anyone withut speaking to them on webcam first so there's no surprises for me.
I dont understand why anyone would meet without checking out on cam first. Seems the most logical step.
Don't have a web can
You do. You're on a smartphone to access this site so you can webcam on that.
Think you can only watch cams not broadcast so that wouldn't be fair. I haven't needed to use cam anyway. I do a social and wouldn't play if there was no attraction. They always know it's a social anyway. "
You can download skype for free and use it for free both ways on your phone. Incase you decide you needed it. |
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"so i was wondering what people do when they turn up to a meet and the photo was obviously on a VERY good day?
do you say "no thanks..." or just crack on and think of England? "
Always start with a non-committal social meet. If it goes further then great. If it doesn't then no problem.
Works both ways too, without awkwardness. |
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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago
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I always take the _iew that a social first is the best way, I don't generally cam. Attraction works both ways and isn't mandatory just because we're on here. Hopefully a nice social chat may lead to something more if you hit it off, but I don't go with any pre-conceived expectations, other than hopefully a pleasant natter over a drink/snack |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the first meet i had off here i'd talked to for so long..id really forgotten id not seen his face...when we met he said 'i'd imagined you blonde',and ,if i'd seen his face pic i probably wouldnt have met him, but because of our previous chats, we were fine, had a great time ,and met him again....wouldnt meet anyone now without a pic,but i was lucky with him! he was a lovely intro to fab... |
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Id struggle to say much, if deceit had been used and it would remain a social meet.
I get alarmed when people just have snippets of themselves in their pics. What is the hidden meaning or possibly not being revealed? Blurred pics, that can hide a house of horrors, a body that has indistinguishable form from a beanpole or a whale.
I don't want surprises that will hasten my death from shock or heart attacks.
Similar to the maids that greet and vet punters at certain establishments, I need a possible equivalent that can screen out the oddbods and provide a corporate style thanks but no thanks, on yer bike. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cant imagine they would too vastly different from their pics. So if they weren't my cup of tea in the first place I probably wouldn't meet.
They'd have to have a face like a seriously fucked up bag of spanners though. What if their body was absolutely amazing instead. And just so happened their moosh hadn't caught up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I warn people in advance I look better in photos. Saves some of the look of sheer disappointment. I quite like doggie style anyway, which helps.
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Lmao. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I choose not to cam. Its not my thing at all. I'm well verified so don't feel I need to prove the pictures are me, or recently which some of them are - but I've not changed vastly since I put my pics on - maybe a little slimmer)
Not from fab, but I did meet someone from online who was nothing like his pictures - I actually walked past him. And I told him I was not happy at being deceived and that nothing would happen. I would react exactly the same via fab.
I'm not that desperate for a shag that I'd do a charity fuck. |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"so i was wondering what people do when they turn up to a meet and the photo was obviously on a VERY good day?
do you say "no thanks..." or just crack on and think of England? "
I would only ever agree to a meet on the basis that what happens (or not) is based on whether we find each other mutually attractive/click.
I'm definitely not part of the 'any hole is a goal' brigade.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online.... "
I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the same on any Social Media site, look at your friends on Facebook and Twitter etc, always use their most flattering pic as their profile pic! Human nature.
In my case you can't polish a turd so I have to accept I'm facially challenged whatever so no amount of filters or soft focus will help! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's the same on any Social Media site, look at your friends on Facebook and Twitter etc, always use their most flattering pic as their profile pic! Human nature.
In my case you can't polish a turd so I have to accept I'm facially challenged whatever so no amount of filters or soft focus will help! "
Excuse me- I've seen your face & you are definitely NOT facially challenged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....
I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly. "
Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My pics are my own I would not lie about what I look like I'm me and will always be me love me or hate me. What you see is what you get.
Hope that's clear as mud he he he |
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"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....
I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly. "
Oh no - the fog has gone!!
Don't worry, I've got two bags in my pocket - just in case one falls off!!
Ha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....
I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly.
Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that "
I've so far met polite ones too Some have been so polite they've come back for repeats even after seeing me in real life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....
I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly.
Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that
I've so far met polite ones too Some have been so polite they've come back for repeats even after seeing me in real life "
Lol me too!!....and sssshhhh.....don't tell anyone but I've got padding in my bra too and my hair isn't it's natural colour....and I wear make up .....but not all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always have a quick coffee social with guys first. If I don't fancy them I'll just talk about really wanting a boyfriend and how I'm not over my ex and if they still aren't put off by that I'll say that I don't think I'm ready yet to be meeting people. I always try and leave things with them thinking I'm a fruitcake and that they've had a lucky escape. I have massive issues with rejection and I never want to be someone who makes anyone feel bad about themselves even for a second. "
Looking at ur pics I can't imagine they'd care if ur a fruit cake lol. I'm straight btw but can give a girl a compliment lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes its happened to me twice - I never learnt lesson first time around
First time was fem who knew of me but never met, after a few text messages, we agreed to meet , she sent "recent" face/body pics, I returned favour - with no disrespect to lager women (who I adore), her pic was a pretty, smart slender size 16 ish, in reality she was a size 28 plus and was horrid looking
Second time was a supposed to be a MF couple - you guessed it, when I arrived, it was a fella on his own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....
I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly.
Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that
I've so far met polite ones too Some have been so polite they've come back for repeats even after seeing me in real life
Lol me too!!....and sssshhhh.....don't tell anyone but I've got padding in my bra too and my hair isn't it's natural colour....and I wear make up .....but not all the time "
You deceitful hussy! I feel so misled. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....
I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly.
Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that
I've so far met polite ones too Some have been so polite they've come back for repeats even after seeing me in real life
Lol me too!!....and sssshhhh.....don't tell anyone but I've got padding in my bra too and my hair isn't it's natural colour....and I wear make up .....but not all the time "
In the interests of full disclosure I now have to dye my hair back to its original pre-grey colour every couple of weeks. My boobs are far from round without the cantilevering effects of a bra. And I am blind as a bat without glasses or contact lenses. Such a catch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....
I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly.
Yep exactly this....although I do have some photos that I haven't messed about with....i haven't had anyone recoil in horror when they've seen me....maybe they are just being polite ...but either way I still get the sex....ok it maybe sympathy sex, but I'll take that
I've so far met polite ones too Some have been so polite they've come back for repeats even after seeing me in real life
Lol me too!!....and sssshhhh.....don't tell anyone but I've got padding in my bra too and my hair isn't it's natural colour....and I wear make up .....but not all the time
In the interests of full disclosure I now have to dye my hair back to its original pre-grey colour every couple of weeks. My boobs are far from round without the cantilevering effects of a bra. And I am blind as a bat without glasses or contact lenses. Such a catch! "
Sounds perfect. Need to book my tickets.
At least then you won't see how short i am or my hairy face.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's the same on any Social Media site, look at your friends on Facebook and Twitter etc, always use their most flattering pic as their profile pic! Human nature.
In my case you can't polish a turd so I have to accept I'm facially challenged whatever so no amount of filters or soft focus will help!
Excuse me- I've seen your face & you are definitely NOT facially challenged. "
Aw, bless you  very kind (thank you) but I'm sticking to my original assessment - a face only a mother could love |
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"Which is why it's so funny when some people go to so much trouble to photoshop/ stage their photos so they look better online....
I stage and filter the fuck out of mine, but I credit people with enough intelligence to know that I don't travel with a permanent vignette and soft focus fog around me, and adjust their expectations accordingly. "
Really! I'm gutted. |
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